I just find that those without kids become very self centered and always need to get away for a weekend for stress relief. And I think What Stress?
I currently have no children. I do have a kid on the way, but I don't deal with the stress of children ATM.
But I would say that I
do deal with a lot of stress. Far more than most of my friends who
do have children.
More on that in a minute.
But I truly think if the only butt you ever wiped is your own then you have this strong tendency to be so self-centered and I hate to say it but "wimpy".
I wipe the ass of a 200+ lb 59-year-old man on a daily basis (my father who suffered brain damage 4 /12 years ago).
In addition to taking care of my dad, I also take care of my 82 year-old grandmother everyday. Thankfully she can wipe her oiwn ass, but she is fairly addled and needs to be watched as she would blow up the house if she got the chance.
Since May, I've been gut remodelling two different homes after work (which is taking care of my father and grandmother) doing all of the work myself (this week I'm building a two-story back deck) except on the days that I go to school for my master's degree.
On top of that, I'm running a charity benefit for my best friend who suffers from the same liver disease that Walter Payton died from. He's on the waiting list for a liver transplant. We raised $18,000 for him just this past sunday.
Not only have I not had any type of vacation to speak of for about 5 years, I haven't even had a day off for over 4 months.
Over these past 4 months, I've typically been leaving my house at 6 am and getting back home again at around 10 PM everyday. Admittedly, since football season started, I've been slotting off the time that the Bears' games are on as a little bit of recreation time to myself.
So even though I don't have any children at the moment, I don't think anyone would call me self-centered. And
nobody would think that I don't deal with stress.
The problem with your post, IMO, is that it presumes that the only "real" stress that exists is related to child-rearing.
I think that I deal with far more stress than most of my friends with kids do (I would say the lone exception is my friend who needs the liver transplant and his wife. They are dealing with serious stress right now, especially considering his wife was layed off recently. I consider myself very lucky that I'm not in their shoes, which is why I have done so much to help them over the last year or so.)
Another flaw in your post is that you presume that having kids has some relationship with being self-centered. I know of a few peopel who are very self-centered who do have children, and I know many people who are always giving of themselves who have none of their own.