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Your trans-exclusive dating and sexual practices are transphobic.

Just to add: @AtlantaAdonis...it's your kind of claims that make things MORE difficult for members of the BIPOC or LGBT communities.

So a Cis White guy doesn't prefer a trans.
There are White guys who dig Black women.
There are Black guys who prefer White women.
There are White women who prefer Asian guys.
and so on and so on and so on and so on into

GET OVER IT.
 
Kind of like when people make comments about my "black hole" posts when actual physicists have said the term is problematically racist.

Cornell University's accreditation should be called into question for having offered a course called “Black Holes: Race and the Cosmos. I cannot begin to put into works how vacuous this is. One would compare it to the region inside the Schwarzschild radius of a Black Hole except that contains a lot of mass and energy. The only conceivable excuse for this would be if woke students somehow got the idea that astronomy was “colonial” or based on White supremacy.

"Theorists use astronomy concepts like "black holes" & "event horizons" to interpret history of race in creative ways." - Cornell
In other words, ideologically corrupted social theorists are hijacking astrophysics to misinterpret history by using unfalsifiable social theories."


 
Trans women do not trust and usually run away from guys who date them because they are trans. They are known as chasers. Trans people are women(MtF) and men (FtM) and usually weant to be treated as a female or male according to their gender identity. Chasers are either porn freaks looking for a thrill, rapists or perverts.
If I am blessed in a certain anatomical way and a woman wants to enjoy that by fetishizing about it, fine by me, my ego enjoys the little boost, but it gets a little creepy when there's no interest or energy behind anything else, because then it feels like being "Meat with Eyes" the same way a buxom woman would feel if everything in the encounter or relationship beyond "her rack" is either nonexistent or artificially propped up as part of a ruse.

I'd imagine that fetishism is fun UNTIL that moment when the person who is being objectified suddenly realizes that there's little if anything in the encounter or relationship beyond the fetish itself.
Consent is everything, the objectifier and the object of their desire either both agree it's mutually satisfying in and of itself in the moment, or only one party is on that page, and when only the one party is on that page, the other party is likely not enjoying the encounter much, if at all.

So I can imagine a trans person feeling creeped out if they're only being pursued for BEING who and what they are and for no other good reason.

Consent is everything, the objectifier and the object of their desire both agree it's mutually satisfying in and of itself in the moment, or only one party is on that page, and when only the one party is on that page, the other party is likely not enjoying the encounter much, if at all.

So I can imagine at least SOME trans persons feeling creeped out if they're only being pursued for BEING who and what they are and for no other good reason.
 
Would we tolerate "I'm just not attracted to black women" today?
Yes. Of course. I personally don't understand the appeal of ghost-toned gingers. I'm just not attracted to them. Or men. Or German women who play American football. Or broadly Mayan-looking people.

See how this works?
 
I doubt it ever took much in the way of "research" to figure out that most straight males don't have an attraction to transsexual women.
Since the sexual continuum IS A CONTINUUM, that means there's always exceptions, but when referring to the main, one must observe the majority and the reason that majority IS a majority is tied to
hundreds of thousands of years of evolution in the case of human sexuality.

If a continuum were as fluid as some wish to believe, three leaf clovers would no longer exist and even fossils OF such three leaf clovers would be incredibly rare because four leaf clovers would have wiped out their three leaf counterparts a billion years ago.

Variations on the continuum are deviations from the norm but in the field of sexual orientation, indeed in the field of genetics itself, they are STANDARD deviations, meaning those deviations are expected and well documented as being typical deviations. But they are deviations from the norm.

The OP questions the very existence of a norm altogether, suggesting that the existence of such norms is entirely a defective human construct.
Tell that to the clovers.
 
My favorite paragraph of this nonsense was this:
Surprisingly, among the 127 participants open to dating a trans person, almost half selected a trans person of a gender incongruent with their stated sexual orientation. For example, 50% of the trans-inclusive straight women and 28% of the trans-inclusive gay men were willing to date a trans woman, even though one wouldn’t expect either straight women or gay men to be attracted to women. Similarly, 50% of trans-inclusive straight men and 69% of trans-inclusive lesbians said they’d date a trans man, even though both groups are presumably only attracted to women.

Yes, it's a total mystery! I can't imagine why this might be true. Surely their next study will probe this baffling set of facts. :LOL:
 



Remember that we're attracted to genders and not genitals. We must affirm trans women are women and trans men are trans men in all aspect of life including our romantic and sexual relationships or we don't really affirm trans people.

