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Hey Everyone, I've got a Question

I'm just warning you, Wake. I've stolen lots of women from guys like you.

If you go the wuss route, you better be prepared to sniff out the alpha stag. His intentions around your girl will be obvious. Be prepared to fight fire with fire.
 
Beware the Alpha-Gipper, Wake. He's trouble, he's an animal, he's... he's an accountant!
 
Dating is an interview process. Don't "hire" the first person you interview.
 
Gipper said:
I'm just warning you, Wake. I've stolen lots of women from guys like you.

If you go the wuss route, you better be prepared to sniff out the alpha stag. His intentions around your girl will be obvious. Be prepared to fight fire with fire.
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It doesn't sound like Wake is looking for girls who would be into you.
 
Very possible.

However, even those "good girls" have their moments of weakness.
 
Gipper said:
I'm just warning you, Wake. I've stolen lots of women from guys like you.

If you go the wuss route, you better be prepared to sniff out the alpha stag. His intentions around your girl will be obvious. Be prepared to fight fire with fire.
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Bleh. Join us in the civilized world, please.

I wouldn't recommend Wake (or anyone) date a girl who's stupid enough to be so easily led by simple machismo.
 
Wake said:
Imo, I want to be there for her, always be someone to talk to, a best friend. There are far too many men I unfortunately know that use women for sex, treating them as mere sex objects. I want her to be my best friend, soul mate, wife, life. Yeah, it sounds dopey and silly, but it's true.

A woman to cook with, garden with, talk and walk with, just spend time together, bonding. There are many people out there that are too focused on looks, money, work, etc.
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In my experience, this is a wonderful place to be....and worthy of the quest (likely the most important quest we go on)...but the quest is not for children. Experience allows people to appreciate these things and avoid mistakes that spoil bliss.

My heartfelt advice to you Wake...live before you love, and by living you will find it.
If you spend this life searching for it....you may very well be unable to recognize it in the first place.
 
As an aside Wake...I have all those things you hope for and more...right now. It has taken me forty plus years, two marriages, and quite a bit of sexual promiscuity to find it.
I truly believe that had I sat back and merely wished for this (Rather than live for the chance at it), I would never have been ready for it, nor have recognized it when it appeared.

Also, Sex is a huge part of the intimacy of love...and I highly recommend you practice it until skilled. It will go a long way toward pleasing the woman you are seeking.
 
lizzie said:
To the contrary, I have found that abusers are much more likely to be extremely agreeable and charming, as opposed to those are who being dicks. At least with the one acting dick-ish, you know what you're dealing with. ;)
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So true. Serial abusers like to groom their victims for a while.
 
Gipper said:
I'm just warning you, Wake. I've stolen lots of women from guys like you.

If you go the wuss route, you better be prepared to sniff out the alpha stag. His intentions around your girl will be obvious. Be prepared to fight fire with fire.
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If by chance, you managed to "Steal" a woman from anyone...she was not his to begin with. Also, though I have had to deal with men (Boys) like you, it is likely you have found out that a man who you consider a "Wimp" will often turn out to be damaging to your evening of posturing.
 
Gipper said:
I'm just warning you, Wake. I've stolen lots of women from guys like you.

If you go the wuss route, you better be prepared to sniff out the alpha stag. His intentions around your girl will be obvious. Be prepared to fight fire with fire.
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Ha ha! I love watching dues lose their girls to other guys. That ish makes me laugh.
 
SmokeAndMirrors said:
Bleh. Join us in the civilized world, please.

I wouldn't recommend Wake (or anyone) date a girl who's stupid enough to be so easily led by simple machismo.
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Never met a girl who wasn't (easily led by machismo, not stupid). A lot of girls say they don't, but after that 2nd vodka redbull they're focusing on sleeveless dude hoisting girls up with his biceps.
 
RadicalModerate said:
Never met a girl who wasn't (easily led by machismo, not stupid). A lot of girls say they don't, but after that 2nd vodka redbull they're focusing on sleeveless dude hoisting girls up with his biceps.
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Key Word...."Girl".

Thus I prefer Women.
 
Gardener said:
Tell me about it!

I left the toilet seat down for 30 years, I did.
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:2razz:

when in love , you ignore all seats

i wish you love ,gardener:tink:
 
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RadicalModerate said:
Let's split the difference and call them "walking sex holes".
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Let's....Not!

I rather enjoy sex, and this comment will most certainly temper it.


Eventually, you will understand the delicate nature of a woman, and learn to be a man.
 
Wake said:
Imo, I want to be there for her, always be someone to talk to, a best friend. There are far too many men I unfortunately know that use women for sex, treating them as mere sex objects. I want her to be my best friend, soul mate, wife, life. Yeah, it sounds dopey and silly, but it's true.

A woman to cook with, garden with, talk and walk with, just spend time together, bonding. There are many people out there that are too focused on looks, money, work, etc.
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Hopefully you will find this woman. They are out there. My advice for you for what you look for though is remember that even though you desire a woman who will appreciate these things, She will still want to be wanted physically as well. And she will want to enjoy being a silly girl and for you to be a guy and do guy things too. That doesn't mean that is all she is or wants, and that it will be all she will want from you. If I have learned anything, its that the bonding, and simple pleasures of friendship are so because of the times where there is a basic attraction and actions because of it. It makes both worlds better. Learn how to blend them. Make Gardening sexy. Ease off a bit at times of serious talks and go for goofy sex talk. (doesn't have to be dirty... but maybe a little...)

To start you off on this journey, you won't know if you have found her immediately, but I would just not put pressure on the early dating stage. if it is right, it will happen and you will know it will be right. If you are asking yourself if she is the one, she isn't. If you are asking yourself whether or not to move forward, you shouldn't be. If there is this pesky little voice in your head that says this isn't right (even though logically it should be) listen to that voice! It knows all.
 
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