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Why are you in the relationship you are in?

I have never had any doubts. We moved in together shortly after we met. You know the lesbian U Haul date That would be the second one. We have been happy ever since. Never thought of moving out. I returned the U Haul two days after. That is a lesbian precaution so if it's not working you can get the hell out fast and not worry about renting again so quickly.
 
tessaesque said:
Please don't use Plentyoffish! OKCupid or even the pay-to-play sites...ANYTHING but Plentyoffish. It could be area dependent, mind you, but the two people I know who've used POF have ended up pooling a bunch of freaks, losers, and perverts. I could tell you some pretty crazy stories. For your own sanity, please reconsider, man!
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lol, i've heard several similar ringing endorsements about that site. probably will get off my posterior some time this year and actually take some proactive steps to give dating another shot. i've also heard to avoid eharmony. maybe okcupid or something.

however, i'd still love to hear the crazy stories. i have a couple from my friends and myself, as well. my own are almost far enough in the past to be funny. almost.
 
Because she is perfection and also the only perfectly decent person I've ever met or could have imagined could exist.
 
katiegrrl0 said:
I have never had any doubts. We moved in together shortly after we met. You know the lesbian U Haul date That would be the second one. We have been happy ever since. Never thought of moving out. I returned the U Haul two days after. That is a lesbian precaution so if it's not working you can get the hell out fast and not worry about renting again so quickly.
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I remember a funny You Tube video on instructions on how to be a lesbian:

Rule #6 - Have U-Haul on speed dial.

LOL
 
joko104 said:
I remember a funny You Tube video on instructions on how to be a lesbian:

Rule #6 - Have U-Haul on speed dial.

LOL
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It's so true. I mean it. We move in fast filled with hope and dreams and two day's later it's like, "what the hell was I thinking." hehehehehehe The nature of many lesbian relationships.
 
katiegrrl0 said:
I have never had any doubts. We moved in together shortly after we met. You know the lesbian U Haul date That would be the second one. We have been happy ever since. Never thought of moving out. I returned the U Haul two days after. That is a lesbian precaution so if it's not working you can get the hell out fast and not worry about renting again so quickly.
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We made it to the third actual date, but we knew each other for at least a year.
 
wolfsgirl said:
We made it to the third actual date, but we knew each other for at least a year.
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katiegrrl0 said:
I have never had any doubts. We moved in together shortly after we met. You know the lesbian U Haul date That would be the second one. We have been happy ever since. Never thought of moving out. I returned the U Haul two days after. That is a lesbian precaution so if it's not working you can get the hell out fast and not worry about renting again so quickly.
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It must be the lesbian part of me that compels me, then. I moved in with my last serious boyfriend after less than a month. with current beau I started staying over on the weekends by the second week and throughout the week by the 4th week. Was completely moved in before June 1st (we got together April 20th).
 
tessaesque said:
It must be the lesbian part of me that compels me, then. I moved in with my last serious boyfriend after less than a month. with current beau I started staying over on the weekends by the second week and throughout the week by the 4th week. Was completely moved in before June 1st (we got together April 20th).
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It is the lesbian dating syndrome. Date once consider the U Haul date twice rent it and pack or make space for the newest love of our lives. hehehehehe
 
I decided to marry my wife because I love her and believed she was a person I could grow old with.

I realized she was the right person when, three months before the wedding when my father had an accident and suffered severe brain damage due to that accident. He spent the next six months in a coma, meaning he was in a coma on our wedding day. In between the ceremony and the reception, we went to visit my comatose father at the hospital as husband and wife. Once we got there, I lost it entirely. She stood next to me silently, just holding my hand without saying a word, until I was done. She was just there for me, with me, during what was one of the single hardest moments of my life.

How could I not be with a woman like that?
 
katiegrrl0 said:
Third date!!!!! I'm shocked. Slacker!!!!! :2razz:
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We did live 12 hours apart. Driving for those dates was heinous. I think it was cheaper to just move.
 
