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Your trans-exclusive dating and sexual practices are transphobic.

Lisa said:
That is not how the surgery works. I can post a video but I can gusranbtee you that CIS and heterosexual guys will lose their lunch over it. It is very graphic.
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I'll pass.
 
AtlantaAdonis said:
Remember that we're attracted to genders and not genitals. We must affirm trans women are women and trans men are trans men in all aspect of life including our romantic and sexual relationships or we don't really affirm trans people.
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We as humans are attracted to people, not genders - everyone has their personal tastes.

No one can be forced to find someone else attractive.
 
That being said, I do believe a significant driver in transphobia (particularly in men) is a deep-seated fear that they'll accidentally find themselves attracted to trans women.
 
Roadvirus said:
I'll pass.
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I have a very weak stomach and get light headed at the sight of blood. I've had stitches a few times and couldnt watch even that. I had to look away when I got the Covid19 vaccine or when my Dr needs to draw blood for tests. It didnt hurt but I don't like the sight of blood.

Checkerboard Strangler said:
He was just yelling "NO NUKES NO NUKES NO NUKES!!!"
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And how does that apply to my late night caffeine addiction. I often drink tea at night but coffee sounded kind of good last night.

I'm a natural blonde.............. type slow. .
 
Lisa said:
I only know of 3 genders, Male, female and intersex. Who isn't telling me about the others?
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Doesn't appear that you are very much up 'on the progressive' thing . . .

Harrison, who worked on the project, is in the process of gender transition, from male to female. Facebook will also allow users to select between three pronouns: "him," "her" or "their." The ...​

. . . or at least what progressives are trying to force feed down everyone else's throat.

Here's a list of lunacy that comes up with a simple Internet search:

Heliogender: a gender that is warm and burning. Hemigender: a gender that is half one gender and half something else; one or both halves may be identifiable genders. Horogender: a gender that changes over time with the core feeling of remaining the same. Hydrogender: a gender that shares qualities with water.​
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This nonbinary gender identity describes someone who partially identifies with being a girl, woman, womxn, or feminine. The term demigirl tells you about someone's gender identity but doesn't...​
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There are also people with indeterminate genders, such as micro-penises, macro-clitorises, no vagina and no penis and other not-frequently-occurring but still natural combinations. Likewise if you substitute "ovaries" or "uterus" for "vagina" in the definition. Google " intersex " for all the information you may want to find.​
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81 Types of Genders & Gender Identities (A to Z List) By Chris Drew, PhD / April 2, 2022. Examples of genders include male, female, transgender, cisgender, and gender non-conforming. We live in a world where gender identity is considered a fluid concept. No longer are we restricted to the gender binaries of male and female.​
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Bausic adds that some examples of modified anatomic features of intersex people include a clitoris that's larger than the average, a penis that is smaller than the average, or a closed vagina. 7....​
 
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eohrnberger said:
Doesn't appear that you are very much up 'on the progressive' thing . . .

Harrison, who worked on the project, is in the process of gender transition, from male to female. Facebook will also allow users to select between three pronouns: "him," "her" or "their." The ...​

. . . or at least what they are trying to force feed down everyone else's throat.

Here's a list of lunacy that comes up with a simple Internet search:

Heliogender: a gender that is warm and burning. Hemigender: a gender that is half one gender and half something else; one or both halves may be identifiable genders. Horogender: a gender that changes over time with the core feeling of remaining the same. Hydrogender: a gender that shares qualities with water.​
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This nonbinary gender identity describes someone who partially identifies with being a girl, woman, womxn, or feminine. The term demigirl tells you about someone's gender identity but doesn't...​
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There are also people with indeterminate genders, such as micro-penises, macro-clitorises, no vagina and no penis and other not-frequently-occurring but still natural combinations. Likewise if you substitute "ovaries" or "uterus" for "vagina" in the definition. Google " intersex " for all the information you may want to find.​
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81 Types of Genders & Gender Identities (A to Z List) By Chris Drew, PhD / April 2, 2022. Examples of genders include male, female, transgender, cisgender, and gender non-conforming. We live in a world where gender identity is considered a fluid concept. No longer are we restricted to the gender binaries of male and female.​
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Bausic adds that some examples of modified anatomic features of intersex people include a clitoris that's larger than the average, a penis that is smaller than the average, or a closed vagina. 7....​
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There are 3 biological genders (male, female and intersex) Cis is not a gender any more than heterosexual is a sex. Gender identity and where on that scale a person feels the most comfortable is not the same as gender.

