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Pobre, making sure kids dont stab themselves with pencils is not the same thing as parenting. You are babysitting and babysitting is not the same thing as parenting. I did the same job with kindergarteners.
Im curious why this matters.
Were you one of those incapable twits who caved every time a child pestered or nagged you for something? Did your nieces and nephews become obese under your care?Biologically, no.
Yes
I raised (and I do mean raised) six nieces and seven nephews from the time I was 12 to about five years ago.
A babysitter doesnt have to do anything except keep the little snot alive until mommy and daddy come to pick them up. It takes almost no skill and can be done by a trained monkey.A baby sitter still comes across some of the same problems the parent does. Child throwing a tantrum, child pestering an adult for something after being told no and children doing all kinds of other things.
I'm confused how you plan to work that extrapolation from my own parents.To basically prove that it is easy for a parent to tell a child no.
No, my nieces and nephews stayed very healthy while I took care of them. We went for fast food maybe once or twice a month.Were you one of those incapable twits who caved every time a child pestered or nagged you for something? Did your nieces and nephews become obese under your care?
Ok.
Jets 2 cents coming in.
Personal Responsibility is PARAMOUNT!
You don't want your kids to eat Mcdonalds, then don't let them eat it. Come up with a convincing argument why the Advertisements are wrong.
HOWEVER
One simply cannot ignore the power of advertising, it's becoming a science, they spend millions of dollars, get kids in for focus sessions to find the most effective ways of getting to kids. It's maticulous and almost sinister in a way.
HOWEVER ONCE AGAIN
Does not mean that personal responsibility does not take precedent.
Do little kids have jobs so they can have money to buy happymeals? Do they have their own transportation so they can go to McDonalds whenever they want? Is it the children's job to make choices in what they eat? The answer to all these question is no. So it is irrelevant what McDonalds advertises to them because it is the parent's choice to say no. Advertising doesn't mean squat except trying to put their name out there to consumers. Are you so weak willed as a parent and a pushover with the word bitch written across your forehead that you let tell your kids make all the decisions that you are supposed to so you want the government telling you what you can eat and whether or not certian places can give out crappy toys to those who buy their childrens meals?
Advertising directly to the kids DOES impact the parent's buying habits. If it didn't, McDonald's wouldn't include the toys in the first place because they'd be a waste of money. Imagine if cigarette companies started giving away little toys with every pack of cigarettes they sold. There would be an uproar, and rightly so. Sure, parents could CHOOSE to not buy them for their kids...but obviously some would. More than would otherwise, if the toy was not included.
Would you rather McDonalds do the conditioning?
Advertising directly to the kids DOES impact the parent's buying habits. If it didn't, McDonald's wouldn't include the toys in the first place because they'd be a waste of money. Imagine if cigarette companies started giving away little toys with every pack of cigarettes they sold. There would be an uproar, and rightly so. Sure, parents could CHOOSE to not buy them for their kids...but obviously some would. More than would otherwise, if the toy was not included.
Ok.
Jets 2 cents coming in.
Personal Responsibility is PARAMOUNT!
You don't want your kids to eat Mcdonalds, then don't let them eat it. Come up with a convincing argument why the Advertisements are wrong.
HOWEVER
One simply cannot ignore the power of advertising, it's becoming a science, they spend millions of dollars, get kids in for focus sessions to find the most effective ways of getting to kids. It's maticulous and almost sinister in a way.
HOWEVER ONCE AGAIN
Does not mean that personal responsibility does not take precedent.
...One, the kid is not old enough to understand that asking repeatedly is more likely to piss someone off than get what you want and the parent is already willing to acquiesce to the request anyways. Two, the parent doesnt see a good reason for saying no. Three, the kid finally bugs the parent into saying yes. We all have finite patience and kids can wear on that patience like nothing else.
A babysitter doesnt have to do anything except keep the little snot alive until mommy and daddy come to pick them up. It takes almost no skill and can be done by a trained monkey.
I'm confused how you plan to work that extrapolation from my own parents.
