Methusala
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 20, 2014
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- Location
- !! Cape town !!
- Gender
- Male
- Political Leaning
- Undisclosed
Well i have had a lot of time on my hands, but have thought a lot about the way women work, and have a ante in this being a human being and male. males understand what women show them, and, women when they are interested in men will show an image of how they think they will be received by the men. if the men like the women, due to beauty, composure or are desperate, they will need to approach them - this is natural in nature too - the man is the 'seeker' or cat, and the women is the 'ball' or mouse, yes? it is evident in every species that exists in our universe isn't it?
Now, to get a better chance of getting the ball you really want, you need to try to have a good first impression. this could be a enigmatic smile, a scent of deodorant, a nice physique, or a lot of other values that you may admire in yourself or they admire in you, or maybe even 'resources' position or respect/fame? there are so many ways to make a good first impression, just honestly choose your own method, okay? or, you could try to shock them to get their attention, yes?
So, you have chosen your 'ante' and eventually, you will use the one you find gets the best results all the time. your subconscious will choose for you, and you will get this message in an emotion that you will understand for yourself. then, you need to think of a 'line' if you will. flat out randomizing your 'ante'will result in something that you guess will be nice to hear, and it usually works, as a shock especially. the best lines are the ones you want to hear the answer to, like, i am new here, have you been here before, or, what is the time? anything you say to them should be a question, as then they feel like an oracle for a moment, basically, subconsciously. quoting someone else will result in familiarity with that person, and may trigger a giggle or something, hopefully she knows what you are talking about, yes?
If you have problem approaching the woman, say you are with peers that will see you fail, then you should try to look for somewhere else to do it, where you will not feel the disappointment that much. we men fear most not getting the things we really want, and instead of trying to get to heaven, pray to the devil to make it easier for our testes controlled emotions. this testes makes us aggressive to succeed, but, it will also make us socially more 'aware' of not being the alpha male, as, we are social creatures with peers that we need to fill our hearts with fiber of some sort. so, the best way to get the confidence, is to admit you really want her, and, think of other fish in the sea too - diversity!
The best way to do this with anyone is to look for 'interest' in you, by making eye contact! this will trigger a feeling, simply, of "is he looking at me?" by the woman, then, "oh my goodness, he is!" that will be followed by a third contact where you get your answer. this will be the safest way to do things. if she laughs at you, just accept that this ball is too far away, or, this ball is too 'sought after' for you to get. well, that is what she thinks! yeah...
So, identify your best features, improvise on your lines as otherwise the unexpected may happen and you will get 'rigid' or something, and use subtle ways of finding out if she is interested first.
Now, to get a better chance of getting the ball you really want, you need to try to have a good first impression. this could be a enigmatic smile, a scent of deodorant, a nice physique, or a lot of other values that you may admire in yourself or they admire in you, or maybe even 'resources' position or respect/fame? there are so many ways to make a good first impression, just honestly choose your own method, okay? or, you could try to shock them to get their attention, yes?
So, you have chosen your 'ante' and eventually, you will use the one you find gets the best results all the time. your subconscious will choose for you, and you will get this message in an emotion that you will understand for yourself. then, you need to think of a 'line' if you will. flat out randomizing your 'ante'will result in something that you guess will be nice to hear, and it usually works, as a shock especially. the best lines are the ones you want to hear the answer to, like, i am new here, have you been here before, or, what is the time? anything you say to them should be a question, as then they feel like an oracle for a moment, basically, subconsciously. quoting someone else will result in familiarity with that person, and may trigger a giggle or something, hopefully she knows what you are talking about, yes?
If you have problem approaching the woman, say you are with peers that will see you fail, then you should try to look for somewhere else to do it, where you will not feel the disappointment that much. we men fear most not getting the things we really want, and instead of trying to get to heaven, pray to the devil to make it easier for our testes controlled emotions. this testes makes us aggressive to succeed, but, it will also make us socially more 'aware' of not being the alpha male, as, we are social creatures with peers that we need to fill our hearts with fiber of some sort. so, the best way to get the confidence, is to admit you really want her, and, think of other fish in the sea too - diversity!
The best way to do this with anyone is to look for 'interest' in you, by making eye contact! this will trigger a feeling, simply, of "is he looking at me?" by the woman, then, "oh my goodness, he is!" that will be followed by a third contact where you get your answer. this will be the safest way to do things. if she laughs at you, just accept that this ball is too far away, or, this ball is too 'sought after' for you to get. well, that is what she thinks! yeah...
So, identify your best features, improvise on your lines as otherwise the unexpected may happen and you will get 'rigid' or something, and use subtle ways of finding out if she is interested first.