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[emphasis added by bubba]Why do people ghost?
People who ghost are primarily focused on avoiding their own emotional discomfort and they aren’t thinking about how it makes the other person feel. The lack of social connections to people who are met online also means there are less social consequences to dropping out of someone’s life. The more it happens, either to themselves or their friends, the more people become desensitized to it and the more likely they are to do it to someone else.
“I didn't understand exactly how I actually felt at the time, so instead of trying to talk it out, I ghosted.” 2
“I used to disappear when it was all I thought it was [a fling], or I got scared of finding what I wanted…Or some kind of fear factor from a past relationship kicks in.” 2
“Looking through the lens of a coward, passive withdrawal from dating seems like the easiest and nicest route…until it’s done to you.” 3
“I kind of think that it's part of what makes the online dating scene so appealing. Since you don't have friends in common or weren't introduced through some other channel, it's not the end of the world if you just drop off the face of the earth.” 4
“I, for one, consider myself to be an honest and straightforward person. And yet I’ve ghosted...And I’ve told myself, time and time again, that it’s all the fault of the toxic dating culture we’ve created. And at the end of the day, I think that’s what we’re all telling ourselves.” 5
There are a few different ways to ghost:
1. Ghosting a relationship or friend
2. Ghosting an employer
3. Ghosting a party/event.
I typically ghost large events and parties. IMO it takes too much time to say goodbye.
There are a few different ways to ghost:
1. Ghosting a relationship or friend
2. Ghosting an employer
3. Ghosting a party/event.
I typically ghost large events and parties. IMO it takes too much time to say goodbye.
There are a few different ways to ghost:
1. Ghosting a relationship or friend
2. Ghosting an employer
3. Ghosting a party/event.
I typically ghost large events and parties. IMO it takes too much time to say goodbye.
I'm old and apparently I'm not as astute in current lingo as I'd like to be.
Could some please tell me what this thread is about? What is ghosting?
I'm old and apparently I'm not as astute in current lingo as I'd like to be.
Could some please tell me what this thread is about? What is ghosting?
There are a few different ways to ghost:
1. Ghosting a relationship or friend
2. Ghosting an employer
3. Ghosting a party/event.
I typically ghost large events and parties. IMO it takes too much time to say goodbye.
When you suddenly disappear - like in a relationship when one person suddenly stops calling, answering messages, etc.
Yes I have. I wrote novels under the name 'Richard Bachman'.
There are a few different ways to ghost:
1. Ghosting a relationship or friend
2. Ghosting an employer
3. Ghosting a party/event.
I typically ghost large events and parties. IMO it takes too much time to say goodbye.
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