Yet we see constant disproportionate attention given to Israel. They seem to be put in a lose/lose situation where they are constantly under attack but if they respond then they get shit on for that too.
If say...Mexico was launching hundreds of rockets into the U.S. there wouldn't be an autonomous Mexico. We'd have gone in and crushed their government and locked everything down under military mandate basically indefinitely.
Israel is in a highly unusual and unique position when it comes to how groups inside the US view that nation. Yes, the position of liberals is frequently at odds with the existence of an Israeli state. I don't dispute that and I think they're wrong, but refuting them is complicated when the state is behaving objectively badly. It was much easier defending Israel when they were making good faith efforts toward peace. But in the most simplistic terms I see five main groups in the US:
1) Liberals whose position is at odds with the existence of an Israeli state. Criticizing Israel can easily make me appear to be in this group, but I'm absolutely not.
2) Actual protocols-of-the-elders-of-zion anti-semites. If there are attacks on Synagogues, these are the guys doing it.
3) Republican evangelicals. Jews understand that conservative support for Israel stems mostly from biblical prophecy rather than any love for Jews. If Republicans are confused why more Jews aren't in the GOP, it's because we're perfectly equipped to grasp this distinction.
4) Orthodox Jews. These guys are nuts. They believe God gave Israel to Jews so there really isn't any debating them. They're perfectly happy to take Republicans' full-throated support, but they too know conservatives' motives. They just don't care.
5) Secular Jews. This is me. We believe in a Jewish state and its right to defend itself. We're perfectly cognizant of the historical context that led to its creation, and know that if we're to avoid an endless parade of pogroms then a viable Jewish state is necessary. BUT....we also know that while there are certain ambiguities and gray zones that Israel must necessarily exist in in order to survive, Israel can't just be monsters about it. And right now, under Netanyahu's leadership, they're being monsters. "Israel has a right to defend itself" isn't an argument in defense of taking Palestinian land, kicking them out of their homes and invading their holy sites.
So is the criticism of Israel disproportionate? I don't know. Maybe it is, maybe it just seems that way to you. I don't know. But I can say this: Israel's behavior is absolutely fueling the left wing anti-Israeli narrative.