Topsez
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I'll agree with you 100% I have relatives and friends with children that have birth defects and it often devastates them. I understand that your referenced science experts consider the gay person to not be ill or defect in any way yet to the parents that desired a healthy son or daughter wished for that with future considerations of grandchildren in their latter years and so on. I will refrain from saying the gay child is a mistake, birth defect or a abomination of nature because they are, according to current science born as nature planned. Yet, this difference impacts the hopeful dreams of a parents wish for a healthy child. My gay cousin for example was nicknamed for a sports player and he wasn't interested in sports and his parents both have strong beliefs in fundamentalism religion (Southern Baptist) and I only conclude that from talking with my half brother and his wife they love their son with all their hearts but there is a but that is unspoken.I would agree that sexual orientation is not a consideration when couples discuss objectives/hopes for their soon-to-be-born children. I would think that health is probably the only real consideration.
Actually I find women leaders and soldiers equally qualified in the military as men with the exception of combat/combat service support units that are on the leading edge of battle. Fighter/bomber pilots regardless of sex do fantastic equal jobs and in many jobs in the Army women excel over men. It is just my opinion that because women think in different patterns than men along with the way many men feel protective of women they become a burden in a maneuver combat element where a team relies on training and a single mindset that is the norm of a man team trained together.If you are discussing physical prowess, then I would cautiously agree with you, as, point-to-point, a woman's natural physical strength is less than a man's. However, I read your comments to mean leadership. In this sense, I do not agree. Women can be as effective leaders as men.
I've revisited the post several times and still unsure what portion of the paragraph would cause either the gay person or relative to not sign a paper to be sent to a congressional representative. Congress acts on legislation that has popular support and I'll guarantee that "American's for Family Values" is not bashful to ask those same people to write congress in opposition of gay supporting legislation. Making the legislation popular is the only way to have gay legislation move.I have already explained some of the potential confounds to your hypothetical scenerio. Reread the bottom of Post #544.
How do gay pride celebrations ever come about? Do people from out of town participate in the events that are otherwise in the closet?Many gays have chosen in the past and choose in the present to not identify their sexual orientation because of the real fear of persecution and physical attacks.
The gay activity I thought was common during gay pride events and not considered extremist... the other portion was speaking of black soldiers in the 60's... I have no contact with gays other than the internet since I stopped working for the only gay person I knew about five years ago.I have no idea what kind of gay people you have been dealing with, but those that you describe, above, are extremists. Extremists of any group do not represent that group as a whole and, in general, present that group in an exclusionary, degrading, bigotted, stereotypical, and misrepresentative way. I make a policy to expose extremists whenever possible as they indirectly attack the very group they claim to represent.