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I don't agree with this.
Before I met my wife, I was 16 and on the hunt for a woman in her 30's.
Maturity is very attractive.
Age hasn't been a big deal to me, hardly ever.
I'm the opposite.
I was always and only attracted to guys my own age.
I know that's kind of unusual for a girl; a lot of my friends, in their teens, were interested in guys in their 20s. College guys. It was a status symbol to have one.
I wasn't interested in that.
My first husband was my age; my second husband is also my age.
Possibly, if I ever have to look for a third husband, it won't matter quite as much anymore if he's a few years older or younger.
I think the thing was that a lot of what I had in common in the past with both of my husbands was cultural stuff- liking the same music, the same styles, etc.
Those things are important when you're a teenager, at least they were to me.
I didn't feel like an older guy would understand me or the things I was into.
Or he'd have outgrown it already.
I wanted to have fun with somebody my own age, not hang around with some jaded old fart who would make fun of everything I liked and who'd already done everything i wanted to do.
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