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Your first time?

Did you enjoy the first time you had intercourse?

  • I'm a female and enjoyed my first time

    Votes: 2 6.1%

  • I'm a female and did NOT enjoy my first time

    Votes: 8 24.2%

  • I'm male and enjoyed my first time

    Votes: 18 54.5%

  • I'm male and did NOT enjoy my first time

    Votes: 4 12.1%

  • I do not remember if I enjoyed it or not

    Votes: 1 3.0%
  • Total voters
    33
Ahhhh yes.....

My first time............

I remember it just like it was yesterday....

I enjoyed it immensely. But I must admit I was rather nervous and scared....

The lights were off..... It was so dark.......

And I was there.... All by myself...... :rofl
 
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rivrrat said:
Most of the sex I had as a teen was pretty crappy. I didn't orgasm outside masturbation until well into my 20s. As I've gotten older and more experienced and more sexually confident, the sex has only gotten better. I have to sit and chuckle at my teenage sexcapades and how clumsy and awkward they were. How I knew so little about sex in general, much less what I needed to please myself or how to please my partner.

But, they were a learning experience and without them I doubt I'd have grown to be as sexually confident as I am, and to know what I want and exactly how to get it.
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Sounds exactly like me. Akward and clumsy are such good ways to describe those years.
 
americanwoman said:
Akward and clumsy are such good ways to describe those years.
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I wasn't awkward or clumsy in bed when I was a teen.

I was spastic and twitchy.

Recently I've elevated my game to awkward and clumsy. In the future I hope to reach "Not as bad as I expected, but I've had better... much better" and I hope before I die I can become "Half-assed decent".
 
missypea said:
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My first time.
His first time.


After he was in, I thought I would split in two.
One stroke. I thought I was gonna die.

I told him it hurt, I was done, and to get off of me.

That's the short version. Not very romantic.
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See I just soldiered through it b/c I figured it would stop hurting and start feeling good, but of course it didn't. Plus I did not want to come across as a wimp. I don't think first timers think about having some lubrications at the ready. It sure would have helped.
 
Arcana XV said:
Wow. Am I the only female on this board who didn't have a crappy first time? :shock:
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I couldn't be everyone's first. I'm only one man.
 
Arcana XV said:
Wow. Am I the only female on this board who didn't have a crappy first time? :shock:
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You're not the only one.

Mine was good, despite it not being the same type of exhilarating experiences I've had since. Like other females here, sex only gets better as we age. Men peak at 20 while we are more like fine wine. ;)
 
Middleground said:
You're not the only one.

Mine was good, despite it not being the same type of exhilarating experiences I've had since. Like other females here, sex only gets better as we age. Men peak at 20 while we are more like fine wine. ;)
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You didn't have Sportscenter, that's why. :2razz:
 
Horrible, did not enjoy it at all. Took me years to even try it again.
 
My first time sucked! It was with guy who just could not wait to get inside of me and it hurt. Not in a good hurting sexually way either. This guy could not wait to ram his penis into me and had NO Skills what so ever! I hated it and ended up bleeding all over his bed and regret my choice to give my cherry to him to this day! I should have saved it but thought I was in love. Yeah right. * snickers* We did end up going out somemore but he was not a good lover at all!
 
Captain America said:
Ahhhh yes.....

My first time............

I remember it just like it was yesterday....

I enjoyed it immensely. But I must admit I was rather nervous and scared....

The lights were off..... It was so dark.......

And I was there.... All by myself...... :rofl
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C'mon guys! Show me some love! That was some funny sh** right there!

:3oops:
 
Well, my daddy told me once, when the other reindeer wouldn't let me join in their reindeer games, "Son, if nobody wants to play with you, go play with yourself."

Best advice the old fart ever gave me. :mrgreen:
 
I really did not enjoy my first-time when compared to all the great sex I had later and am having now.
 
Yeah, it sucked. It hurt, it was over far too quickly, and the woman discussed it far too vividly with far too many people. And my bastard friends gave me a nickname based on the experience. It was humiliating.

Needless to say, it has gotten better over the years.
 
I'd have to say my first time was a mixed bag. Being new to the whole thing, I'd really only had my imagination to go on up to that point. Some of the things we did lived up to or exceeded what I'd imagined... while one thing in particular did not. In fact it was rather unpleasant. All-in-all, it was okay. You live and learn. In the future I knew to say 'No, I'm not into that.'

:cool:
 
I don't really remember my first time... or my second.
 
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