Helix said:
i've also been single since a failed engagement a few years back. i'm not much for fighting, and i haven't found someone who is willing to accept the reality that the first six months' lust and infatuation transforms into comfort, peace, and a lifelong partnership. i have gone on some dates since, but i am so careful now that it just isn't as much fun. plus the dating pool in my immediate area has evaporated into a puddle. if i do it again, plentyoffish, here i come.
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I'm just a crazy magnet. It's what I get for being attracted to redheads, lol. To be fair, I'm a bit crazy myself, so what're ya gonna do, you know? **** it. Enjoy your freedom, learn from it, and go back on the "market" when you're ready, not when others tell you that you're ready.
 
wolfsgirl said:
We did live 12 hours apart. Driving for those dates was heinous. I think it was cheaper to just move.
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I agree it was cheaper to move. How long did the U Haul sit out front or were you absolutely sure? hehehehehehe
 
Tucker Case said:
I decided to marry my wife because I love her and believed she was a person I could grow old with.

I realized she was the right person when, three months before the wedding when my father had an accident and suffered severe brain damage due to that accident. He spent the next six months in a coma, meaning he was in a coma on our wedding day. In between the ceremony and the reception, we went to visit my comatose father at the hospital as husband and wife. Once we got there, I lost it entirely. She stood next to me silently, just holding my hand without saying a word, until I was done. She was just there for me, with me, during what was one of the single hardest moments of my life.

How could I not be with a woman like that?
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A beautiful tale of love. Hugzzzz
 
katiegrrl0 said:
I agree it was cheaper to move. How long did the U Haul sit out front or were you absolutely sure? hehehehehehe
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It went back the day I arrived. I was totally sure.
 
I'm alone because I am a miserable unlovable prick with nothing to offer anyone. I don't even try to date anymore because it wouldn't be fair to the kind of decent, trusting, warm-hearted person who would give me a chance.
 
Superfly said:
OK I have to ask, since no one else is. What the frock is a lesbian uhaul date??
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The joke is:

Q: Where do lesbians go on their second date?
A: U-Haul.

The implied stereotype being that lesbians move way too fast in serious relationships. Because, you know, neither one of them is dealing with a man who wants to slow things down and think seriously.

The opposite joke, of course, has homosexual men going to the county health department for their second date.
 
i actually like the romantic idea of the u-haul date.

and i completely empathize with the level of mistake that it probably is most of the time. still, it makes me smile.
 
Superfly said:
OK I have to ask, since no one else is. What the frock is a lesbian uhaul date??
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LOL Lesbians are none for very short term deep relationship that can end quickly. We move in on the second date that is called the U Haul date. Shortly after sometimes the U Haul is rented so you can haul your things elsewhere because the relationship did not work out. That's a U Haul date.
 
Helix said:
i actually like the romantic idea of the u-haul date.

and i completely empathize with the level of mistake that it probably is most of the time. still, it makes me smile.
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I did know a women who rented three U Hal trailers in a month. It's not as common as some think but once you have bonded with this other woman it seems like a good thing to move in.Lesbians also hang out with old flames a lot. We stay friends many times. I still hang with some of the girls I used to date. Hell I have even slept with them again. Years ago.
 
katiegrrl0 said:
I did know a women who rented three U Hal trailers in a month. It's not as common as some think but once you have bonded with this other woman it seems like a good thing to move in.Lesbians also hang out with old flames a lot. We stay friends many times. I still hang with some of the girls I used to date. Hell I have even slept with them again. Years ago.
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4:20 Rule 12 - Have U-Haul on speed dial
 
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katiegrrl0 said:
LOL Lesbians are none for very short term deep relationship that can end quickly. We move in on the second date that is called the U Haul date. Shortly after sometimes the U Haul is rented so you can haul your things elsewhere because the relationship did not work out. That's a U Haul date.
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:lol: OK gotcha. Thanks! Learn something new every day.
 
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