Stace said:
Like I said in the post you conveniently ignored, if there a way to communicate with a baby in the womb (I know you like to call it a fetus because it makes you feel better that it is not human)
Nope. When I call it a fetus, it is because I am using the correct medical terminology. I know that it is human, I have one inside myself right now, don't I? I'm certainly not expecting a litter of puppies or an alien.
and you asked the baby would you rather ahve your head squashed in and abortion or would you rather be born and placed in and orphanage I bet every baby would say give me the chance for life you gave those kids in the orphanage...Please don't kill me..........
There's no way you can guarantee that. You'd also have to explain WHY they might be placed in an orphanage. Sorry, but if I had known what lay ahead in my own childhood, I probably would have preferred to have been aborted. Sure, I've got a pretty great life now, but that's because of my own doing, and because I took MYSELF out of the environment I was in. But those experiences will never leave me, and if given a choice, I certainly would have chosen to not experience them at all.
The difference between you and I is I value both the life of the children in the orphanage and the children in the womb........You seem to only value one....
And that's where you're wrong. I don't think that abortion is the right answer in all cases, but sometimes, it truly is the only option. I'd rather that child not have a life at all than suffer once it is out of the womb. Of course, in an ideal world, every pregnant woman would be given the proper care and support to nurture the pregnancy and the subsequent child, but this isn't an ideal world, and we have enough people suffering as it is; I find it cruel to force more to suffer just because some people don't like abortion.