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Re: Straight Anal Sex Questions
Psh, that boyfriend is out of the picture, and luckily, I never lived with him.
As I've gotten more into the sex-positive movement, I've decided I really don't want to date someone I can't be honest with about the stuff I'm into. If I can't tell my boyfriend or girlfriend, "yeah, sometimes I do that in the shower and it's kinda fantastic," and comfortably know that they will not judge me negatively for it, I probably don't want to be with them. I would much rather be with someone who will respond with, "Really? That interesting...what does that feel like?....There was this one time, I tried this thing..." There is no reason for any of use to really feel shameful about the things we are into, even if our partners aren't into it.
lol, I can't imagine the uncomfortable conversation you are going to have one day when your boyfriend accidentally walked into the shower that the wrong time.
Psh, that boyfriend is out of the picture, and luckily, I never lived with him.
As I've gotten more into the sex-positive movement, I've decided I really don't want to date someone I can't be honest with about the stuff I'm into. If I can't tell my boyfriend or girlfriend, "yeah, sometimes I do that in the shower and it's kinda fantastic," and comfortably know that they will not judge me negatively for it, I probably don't want to be with them. I would much rather be with someone who will respond with, "Really? That interesting...what does that feel like?....There was this one time, I tried this thing..." There is no reason for any of use to really feel shameful about the things we are into, even if our partners aren't into it.