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if an ex calls you

Medusa

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because he worries whether something happened to you or not in recent earthquake .what would you feel if you heard he was really fearful about you and his voice was so anxious ,l feel so confused.
 
Medusa said:
because he worries whether something happened to you or not in recent earthquake .what would you feel if you heard he was really fearful about you and his voice was so anxious ,l feel so confused.
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Concern is NOT the same as romantic attachment.
 
Medusa said:
because he worries whether something happened to you or not in recent earthquake .what would you feel if you heard he was really fearful about you and his voice was so anxious ,l feel so confused.
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In a situation such as you have described, I think the first thing I would wonder is why I didn't know I was gay.
 
Well, to me, it would indicate that he cared about my well-being. Would it mean that he wanted to take back up where we left off? Probably not. When my ex came to the funerals of my husband, and my father, he was being gracious, and expressing that he still cares about me, in spite of our differences and our history.
 
I'm friends with most of my exes. No biggy. He knows you live in the affected area, he was checking on someone he knows and at least USED to care about.

Don't read too much into it.



Women, man. They think EVERYTHING has some hidden meaning, lol. Trust me, we dudes put FAR less thought into stuuf than you ladies do.
 
Medusa said:
because he worries whether something happened to you or not in recent earthquake .what would you feel if you heard he was really fearful about you and his voice was so anxious ,l feel so confused.
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Good advice being given. He was just concerned. Doesn't mean he's opening a door again. In fact, he might have worried about even calling you because he was afraid you'd take it the wrong way.

So don't take it the wrong way. Sounds like he's a good guy who cares about your well-being, and wanted to make sure you were OK. Nothing more.
 
Superfly said:
Good advice being given. He was just concerned. Doesn't mean he's opening a door again. In fact, he might have worried about even calling you because he was afraid you'd take it the wrong way.

So don't take it the wrong way. Sounds like he's a good guy who cares about your well-being, and wanted to make sure you were OK. Nothing more.
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.) merci superfly but he isnt that good..((
 
Medusa said:
because he worries whether something happened to you or not in recent earthquake .what would you feel if you heard he was really fearful about you and his voice was so anxious ,l feel so confused.
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Maybe he wanted to get laid.
 
Okay...so when Medusa breaks up with a guy, he essentially falls off the face of the planet, no matter what.

*writes information down*
 
Medusa said:
he can find many whores in istanbul l think
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A lot of men don't want to have sex with those types of women.


He also may have been genuinely concerned about you.

Just because it's an ex doesn't necessarily mean he hates you or anything like that.
 
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Superfly said:
Good advice being given. He was just concerned. Doesn't mean he's opening a door again. In fact, he might have worried about even calling you because he was afraid you'd take it the wrong way.

So don't take it the wrong way. Sounds like he's a good guy who cares about your well-being, and wanted to make sure you were OK. Nothing more.
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:agree: It has to be nice to know that he still thinks well of you! :thumbs:

Greetings, Superfly. :2wave:
 
Gipper said:
Okay...so when Medusa breaks up with a guy, he essentially falls off the face of the planet, no matter what.

*writes information down*
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nobody has to cut your head off in real life as buggs bunny or sylvester in order to be seen as " bad "
 
Muhammed said:
A lot of men don't want to have sex with those types of women.


He also may have been genuinely concerned about you.

Just because it's an ex doesn't necessarily mean he hates you or anything like that.
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but l hate him .he really likes whores
 
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Medusa said:
but l hate him .he really likes whores
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So he shows concern for you, but you crap on him because of the past, which you obviously won't let go.

So much about you is beginning to make sense.
 
Heh, my generation is more likely to send a less than sentimental text.
 
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