Trans is not a gender but a medical condition and the process for aligning their incongruent gender identity. . That is why they are male to female or female to male.

I could possibly explain they all but you couldn't afford my hourly rate.



Zuckerburg, Facebook or Meta' are not experts on gender or anything else.
 
Folks, if someone says they don't like something, especially if that thing is something harmless like a food or sex preference, it's NOT -- repeat NOT necessary for you to interrogate them about it.
People can have different tastes from you and they DON'T owe you an explanation.
 
Lisa said:
I have a very weak stomach and get light headed at the sight of blood. I've had stitches a few times and couldnt watch even that. I had to look away when I got the Covid19 vaccine or when my Dr needs to draw blood for tests. It didnt hurt but I don't like the sight of blood.


And how does that apply to my late night caffeine addiction. I often drink tea at night but coffee sounded kind of good last night.

I'm a natural blonde.............. type slow. .
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OMG I was just joking coz you said you nuked your coffee.
Thou overthinkest ever so slightliest.
 
Lisa said:
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There are 3 biological genders (male, female and intersex) .
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Intersex is not a 'biological gender' or sex as the rest of the world calls it.

Intersex is an outdated collective term for various disorders of sexual development and having a DSD does not mean you aren't male or female.

A man with Klinefelter's syndrome is male even though he has a DSD.
 
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AtlantaAdonis said:
www.them.us

New Research Shows a Vast Majority of Cis People Won't Date Trans People

A recent study attempts to quantify the extent of trans discrimination when it comes to romantic and sexual relationships.
www.them.us www.them.us



Remember that we're attracted to genders and not genitals. We must affirm trans women are women and trans men are trans men in all aspect of life including our romantic and sexual relationships or we don't really affirm trans people.

Of course I'm sure all the weirdo straight guys who wouldn't do a hot trans chick because she has an icky peepee won't agree.
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As a gay man, I'm not completely opposed to dating a trans guy, but I do have a genital preference. In a perfect world where transphobia doesn't exist, not dating trans people would be comparable to me preferring to date people around my age rather than someone twice or three times my age. But we don't live in a perfect world, and the main drive against dating trans people is directly tied to transphobia.
 
Maccabee said:
As a gay man, I'm not completely opposed to dating a trans guy, but I do have a genital preference. In a perfect world where transphobia doesn't exist, not dating trans people would be comparable to me preferring to date people around my age rather than someone twice or three times my age. But we don't live in a perfect world, and the main drive against dating trans people is directly tied to transphobia.
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You really believe that the "main reason" people don't want to date trans people (i.e. people of the same sex) is because they are afraid of them?

Do you really believe that?
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
Are you kidding me?
Sorry but I have never separated genders and genitals in my entire life.
I want everyone to have and enjoy all the rights that I have and enjoy, and I want everyone, regardless of their orientation, assignment, or whatever, to be treated with human dignity and I want people who
do not understand or agree with their path to leave them the **** alone, and leave ME the **** alone.

And yet here you are launching an attack on ordinary people like me, minding my own business and just being who and what I AM, as being transphobic.
Sorry, but you are WOE, Wrong On Everything.

I fall in love with loveable PEOPLE who mesh with my gears the way I mesh with theirs.
I am attracted to GENDER BECAUSE I love and appreciate their GENITALS. There's no way I can "separate" these things and pretend that they exist in a vacuum.
A woman looks, smells, sounds and acts like a woman, they HAVE the kind of "equipment" that I find fascinating and attractive.
I don't WANT my type of equipment, and I don't WANT modified "equipment", I want what I want, and it's none of your goddamn business to judge what that is.

I like a woman's vagina because it looks, smells, tastes and feels like her vagina, I like her eyes, breasts, ass, hair, lips, neck, legs, back, shoulders for the same reason, I like every square inch of her body for the same reason, and I feel at home and comfortable in the knowledge that she is who and what she is.
And it is every bit as wrong for you or anyone to attack me for that for the same reason it is wrong for me to attack you for preferring to drink French red wine FROM FRANCE as opposed to some other region, or enjoy driving a particular make and model of car, or enjoy eating a particular kind of food, or enjoy looking at a particular kind of art.
This isn't even political with people like you, it's emotional, and it's pathetic that you attempt to pretend it might BE political.

