And who would that be?
I think arrogant is a label that can be attached to anyone.
I think stupid is a label that can be attached to anyone.
I think pathetic is a label that can be attached to anyone.
I think loser is a label that can be attached to anyone.
Bottom line, it's still denigratory, but hey, it's your karma!
Personally, I like
Buddha's take on the subject, and I'm pretty sure that both Jesus, Muhammad, and a host of other spiritual wise men would agree.
"As recorded in the Pali Canon, the historical Buddha taught that Right Speech had four parts:
Abstain from false speech; do not tell lies or deceive.
Do not slander others or speak in a way that causes disharmony or enmity.
Abstain from rude, impolite, or abusive language.
Do not indulge in idle talk or gossip."
"Practice of these four aspects of Right Speech goes beyond simple "thou shalt nots." It means speaking truthfully and honestly;
speaking in a way to promote harmony and good will; using language to reduce anger and ease tensions; using language in a way that is useful."
"If your speech is not useful and beneficial, teachers say, it is better to keep silent."