Of course I'm sure all the weirdo straight guys who wouldn't do a hot trans chick because she has an icky peepee won't agree.
Exactly how are straight guys going to "do a hot trans chick?"
 
Exactly how are straight guys going to "do a hot trans chick?"
Do you need a graph, a force diagram or maybe 8x10 color glossies with circles and arrows...................?
 
Just to add: @AtlantaAdonis...it's your kind of claims that make things MORE difficult for members of the BIPOC or LGBT communities.

So a Cis White guy doesn't prefer a trans.
There are White guys who dig Black women.
There are Black guys who prefer White women.
There are White women who prefer Asian guys.
and so on and so on and so on and so on into

GET OVER IT.
Agreed. To each their own.

Is it that the 'woke' are now wanting to legislate mandatory dating and attraction for those aren't according to their matrix of genders?
 
Agreed. To each their own.

Is it that the 'woke' are now wanting to legislate mandatory dating and attraction for those aren't according to their matrix of genders?
I only know of 3 genders, Male, female and intersex. Who isn't telling me about the others?
 



Remember that we're attracted to genders and not genitals. We must affirm trans women are women and trans men are trans men in all aspect of life including our romantic and sexual relationships or we don't really affirm trans people.

Of course I'm sure all the weirdo straight guys who wouldn't do a hot trans chick because she has an icky peepee won't agree.
Why look for a pimple if you want dimple?
 
Boy howdy, I made the dog's dinner out of Post #28.
I wrote some stuff, didn't like it, changed stuff around, thought I'd cleaned it all up and now I see I repeated the same paragraph twice.

And I'm having my coffee.
Do I switch to something stronger?
Can't, my coffee is pretty substantial on its own merits!
 
Boy howdy, I made the dog's dinner out of Post #28.
I wrote some stuff, didn't like it, changed stuff around, thought I'd cleaned it all up and now I see I repeated the same paragraph twice.

And I'm having my coffee.
Do I switch to something stronger?
Can't, my coffee is pretty substantial on its own merits!
It seems OK with me. I can understand it.

I made a pot of coffee at 2:00am. I'm slowly drinking it by nuking it.
 
Why look for a pimple if you want dimple?
Wifey has the most adorable dimples.
Only shows up when she's smiling but trying to hold back a little, so her face goes all dimple happy.
I live for that smile, it means all is perfect in her world and I'm doing something that makes her very happy.

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Wifey has the most adorable dimples.
Only shows up when she's smiling but trying to hold back a little, so her face goes all dimple happy.
I live for that smile, it means all is perfect in her world and I'm doing something that makes her very happy.

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Hi Karen, hugs.
We have that thing calling boys pimple mouse and girls dimple mouse. Silly, I know.
 



Remember that we're attracted to genders and not genitals. We must affirm trans women are women and trans men are trans men in all aspect of life including our romantic and sexual relationships or we don't really affirm trans people.

Of course I'm sure all the weirdo straight guys who wouldn't do a hot trans chick because she has an icky peepee won't agree.
Yeah, the weirdos are the heterosexual men who don't dig dick. Wow.
 
Is there any other kind, minus hysterectomy or anomoly?
Leftists will now insist that a penis which has been split open like a weenie and inverted inward is a real vagina.
 
Would you tolerate "I'm just not attracted to Republicans?"
I like black girls! Dated a bunch too, almost married one but she wanted kids and I didn't and that was the deal breaker.
Sorry! I was in my twenties, kids just were way to far in the future in my thinking of the time.
Her name was Gwen Humphries, poor lil thing dead and gone now but she went on to be something of a star in the solar business in Hawaii and
had a happy life for about twenty five years after we parted ways. She drowned, sadly.
 
Leftists will now insist that a penis which has been split open like a weenie and inverted inward is a real vagina.
They do indeed. And a female clitoris turned into a russet potato by male hormones isn't a penis.
 
I like black girls! Dated a bunch too, almost married one but she wanted kids and I didn't and that was the deal breaker.
Sorry! I was in my twenties, kids just were way to far in the future in my thinking of the time.
Her name was Gwen Humphries, poor lil thing dead and gone now but she went on to be something of a star in the solar business in Hawaii and
had a happy life for about twenty five years after we parted ways. She drowned, sadly.
I have as well. I've also dated Republicans. Never dated a trans woman but have nothing but respect for transgendered people. Never dated a cis man either, but I have nothing but respect for the gay community.

To each their own.
 
Leftists will now insist that a penis which has been split open like a weenie and inverted inward is a real vagina.
That is not how the surgery works. I can post a video but I can gusranbtee you that CIS and heterosexual guys will lose their lunch over it. It is very graphic.
 
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