Cram your politically correct and emotionally immature judgment where the Sun doesn't shine.
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Separating gender from sex doesnt mean they exist in a vacuum it means they cover different categories. We live in a society that ascribes gender signifiers to sex, other societies have third genders that dont quite mesh up neatly.
 
The Baron said:
You really believe that the "main reason" people don't want to date trans people (i.e. people of the same sex) is because they are afraid of them?

Do you really believe that?
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Yes.
 
Maccabee said:
Yes.
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Wow. That's a very nary perception of the world that you've got there.

One group is not capable to mere disagreement...they are simply scared of the other group.

Well, that's not even close to reality to but good luck with that.
 
AtlantaAdonis said:
www.them.us

New Research Shows a Vast Majority of Cis People Won't Date Trans People

A recent study attempts to quantify the extent of trans discrimination when it comes to romantic and sexual relationships.
www.them.us www.them.us



Remember that we're attracted to genders and not genitals. We must affirm trans women are women and trans men are trans men in all aspect of life including our romantic and sexual relationships or we don't really affirm trans people.

Of course I'm sure all the weirdo straight guys who wouldn't do a hot trans chick because she has an icky peepee won't agree.
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So transphobia means you are straight or gay? So it's not a bad thing?

The Bible thumpers tried to tell me that I could just change my sexuality but now you're doing it?

Okay Fred Phelps.
 
Lisa said:
Trans women do not trust and usually run away from guys who date them because they are trans. They are known as chasers. Trans people are women(MtF) and men (FtM) and usually weant to be treated as a female or male according to their gender identity. Chasers are either porn freaks looking for a thrill, rapists or perverts.
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What it seems like you're doing here is giving reasons not to transition. Just try and accept yourself for what you are.

People are probably not going to see you as the sex you identify as and that probably never will change.

I'm of the opinion that your identity means nothing. A short guy can identify as tall a fat guy can identify as thin it doesn't make it true. People can call folks that don't see a fat man that identifies as thin as then all the names they want and won't change anything. It just makes the person insisting that they are not what they are seen deluded
 
Roadvirus said:
Just to add: @AtlantaAdonis...it's your kind of claims that make things MORE difficult for members of the BIPOC or LGBT communities.

So a Cis White guy doesn't prefer a trans.
There are White guys who dig Black women.
There are Black guys who prefer White women.
There are White women who prefer Asian guys.
and so on and so on and so on and so on into ∞

GET OVER IT.
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It's not really about preferences it's about controlling thought.

Being called a transphobe means that you are heterosexual then it's nothing you should be concerned about.

You human... You two armed freak... You you... Biological organism.

None of this is a cut down it's nothing you should be ashamed of so let them call you transform just understand in this context that means that your heterosexual or whatever the case may be.
 
Lisa said:
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There are 3 biological genders (male, female and intersex) Cis is not a gender any more than heterosexual is a sex. Gender identity and where on that scale a person feels the most comfortable is not the same as gender.

Trans is not a gender but a medical condition and the process for aligning their incongruent gender identity. . That is why they are male to female or female to male.

I could possibly explain they all but you couldn't afford my hourly rate.



Zuckerburg, Facebook or Meta' are not experts on gender or anything else.
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Gender identity is an opinion. If you are a trans man it's one I disagree with. Sexually speaking such a person is not a man and can never be I don't care how much frankensteining they go through.

I don't feel guilty and I don't feel bad about my sexual orientation. I learned not to care about what people demand of me when I walked away from the church.
 
Maccabee said:
But we don't live in a perfect world, and the main drive against dating trans people is directly tied to transphobia.
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How's that? Dating sooner or later leads to sex. The person has a penis, that is not happening for me. Nothing to do with transphobia.
 
As a straight man, I wouldn't date a MtF trans because that's not a woman.
I also wouldn't date a FtM trans who had transitioned or seriously messed up her body.

Would I date a FtM trans who still looked like a woman, was attractive, and hadn't really done anything besides tell everyone she was a dude? Ehh, probably not. Her hotness would have to be weighed against how incredibly annoying she would probably be.
 
Maccabee said:
But we don't live in a perfect world, and the main drive against dating trans people is directly tied to transphobia.
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This sounds exactly like the argument that the reason men are gay is because they don't do too well with women, sorry about that they've been hurt by them how is your argument at all different than that one?
 
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