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Tragic and common, actually. And there's a reason gay people move out of little towns, to bigger cities, and it's not because the 'cancelling' is only by their families, but also their friends, employers, churches, and every part of life in that place. The biggest difference is it's your tribe doing the cancelling, and it's fine, because it's your tribe.(shrug)That's tragic that it went down that way. However, no, "my family does not talk to me" =/= "my family has mobilized a successful campaign to deny me access to broader society". One of these is refusing to interact with another yourself. The other is the attempt to keep that other from being able to interact with third parties.
I'm old enough to remember when being gay disqualified you, cancelled you, from all kinds of jobs, including one you've held before. In fact, one could have served perhaps 19 years with distinction, and not be accused of any wrongdoing except being gay, and gotten booted months before earning a pension! Surprised your memory is that short.
She doesn't claim to BE a man. She's not claiming that her birth certificate has 'male' listed on it. She identifies as a man. Glad I could help, but maybe if you read a little about the issue you wouldn't be so confused.you are imposing an assumption of a single mode of behavior that does not match human experience or activity. My friend's fiance who later decided that, instead of being a lesbian, she was a man - was she lying beforehand, or after?
You don't believe that, and claiming it is a lie. Trans people don't claim to be born the gender they adopt. DIFFERENCE!!Maybe I honestly believe Donald Trump is my father (shrug) the human mind is capable of twisting itself in some pretty messed up knots. :-/
You are determined to miss the point.
Let's see here - you condemn trans people as essentially deluded liars on the same level as a paranoid schizophrenic. How are you showing them any respect? Your position is inherently disrespectful. So was Hawkins'. If someone calls you mentally ill and says it's a mistake to play into, "enable" your obvious delusions of a God, I'm sure your church community would treat that with a lot of respect. Right? That your views are not just wrong, but evidence of a severe mental illness and all that means throughout society.I have no problem being courteous or respectful. But I do not define those things as enabling. It wouldn't be kind of me to respond to a paranoid schizophrenic by playing into his fears that They Were Watching Him All The Time.
But certainly one should be courteous and respectful to those who you meet in life, regardless of whether or not you agree with them. Unfortunately, as evidenced by the OP, that is a point lost on people who want to demand courtesy and respect for some, but not for others.
No he wasn't inviting discussion. Or if he was he sure couldn't expect to get it by his opening premise.He was inviting discussion. He is probably surprised because, when he did that to Christians, the left cheered him and Christians felt obliged to respond with their arguments.... now that he's done it to the Woke crowd, sadly, some on the Left are trying to cancel him, and feel no obligation to respond by engaging (as you put it) respectfully and with courtesy.
Example: We condemn George Wallace as a race baiting bigot and white supremacist, but nearly half the voters in the U.S. adores Donald Trump. Discuss!
I mean, I don't know about you, but if I'm "inviting discussion" about Donald Trump and my opening premise is to compare him to one of the famous white supremacists of his era, I doubt if I'll get a good reception, especially from Trump fans. After all I'm just inviting discussion. Why would anyone be offended at my opening premise? Mystery!