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@girl is Jemrah the dog's name? how did you come up with that?
americanwoman said:@girl is Jemrah the dog's name? how did you come up with that?
Urethra Franklin said:Justine dear heart, there is a serious point to my tomfoolery.
Indoctrination of children.
How old did he say that child was?
Jealous, why no. I discovered condoms before I discovered Barbie dolls and had my tubes snipped to the sound of champagne corks popping, but if I did have children, I would not be teaching them to sing the internationale or instilling any of my personal political/patriotic/ideological/philosophical views into them at kindergarden age. I know many parents who hold back and take the "Mum and dad believe this, however there are many sides to every viewpoint etc....."approach: I believe they've got it right. And if they're in a civilized country, the child studies philosophy/sociology/political science in high school and wow - you produce an adult with analytical skills able to think and make up their own mind. Frankly Justine, I find the idea of a toddler being definitively taught that the USA stands for liberty (or France, or Cuba or Australia) rather creepy, not to mention brainwashy. Let us not forget these are the kinds of people that would indoctrinate their little girls into having aspirations that go no further than baking cookies. Oh and of course, stand by your man.
So as we say in France Justine, méfiez-vous (beware of these people:2wave: )
vauge said:LOL, you are a trip Urethra - I believe in opinions and choice. It would be rather strange and hipocritical for me to create an online forum where I cherish opinions and choices then not let my own children have them.
As for indoctrination, we are all subject to it - for without them we would not have morals.
I have rules in my house and they will be kept. I will listen to all opinions, but in the end - I am the parent. Not the other way around.
You have not upset me in the slightest. lol. But, it would make more sense to create another thread and debate the subject of parental indoctrination rather than spit on a "feel good" thread in the off-topic area.
JustineCredible said:You can't possibly understand. .
JustineCredible said:You can take your patronizing tone and move it to the next room as far as I'm concerned.
JustineCredible said:Urethra can't possibly understand, she's chosen to make herself baren, to deny herself the most gratifying job on the planet and because of it she feels the need to trample over those who have chosen otherwise. That's really pitiful on her part.
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Urethra Franklin said:Followed immediately by....
mmmmm
Do I detect a double standard here?
Justine, unlike many who post here, you are somebody I actually respect, but really, this one is rather off kilter.
Urethra Franklin said:Justine I am really shocked to see language like this coming from you. "Barren" is a rather outdated term with derogatory connotations and is frankly rather insulting to the many infertile women who would desperately like to be mothers (I applaud their choice and appreciate their desires - it's not for me however). "Most gratifying job on the planet" is a very subjective opinion. Don't forget your family values friends would throw in cooking for your husband and standing by your man, and judge you in EXACTLY the same way. Each to their own in my book. Be very careful who you take sides with. When have I ever criticized anybody's choice to be a parent? Read again.
JustineCredible said:Is this a hint of remorce for your choice?
Urethra Franklin said:Haven't you heard of sterilization reversal? An option I have never, and still don't consider. Justine, I always thought you were somebody who accepted that different things suit different people, yet you seem to assume nobody is complete without being a parent?
JustineCredible said:Nope, I never made that inference. If that's how you took it, that's not my problem.
I am accepting of others' choices, but don't sit there on your high horse and condemn me for my choices.
When you do that, you open yourself up to criticism. If you can't handle the criticism, don't comment.
JustineCredible said:Urethra can't possibly understand, she's chosen to make herself baren, to deny herself the most gratifying job on the planet and because of it she feels the need to trample over those who have chosen otherwise. That's really pitiful on her part.
Urethra Franklin said:You're still missing the point Justine. You didn't re-read my posts. Your choice to be a mother was never criticized. Instilling nationalsm in toddlers was.
Kelzie said:Instilling nationalism? His kid identified a national monument. That's a giant step away from waving the nazi flag. Lay off.
Urethra Franklin said:It's the subtle language we use that brainwashes.
I'm not pinpointing vaugue as an individual. I'm highlighting a difference between a society in which the parent would automatically equate liberty with any given country (in this case the US) and the parent that would expose their child to all ideologies with a "mom and dad believe this but there are other points of view" approach. There are many examples of this: for example hardened atheist Marxists who allow their teenage foster child to be baptized at the teenager's wish (Hervé Vilard "L'Âme Seule" for a factual account of this very phenomenon). My sarcastic way of doing so may have been OTT, but vaugue knows me and has stated he wasn't offended by the banter. Justine's tirades against the childless are not, uncharacteristically for her, a counter-argument. She has gone off-kilter on this one.
Kelzie said:What?!? It's called the Statue of Liberty! What the hell else was the kid supposed to call it? The Statue? It's not like vauge told his kid that the only place that has liberty was the US and the statue represented that. It's the name of the statue.
@_girL........ said:Cant you take your stupid debate to a thread thats actually debating? The title of this thread is "Proud moments with your kids". If you don't have any kids, why make some stupid comment derailing this sweet thread?
Calm2Chaos said:SO the Euro wannabe elitist get a little snippy when something "American" shall we say gives cause no matter how small to smile and say wow or thanks.
Urethra Franklin said:WOW, you've proved my point that many United Statesians can't hack any kind of debate or criticism of their country. Gee THANKS. The term intellectual insecurity springs to mind.
