Our daughter is BRILLIANT in the hair styling field.
She's quite simply, a beauty expert in every way.
She lives in Portland in a house she rents with her female BFF.
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She went to school for it and EVEN PAID OFF her student loan 100% with NO help from us!
Of course, as a result, she now has a credit score of something like 780, pretty impressive.
One day she just decided that she didn't want to do hair anymore, walked into the salon and quit.
Naturally, as her money ran out, she needed help and we gave her help, without hesitation, all the while
questioning the wisdom of throwing away a trade education that cost her a pretty penny.
Recently she told us that she and her BFF want to start a CANDLE MAKING business.
Yeah, right...like there's only something like 7636538347563614894960977351243430967634542324343228958967
OTHER "candle making businesses" out there and I suspect 99.9999999999999999% of them don't make dollar ONE.
Is my daughter nutz? Maybe, a little bit.
But Miss Karen told daughter that quite frankly we cannot afford to keep her afloat AND pay our own bills AND support
her disabled brother AND handle the consequences if she gets evicted.
So now, her and her best friend have decided that they're going to do DoorDash but the weird part is, they're planning
to SPLIT the income from this one job between the two of them, she does the driving and her NON-driving bestie does the
walking of the delivery stuff to the door and back.
One job split between two people isn't going to be near enough $$$.
And through it all my wife is doling out more tough love.
Our daughter is too strong, too healthy, too smart and too beautiful to not simply GET after it and go make a decent living.
And my Navy wife is now talking about how boot camp might have straightened a lot of this out.
Since there's no way our daughter is going to serve in the Navy, that leaves US two as the "drill instructors" in a manner of speaking.
And to do otherwise would equal us being awful parents...the little birdie HAS to learn to fly on its own.