I get that. But I am aware that, if that same child had been born, killing it would not be an acceptable compromise to you (or, indeed, to me). If the woman is not responsible for the conception - this would hold even after a child conceived from rape was born. I'm asking, why is abortion an okay compromise position and killing the born child not an equally okay compromise position? We all know the latter is not okay.
Because - whether you support abortion or not - late term abortion or not - there is a time at which there is no choice.
* For some prolife individual: the moment you become pregnant = you have no choice.
* For other prolife individuals / pro choice with exception (the grey area in the middle) = there is a choice, it doesn't extend out indefinitely and isn't under "any" circumstance. . . this might fall to when there's a heartbeat - or certain types of movement or growth . . . some milestone has been reached. But the time for decision ends sometime during the beginning/middle of the pregnancy
* For other pro choice individuals there is exception except for late-term abortion. . . this might be marked by the beginning of the 3rd trimester.
* For others yet again as long as your pregnant they consider options to all be viable. . . for these: the choice ends when birth occurs. (of course - this isn't a legally supported stance)
Everyone holds a view - and in their views at *some* point (which we don't all agree on) you forgo the choice.
Our Constitutional rights apply to those who are born -
as it is currently interpreted - Ergo: Unless you become the next biggest serial killer and go through a trial or try to attack someone in the middle of the night and kill them: no one has the right to kill you.
So - you're really just asking 'why do pro-choice individuals have a line, why do they draw one, and under what premise.' . . . and you're focusing on a case of rape: after she already
chose to have the child. That choice - the choice makes a HUGE difference in where things fall. No one other than her (unless she's underage) should have the right ot make that choice FOR her - she makes the choice for herself . . . and if she chooses to have the baby no one has the right to just come along and take that child's life *just because* they want to (of course - you know this) - no on, unless she's underage or unable to speak for herself, has the right *ever* to decide if she's going to abort or not.
I believe that if you wait and don't make up your mind until you're 3 months along *knowing* you were raped and pregnant - you've already made the choice and you can't change your mind. The ONLY exception to any of this I make is when the woman isn't even a woman: but underage - just today I heard of a child in my state who was raped by her mother's boyfriend and *now* she's pregnant and didn't tell her mother or anyone until after the boyfriend moved out of their home because she's TWELVE years old and NOT a mature woman - and not capable of making the *right* decisions for herself and no matter how old a CHILD is - she shouldn't be having a child regardless of her feelings on the issue.
Now - in my view: I focus a lot more on the rapist's agenda and his goals here - something some people just don't bother with. What rights does he have? A rapist doesn't have the right to CHOOSE when a woman is going to have a child. . . that's what rape that leads to pregnancy is, really - he chose to attack her, he chose to rape her, he made all these decisions and she has to live with the consequences of his unjust actions. I think it's easy to forget that his choices set this all in motion.
When it comes to the right to
have a child - no one without your consent has the right to decide that for you.