:lol: (and yes, I'm smiling)
Calm2Chaos said:Lets start with this...I do not know wtf a United Statesians is. They do not live in this country, pass through it, fly over it or tunnel underneath it. If you are referring to me I am an American. IF you can't bring yourself to say that then you can refer to me as an American, calm, sir or just not reply at all. But I don't know what the hell a United Statesian is.
As for hacking a debate... You seem unwilling to realize the point, this thread was not for debate. You just saw an opportunity to try (failingly) to act superior and point out what you see as another of many numerous flaws with America and or Americans. Nobody was looking for your input on what you saw wrong with a simple statement of pride. The title of the thread did not in anyway issue a challenge and the first post did not ask for your self righteous opinion or wannabe elitist dribble. IT was a fathers thoughts of pride concerning a child. Yet you decided to try and piss on it. Your ideas of pride and nationalism are for one outdated and two, don't pertain to this country. Unlike Europe this nation would never become so apathetic as to allow the rise of a Hitler or a Nazi like Union. Make all the silly comparisons you want, but thats the stone cold hard truth. I Am proud of my country and my flag for those that have fought and died for it and for it's meaning. I am proud of what my country and it's flag represent on a grand scale. I am aware of the problems and the mistakes, I just prefer to not let them define us, but to hopefully make us a little smarter in the future.
As for criticism..... see above except to say that your criticism holds little weight. It's the same euro crap we hear daily from a group of apathetic nations that tend not to move until it's just a little to late. Agree with us or not. When the time comes to actually stand up, you may be there arm in arm with the US. But you will more then likely have to be dragged.
By the way take a guess what you can do with your term?...LOL
Calm2Chaos said:Lets start with this...I do not know wtf a United Statesians is. They do not live in this country, pass through it, fly over it or tunnel underneath it. If you are referring to me I am an American. IF you can't bring yourself to say that then you can refer to me as an American, calm, sir or just not reply at all. But I don't know what the hell a United Statesian is.
Calm2Chaos said:As for hacking a debate... You seem unwilling to realize the point, this thread was not for debate. You just saw an opportunity to try (failingly) to act superior and point out what you see as another of many numerous flaws with America and or Americans. Nobody was looking for your input on what you saw wrong with a simple statement of pride. The title of the thread did not in anyway issue a challenge and the first post did not ask for your self righteous opinion or wannabe elitist dribble..
Calm2Chaos said:IT was a fathers thoughts of pride concerning a child. Yet you decided to try and piss on it...
Calm2Chaos said:Unlike Europe this nation
Calm2Chaos said:would never become so apathetic as to allow the rise of a Hitler or a Nazi like Union.
Calm2Chaos said:Make all the silly comparisons you want
Calm2Chaos said:I Am proud of my country and my flag for those that have fought and died for it and for it's meaning.
Calm2Chaos said:I am aware of the problems and the mistakes.
Calm2Chaos said:When the time comes to actually stand up, you may be there arm in arm with the US. .
Calm2Chaos said:By the way take a guess what you can do with your term?...LOL
Urethra Franklin said:You are indeed American dear heart, but so too are my wonderful friends from Mexico, Brazil, Chile, Canada and Belize. Dearest, ask them how they feel about United Statesians using the term as though it pertains to them ONLY.
Urethra Franklin said:I'm sure the native Americans have names in their own languages for the territory, and I'm rather suprised you didn't as a nation adopt one of these. Think about it, the United States of America rather suggests that all the states of that great continent are united, and indeed they're not.
Urethra Franklin said:Take a chill pill. If you can't hack criticism of your nation, why on earth come on a forum named "Debate Politics"
Here:
http://www.knittersreview.com/forum/
You can't hack debate so I imagine you'd be more at home on forums like the one above.
Urethra Franklin said:I offered vaugue an apology if he was offended, and vaugue has stated he's not. Quit fighting other's battle's uninvited.
Urethra Franklin said:I made a serious point in a sarcastic fashion. Nothing unusual about that HERE.
Urethra Franklin said:If vaugue was upset I'd withdraw it instantly, but he's said he's not, so get over it.
Urethra Franklin said:Try debating instead of just whining because you disagree with me. That's not very adult.
Urethra Franklin said:You compare one nation to an entire continent. Rather like comparing apples with oranges.
Urethra Franklin said:You had already ethnically cleansed, suppressed and taken over one of the lands of the native Americans.
Urethra Franklin said:Then made yourselves rich on the backs of slaves.
Urethra Franklin said:While Josephine Baker was being admired in Paris she was still virtually sub-human in her own country. We can both play that game, but it is in fact rather silly to do so.
Urethra Franklin said:Good for you. I applaud your right to be so. Were I United Statesian, I wouldn't see much to be proud of.
Urethra Franklin said:Being able to a take global view, and not having your rose coloured glasses nor your blind nationalism, I am both proud AND ashamed of different things about the countries I am linked to by heritage, grew up in and now the one I live in. As for their flags - meaningless symbolism: your attatchment to which demonstrates just how shallow is your definition of pride.
Urethra Franklin said:That's better. There's hope for you yet.
Urethra Franklin said:Hopefully not.
Urethra Franklin said:Stooping to cheap insults?
Urethra Franklin said:Because apart from the fact that your nationalistic pride's been challenged you don't really have a counterargument?
Urethra Franklin said:One expects such low standards from the likes of teacher, but really sweetpea, I'm very disappointed in you.
Calm2Chaos said:Why would you withdraw it? If there your feelings have the balls to stick up for them
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