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Signs that SHE is just not that into you....

Josie

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Josie said:
Feel free to add your thoughts from your experiences - guys and girls!
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Signs that SHE is just not that into you....

When she shows you her engagement ring from another guy.

My shirttail nephew actually told me this: Dan: "Yeah, my girlfriend and I broke up last week." Me: "Oh, Dan, I'm sorry. What happened?" Dan: "Well, I got good and mad..." Me: "What about?" Dan: "After she showed me her engagement ring from Tony, I was through."

(Insert Face Palm Here.)
 
when she says "im not gay but ill learn"
 
She responds to your texts with one word responses.
 
When you know you both are not that much into each other?

When in bed she calls you by the wrong name repeatedly - and you're glad because that means she's not going to be clingy the next day.
 
Her Facebook page has mentions of other guys and pics of them... but your name and pic are not to be found there....
 
When she pretends she's painting her house so she doesn't have to answer Skype.
 
When she has to try to laugh at your jokes and isn't really engaged in your conversation.....at all. Some guys don't get it and try so hard, it's painful to watch.

beerftw said:
when she says "im not gay but ill learn"
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LMAO
 
For me it was always: Not canceling any appointments or avoiding favorite movies on TV I've seen a million times to talk with you on the phone or give you much of any attention.

:shrug:
 
You know, I would have thought 'she flinches when you touch her' but apparently not.
 
Goshin said:
Her Facebook page has mentions of other guys and pics of them... but your name and pic are not to be found there....
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I resent Facebook for what it's done to relationships. I'm not saying you're not right, but beyond that, it's changed the whole dating culture. I stubbornly refuse to have a relationship status until Facebook makes it possible for me to put, "It's complicated with Writing."

But to be fair, my Facebook is pretty much just a dummy account as a representative of the paper, so I don't really use it for anything personal. I have it basically to remind people we exist and we have a website.

But even if that weren't the case, I think it's really sad that one's relationship status on Facebook has suddenly become so much more important than what you're doing face-to-face.
 
Viktyr Korimir said:
You know, I would have thought 'she flinches when you touch her' but apparently not.
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LOL - the average guy interprets that body language as 'playing hard to get' - the misfiring of the synapses occurs when the parasympathetic nervous system is rife with A spike in norepinephrine.

Issues - somewhere along the evolutionary ladder it happened.
 
She doesn't put her phone down ONCE during dinner.
She invites her best gay guy friend on all of your "dates".
She never wears make-up around you. EVER.
She burps or farts without blushing in front of you.
She says, "Why can't I find a nice guy like you?"
 
One sign that's she's not into me is that her fingers don't stink.

Wait, what are we talking about?
 
I am female ... if a man asked me out that I would never be interested in romantically ... I would just tell him directly that as cool as he is and many women would be so very interested ... I am crushing on someone/involved with someone etc.

I did have a man invite me to a Fiona Apple concert recently. I knew I would never really fall for this guy yet I liked him as a friend. I did want to go to the concert with him as we both appreciate the vocalist and have a cool friendship connection.

I was just straightforward and told him I would love to attend with him (yet not as a date) and would be willing to buy pay for my own ticket or understand if he wanted to invite someone else. (Tickets were sold out).

He was very cool and said ...nah come on with me my treat and we will have fun. I took him to dinner after the concert and we had a great time.

I was doing some work in that city and and a few days later invited him to join the group of researchers I was working with at a wine bar in the city ... ( a few single women were part of the work group).

Long story short ... he ended up hitting it off with one of my casual friends and they are now dating and both of them live in the same city.

I think being transparent is the best approach and keeping feelings in mind.

Guys ... Ladies ...even if someone you are attracted to or crush on does not seem to share the sentiment do not take it personally. You never know what is in that persons head space or if they want to be alone or they are in a relationship or crushing on another.

Politeness and transparency is the best policy imho.
 
SmokeAndMirrors said:
I resent Facebook for what it's done to relationships. I'm not saying you're not right, but beyond that, it's changed the whole dating culture. I stubbornly refuse to have a relationship status until Facebook makes it possible for me to put, "It's complicated with Writing."

But to be fair, my Facebook is pretty much just a dummy account as a representative of the paper, so I don't really use it for anything personal. I have it basically to remind people we exist and we have a website.

But even if that weren't the case, I think it's really sad that one's relationship status on Facebook has suddenly become so much more important than what you're doing face-to-face.
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Yeah, I don't really do Facebook. The only reason I have a page at all is because so many people I know do FB and ASSUME that all their friends read their page regularly and know what is going on... so they don't usually bother to phone you and tell you "I won't be there Sat cuz Johnny broke his leg"... annoys the @#$# out of me but what do you do.

For almost everyone under 25 though, it's like "if it isn't on FB, with pics, it didn't happen and it ain't goin' on".
 
tessaesque said:
She never wears make-up around you. EVER.
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I never wear make-up around anyone. If I do, it's Halloween, and the make-up is insane.

Feeling no urge to make myself look like something I'm not for someone else's benefit is not a sign that I'm not into someone. It's a sign that I don't wear make-up because I don't like to.

From most guys I've talked to, they don't really like make-up anyway. If I did wear make-up, I'd probably wear less if I were going to be around my partner. I've yet to meet a guy who likes kissing a girl who's wearing a ton of face.
 
SmokeAndMirrors said:
I never wear make-up around anyone. If I do, it's Halloween, and the make-up is insane.

Feeling no urge to make myself look like something I'm not for someone else's benefit is not a sign that I'm not into someone. It's a sign that I don't wear make-up because I don't like to.

From most guys I've talked to, they don't really like make-up anyway. If I did wear make-up, I'd probably wear less if I were going to be around my partner. I've yet to meet a guy who likes kissing a girl who's wearing a ton of face.
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Some make up tastes like soap or something. Seems like forever to get that taste out of your mouth. What's in makeup anyway? Isn't like some kind of dirt or clay or something?
 
Risky Thicket said:
Some make up tastes like soap or something. Seems like forever to get that taste out of your mouth. What's in makeup anyway? Isn't like some kind of dirt or clay or something?
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Yeah, and lots of other crap besides.

I knew this woman who just caked herself in foundation and concealer. It looked like you could scrape it off in sheets. I asked her why the hell she wore so much.

"Because I have bad skin."

:doh

And somehow it didn't occur to her that maybe the reason she has bad skin is because her skin can't breathe.
 
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