No, my nieces and nephews stayed very healthy while I took care of them. We went for fast food maybe once or twice a month.
Parents feel obligated to give in to nagging because of a couple of reasons. One, the kid is not old enough to understand that asking repeatedly is more likely to piss someone off than get what you want and the parent is already willing to acquiesce to the request anyways.
Two, the parent doesnt see a good reason for saying no.
Three, the kid finally bugs the parent into saying yes. We all have finite patience and kids can wear on that patience like nothing else.
Everyone (and I do mean EVERYONE) has given in to something or agreed to something because the person trying to convince them has just bugged the **** out of them to get them to agree, it works the same way with kids.
And because I'm losing faith in the ability of certain individuals here to understand that because I dont implicitly state something, I dont believe in it,
yes some parents do give in because they find it difficult to say no to their kids.
Lumping all parents who agree when a child nags into this last category is incredibly stupid.
McDonalds is not the only one who gives a prize with their childrens meal, practically any fast food chain gives a toy or some other prize. Even a resturaunt gives a couple of crayons and a coloring page to children.Advertising directly to the kids DOES impact the parent's buying habits. If it didn't, McDonald's wouldn't include the toys in the first place because they'd be a waste of money.
Imagine if cigarette companies started giving away little toys with every pack of cigarettes they sold.
Only with the anti-smoking nazis.There would be an uproar, and rightly so.
Sure, parents could CHOOSE to not buy them for their kids...but obviously some would. More than would otherwise, if the toy was not included.
They used to give out baseball cards and other kinds of cards and sometime later you could save the UPCs to purchase lighters and other things. I do not know if they still do that I haven't smoked in years.
Where I live the govt goes so far as to tell restaurants how to run their businesses--who they can and can't hire, how many hand-washing sinks they must have, etc. The govt even goes so far as to tell a business what temperature their refrigerators need to be. Talk about Big Brother, sheesh.Happy Meal Toys Endangered Species In San Francisco
Oh, those wacky Californians, conditioning children at an early age that it's ok for the governement to tell you what to eat. :shock:
LOL I have a tent, a lantern, and an awesome fleece sweater from my Marlboro Miles. :mrgreen:
Does Marlboro still do that? Or did the anti-smoking nazis put a stop to that?
Does Marlboro still do that? Or did the anti-smoking nazis put a stop to that?
Ultimately, the problem isn't so much with what - or even how much - we eat. It's about how much we move around afterward (or don't).
You know, back in the day, people ate GIGANTIC meals full of butter and fat and lard, and there weren't nearly as many overweight folks as there are today, and that's all about what modern Americans do (or don't!) when we're not eating.
Take a look at "the great mid-American cookbook of its day" (Buckeye Cookery, And Practical Housekeeping: Compiled From Original Recipes. Minneapolis, Minn.: Buckeye Pub. Co., 1877). The section on "Seasonal Bills of Fare" contains pages and pages of daily menu suggestions - go on and page through; you won't believe how much food the typical American consumed 150 years ago.
As a people, we've become sedentary to the point of endangering our national physical health.
Ultimately, the problem isn't so much with what - or even how much - we eat. It's about how much we move around afterward (or don't).
You know, back in the day, people ate GIGANTIC meals full of butter and fat and lard, and there weren't nearly as many overweight folks as there are today, and that's all about what modern Americans do (or don't!) when we're not eating.
Take a look at "the great mid-American cookbook of its day" (Buckeye Cookery, And Practical Housekeeping: Compiled From Original Recipes. Minneapolis, Minn.: Buckeye Pub. Co., 1877). The section on "Seasonal Bills of Fare" contains pages and pages of daily menu suggestions - go on and page through; you won't believe how much food the typical American consumed 150 years ago.
As a people, we've become sedentary to the point of endangering our national physical health.
Where I live the govt goes so far as to tell restaurants how to run their businesses--who they can and can't hire, how many hand-washing sinks they must have, etc. The govt even goes so far as to tell a business what temperature their refrigerators need to be. Talk about Big Brother, sheesh.
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