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I started a thread, and I used the term sperm donor to refer to my ex. Quite a few people, upon reading that term, were suddenly unable to focus on the overall topic of that thread and, instead, zeroed in on my use of that term. So, I've opened this thread where all these individuals can convene and debate it instead of constantly derailing that thread.
Here: I'll provide my definition for Sperm Donor:
"A male who fathers offspring without any intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life."
As opposed to the use of the term "Dad" or "Father" in which the individual does, in some fashion, have intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life - even if he is not (due to a large number of circumstances).
I started a thread, and I used the term sperm donor to refer to my ex. Quite a few people, upon reading that term, were suddenly unable to focus on the overall topic of that thread and, instead, zeroed in on my use of that term. So, I've opened this thread where all these individuals can convene and debate it instead of constantly derailing that thread.
Here: I'll provide my definition for Sperm Donor:
"A male who fathers offspring without any intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life."
As opposed to the use of the term "Dad" or "Father" in which the individual does, in some fashion, have intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life - even if he is not (due to a large number of circumstances).
If the man signed away his parental rights, his is not legally a father.
Why even have the discussion?
Who gets offended by somebody you don't know being called a sperm doner?
I started a thread, and I used the term sperm donor to refer to my ex. Quite a few people, upon reading that term, were suddenly unable to focus on the overall topic of that thread and, instead, zeroed in on my use of that term. So, I've opened this thread where all these individuals can convene and debate it instead of constantly derailing that thread.
Here: I'll provide my definition for Sperm Donor:
"A male who fathers offspring without any intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life."
As opposed to the use of the term "Dad" or "Father" in which the individual does, in some fashion, have intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life - even if he is not (due to a large number of circumstances).
i am delighted the term 'sperm donor' existsI wish the term "sperm donor" was never invented. Now women like Aunt get to degrade all fathers simply because of biology.
All men are either sperm donors or money donors to women. If you don't fall into either of those categories, you don't exist.
All men are either sperm donors or money donors to women. If you don't fall into either of those categories, you don't exist.
All men are either sperm donors or money donors to women. If you don't fall into either of those categories, you don't exist.
All men are either sperm donors
A reasonable use of the term. "Dad" or "Father" ought rightfully to be a term of respect, reserved for those who actually make an effort to BE THERE for their kids and actually be involved in raising them.
Men who walk away and never look back are not worthy to be called Dad.
I started a thread, and I used the term sperm donor to refer to my ex. Quite a few people, upon reading that term, were suddenly unable to focus on the overall topic of that thread and, instead, zeroed in on my use of that term. So, I've opened this thread where all these individuals can convene and debate it instead of constantly derailing that thread.
Here: I'll provide my definition for Sperm Donor:
"A male who fathers offspring without any intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life."
As opposed to the use of the term "Dad" or "Father" in which the individual does, in some fashion, have intention, desire, want, or concern to be involved in said offspring's life - even if he is not (due to a large number of circumstances).
That's a little too all encompassing and unfair, from my perspective. Not all dads who walked away and never looked back actually know they fathered a child, often because the woman chose not to tell him. There could be other reasons not related to an explicit desire not to have any connection with the child.
As far as being worthy of being called dad, I'm prepared to leave that decision to the child concerned - many have far bigger hearts and far more open minds than the parents who created them.
i am delighted the term 'sperm donor' exists
it allows us to differentiate between those who care for their kids and those who do not
Totally agree Auntie. If they aren't a part of the child's life after birth, then they are not fathers. Just sperm donors. A father is someone who actually cares about and participates in the child's life.
All men are either sperm donors or money donors to women. If you don't fall into either of those categories, you don't exist.
We have Sperm Donors, Biological Fathers, and Fathers. Try not to mix them up please.The only thing that is needed to be a father is to provide sperm. Just because you ladies don't want to accept reality doesn't just make it not a reality. The man will always be that child's father and no one including the father himself can do anything about it. It is what it is.
We have Sperm Donors, Biological Fathers, and Fathers. Try not to mix them up please.
Now if you only want girls we can make them up from two mothers and no males at all. That will get interesting.
As a character in a show I once liked said, that's just wrong on so many levels. That about sums your post.The only person that can ever be a father is a biological father and it makes no difference at all how he came to be a father or what he does after that point.
Feminazis do love the idea of killing all men and using such methods. They are however called insane for a reason.
As a character in a show I once liked said, that's just wrong on so many levels. That about sums your post.
The only person that can ever be a father is a biological father and it makes no difference at all how he came to be a father or what he does after that point.
So what should I call mothers that walk way and don't care for their kids? How can I relate a womans biological function and use that instead of mother? Surely we can't call them what they actually are right?
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