For women, sex is what is impactful. Feelings or state of mind are not why girls and women around the world face, rape, abuse, discrimination, breast ironing, child marriage, forced marriage, forced pregnancy, forced abortion, forced sterilization, sex trafficking, abandonment for being the wrong sex, infanticide, inferior health care, lack of medical research for women's health issues, lack of access to education, every day street harassment, etc, etc, etc.
Millions upon millions of girls have suffered the horrors of genital mutilation, to keep "purity" and control sexuality - based simply on biological sex.
All this on the basis of sex.