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Your first time?

Did you enjoy the first time you had intercourse?

  • I'm a female and enjoyed my first time

    Votes: 2 6.1%
  • I'm a female and did NOT enjoy my first time

    Votes: 8 24.2%
  • I'm male and enjoyed my first time

    Votes: 18 54.5%
  • I'm male and did NOT enjoy my first time

    Votes: 4 12.1%
  • I do not remember if I enjoyed it or not

    Votes: 1 3.0%

  • Total voters
    33

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Yes, I know that was eons for some of you, but try to remember;)
I'm conducting my own little survey so be as honest as possible.

Poll to follow.
 
What male didn't enjoy their first time? I don't see how it could possibly end poorly.
 
I enjoyed my first time.

Sex is like golf. You don't have to be good at it to enjoy it. :2razz:
 
This poll is discriminating against those who practice Celibacy
 
My first time wasnt all that great.

The girl seemed innocent enough :lol: but compared to say, my wife... it was like falling in. Come to find out later, she'd been "around"... "around" alot of penises.

And to make things even more uncomfortable, the song "Rape Me" by Nirvana came on the radio during the ordeal. Although it was defenitely not rape, it was still not the greatest song to hear while having sex.
 
Oh, and I forgot to say please be honest. Don't feel bad if you're in the minority;)

I don't think I enjoyed it until the 3rd time. I wasn't expecting it to be as painful. Looking back now, I know I made things worse by tensing up too much. Too bad you never get a second chance to have another ''first'', lol!
 
It was good...not great.
 
My first time was great. That apple pie will never be the same though.

I kid...sort of.

My first time with another person was pretty good. He was hot and he was a very good teacher. ;)
 
My first time wasnt all that great.

The girl seemed innocent enough :lol: but compared to say, my wife... it was like falling in. Come to find out later, she'd been "around"... "around" alot of penises.

And to make things even more uncomfortable, the song "Rape Me" by Nirvana came on the radio during the ordeal. Although it was defenitely not rape, it was still not the greatest song to hear while having sex.

you:her::hotdog:hallway

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I did not enjoy my first time. I just don't think I was ready yet to take that step at that time and with that boyfriend.
 
I didn't enjoy it. The guy was drunk and couldn't get it up, but I didn't really understand what that meant or anything. He essentially sat there and managed to push and wiggle his flaccid penis in enough to break my hymen and technically take my virginity. But I really wouldn't call what we did "sex". LOL

And of course, due to his embarrassment, he never spoke to me again. It was a very long time before I understood what actually happened and why he was too embarrassed to speak to me.

Second time wasn't all that great either, but it was at least actually sex.
 
My first time was a 3 way, at a NYE party. My buddy actually hooked me up with one girl, and his g/f. They knew I was a virgin at the time and I was allowed to, um, have more than one go around. Then after I had enough, they took him upstairs and I assume, gave him similar treatment, although he was more seasoned than I was by a long shot and probably didn't need a couple of times.

Thats been the whole problem with my sex life. I peaked right away.
 
My first time was in a forest preserve here in Chicago. A mosquito bit my nutsack. I **** you not. Itched like a motehr ****er. (I guess that qualifies as a three-way in some circles)


I still enjoyed the hell out of it though!
 
you:her::hotdog:hallway

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her::hotdog::hotdog::hotdog::hotdog::hotdog::halway turns into stadium::me::not so satisfying at this point.

:lol:

It's the strangest thing though honestly, she was a fairly small girl, but with the activity that she sought, I'd have to be blackzilla to NOT have to jump around to hit he walls if ya know what I'm sayin'

Wow, that really sounds harsh... but truth isnt always comforting.
 
My first time was terrible. The guy lied about his age for one--come to find out later. He also had a very small and skinny penis...So he did not pop my cherry. But like a lot of other women I was pressured into the deed and really just put myself somewhere else for it. I never came to enjoy sex until I had sex with the man I eventually married. I don't regret losing my virginity though because at least I know that no one is as good as my husband.
 
Wow. Am I the only female on this board who didn't have a crappy first time? :shock:

Most of the sex I had as a teen was pretty crappy. I didn't orgasm outside masturbation until well into my 20s. As I've gotten older and more experienced and more sexually confident, the sex has only gotten better. I have to sit and chuckle at my teenage sexcapades and how clumsy and awkward they were. How I knew so little about sex in general, much less what I needed to please myself or how to please my partner.

But, they were a learning experience and without them I doubt I'd have grown to be as sexually confident as I am, and to know what I want and exactly how to get it.
 
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My first time.
His first time.


After he was in, I thought I would split in two.
One stroke. I thought I was gonna die.

I told him it hurt, I was done, and to get off of me.

That's the short version. Not very romantic.
 
Most of the sex I had as a teen was pretty crappy. I didn't orgasm outside masturbation until well into my 20s. As I've gotten older and more experienced and more sexually confident, the sex has only gotten better. I have to sit and chuckle at my teenage sexcapades and how clumsy and awkward they were. How I knew so little about sex in general, much less what I needed to please myself or how to please my partner.

But, they were a learning experience and without them I doubt I'd have grown to be as sexually confident as I am, and to know what I want and exactly how to get it.

Yeah, me too. I probably started having the best sex ever well into my early 30s. But still, as first times go mine wasn't bad. Of course compared to what came later it was kinda crappy. But not crappy bad, just inexperienced crappy. :lol:
 
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