Lol... Okay, let's see how to say this... It's not about sex. It is never about sex. The thoughts surrounding these things are not about the sex, although the images are burned in to the brain for most. Childhood sexual abuse is about power and control. It destroys trust in adults. It is about exploitation, submission by force. It is about TERROR.
This is not about feelings. I could give a f*ck about feelings as an adult. It is about stealing childhood and creating addicts, alcoholics, ADHD adults, criminals, mental illness and all manner of true evil. It is about broken homes and continuing the cycle of violence. It is many things, but it is NOT feelings.
It is about creating dysfunctional people that make messes their entire lives. It is a societal problem and attitudes like, "Oh it's okay to f*ck a child, they're just sensitive to sex," is sicker than the rapist, and perhaps, more damaging. It makes you the enabler and gives a nod and a wink to the perpetrator. "It's just sex. Fr. Fancypants, diddle away. Builds character."
WTF?