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I respect a woman's decision to strip. It's the men that are getting exploited willingly.
I concur.
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I respect a woman's decision to strip. It's the men that are getting exploited willingly.
Some of the people are insane around here.
The old timers don't want entertainment type places for some reason, then they expect the kids to act all pure and wholesome.
In my town of 10k people, we have 2 "wholesome" things you can do.
They built a skateboard park and football games.
That leaves much "fun" to be had.
Some of the people are insane around here.
The old timers don't want entertainment type places for some reason, then they expect the kids to act all pure and wholesome.
In my town of 10k people, we have 2 "wholesome" things you can do.
They built a skateboard park and football games.
That leaves much "fun" to be had.
Yeah. My original home-church preacher figured that anything other than church-sponsored events, or hunting or fishing, was sin. :roll:
Bored and frustrated teenagers with nothing to do are a terrible thing.
That's why the internet was invented. It keep us occupied.
I'd say fully half of them are one-timers; they come in in groups out of curiosity or out of pressure from their friends, just to see what it's like.
Then there's another large chunk that only goes occasionally, usually with one buddy, or two.
These guys don't have any loyalty to any particular establishment or girl. They're the type that gets drunk and bored with their friends on a Friday night once in a while and decide, "Hey, let's go hit up a strip club or three".
Unlike the first-timers (who tend to be nervous and overly-awed by the whole situation), these guys sometimes become rambunctious.
Finally, there are regulars, and yes, strip-club regulars are weird.
Sometimes interesting-weird and sometimes creepy-weird.
But they only comprise a minority of the over-all patrons.
Most could not be classified as "regulars", and I'm pretty sure that many of them are "normal". Lot of gangs of rowdy college guys, stuff like that.
The regs tend to be older, and have more money. And they almost invariably come in alone.
So, yeah: regardless of where I formed my opinions about what guys find physically attractive in females, I believe they're valid. My experience is rather broad-based. I mean, I've watched thousands of guys and hundreds of girls over many thousands of hours.
And, because of my tendency to ponder things and form theories, I paid pretty close attention.
I feel like I learned a lot there, on this one particular topic.
I feel like I have a PhD in this topic, actually. Socio-sexual gender interactions, or something.
Not that any of the knowledge I gleaned from such places is worth anything, materially speaking.
But sometimes it's interesting to know things just for the sake of knowing them.
I can walk into a room full of females and line them up in order of how much money they'd make in a club.
I know what makes men choose one woman over another, in a situation where all are equally available.
Assuming AE is referring to strip clubs and suchlike, it seems to be rapidly becoming a commonplace rite of passage. I'm thinking that 90% of young men between 21-29 have been to a strip club at least once. If I had to guess I'd say half of them went once or twice a month for a year or more, and some of those continue to do so.
Nowadays they're everywhere, and put up billboards on the highway, and the stigma has largely worn off. And I live in the buckle on the Bible Belt! :roll:
When I was 25, the only strip club in the county was down a dirt road, on a wooded acreage with a gate and no sign. You had to know somebody to get in. (I never went, it seemed likely to be far too sordid and embarassing.)
Boy have things changed; people see this as normal now. Some men even go with their wife or GF, apparently. Personally I don't think this is a good change; I don't think it teaches young men any respect for women, for sure. The opposite, more like.
Some of the people are insane around here.
The old timers don't want entertainment type places for some reason, then they expect the kids to act all pure and wholesome.
In my town of 10k people, we have 2 "wholesome" things you can do.
They built a skateboard park and football games.
That leaves much "fun" to be had.
Materially speaking? The knowledge you have on this subject could make for a good read which could bring you some mad money
And perhaps it will someday; my memoir will contain exactly one (1) chapter on it.
This is unlikely to benefit me monetarily, however, because I don't plan to write my memoir until I'm old and dying.
I'd say that the survey results are pretty accurate in my own experience. Early 30's was my peak for looks- not too young and bouncy, but not old enough to be a victim to gravity yet, and definitely no longer an empty-headed piece of fluff.
That being said, 50's is where it's at psychologically and emotionally. I absolutely love it!
Roger that.
Have you seen this video? I was a bit hysterical.
lizzie said:That being said, 50's is where it's at psychologically and emotionally. I absolutely love it!
Too bad it's not physically though, unless you're a fetishist that chases grannies. No offense.
I've learned one simple truth from women: the best age to be is whatever age they're currently at - and the age they say they're currently at is 29.
Too bad it's not physically though, unless you're a fetishist that chases grannies. No offense.
I'm thinking it's a more common rite of passage in urban areas than in rural areas.
Adult-oriented businesses tend to proliferate around military bases; most military guys have probably been to one.
i've been, but i'm kind of wierd myself; and while my buddies were staring at the bouncing flesh i checked out the faces. then i realized that these women were at work (and, at times, about as excited about their job as i was about mine), and it kind of ruined the whole experience for me.
i will generally agree that you get a rough cross section of american males through a club at some point or another; but remember also behavioral differences. at a strip club, you are generallly there to engage in a different kind of sensual experience than you are when you (for example) begin to date a girl, or marry one. most folks are not the same people at sports games, strip clubs, or casinos as they are on a regular basis.
personally, i tend to agree that the early 20's are the sexiest years, but then, my wife is 24 and i am 27. ask me in 10 years and i may have a very different answer. our opinions of these things are malleable according to what we put in front of our eyes and in our minds; and i consiously make the point to focus on my wife as the chief source of feminine beauty and sexuality in my life.
back to the personal; as to yourself and kali etc; i will say i find your life interesting, because it is so very different from my own; son of a minister, youth pastor, military, etc; you have a unique read.
Yeah.
I've encountered many guys who were perceptive enough to see that.
Ironically, dancers hate guys like that.
It's like, "Can't you see I'm working, fool? If I can be up here night after night, in costume, in persona, pretending this is fun instead of a job, the least you can do is play along."
What I really hated was guys who would say, "You look bored."
I'd always say, "I'm not bored. That's just how my face is."
Inside I'd be wondering, "Seriously. How do you expect me to respond to that? This is my job. Either give me money or go away and leave me alone."
Agreed.
Agreed; I'd say nearly all of the 20s.
Many women do not even begin to fade until their late 20s.
When you're older, you may agree. It's hard to see it objectively, when you're still in your 20s.
I definitely think that by the 30s, however, the physical decline has begun, for most women, even though they may just be coming into their own, intellectually and personality-wise.
My son is in the military. We have something in common after all.
Younger women are sort of like parfait... nice for an appetizer or dessert, but for the main course you want red meat you can sink your teeth into, and for that you usually have to go over 30. :mrgreen:
I'd rather be alone than with most of the males on the planet. .
I had to read that one a couple of times, because the first time through I didn't notice the word "than".
I had to read that one a couple of times, because the first time through I didn't notice the word "than".