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Fraternal twins are not going to look any more alike than other siblings. I have one sister (4 years younger) who looks so different from me that people at a bar we hung out in in Hawaii thought we were a couple before they thought "oh, sisters". I have another sister (8 years younger) who looks so much like me that we have gone to places and been mistaken for twins. Heck, they both came aboard my ship for a family cruise and the one was actually mistaken for me. One of the girls in my berthing was just sitting in the lounge having a conversation with her as if she were me, until I came into the lounge and she was completely confused.I had cousins who were fraternal twins. To most people, they looked so different that some didn't even know they were related. There was always that 10% or so that could never tell them apart. Very strange.
But then again, around Christmas I was in Costco and there was this guy about 10-20 feet away who I heard say "who does that look like?", and it caught my attention, so I turned to see him talking to a little girl in his cart and they both were looking at me. She yells "Mommy!". I thought "huh, I must look like her mom". Then I walked away to find my MIL and a few minutes later I saw this woman who was about my height, same hair color and length, similar build, even wearing similar clothing (we both had masks on so couldn't see much features). I thought, "I see 'Mommy!'.".
People see and even focus on different features of others. It can help to explain why some people aren't always great at remembering faces while others are really good at it.