I could have sworn you wrote that "they have to move, not us." So if that wasn't there before an edit, then my comment about the rights thing is moot.
The way I see it, society has lost touch with what "common decency" means. Gay people and straight people more or less have the exact same goals, aspirations, and desires. The only thing that really sets them apart is the sex/gender they choose to have sex with and/or marry. We have lost touch with "common decency." I think in the 90s, "common decency" was respected much more, or at least from a child's perspective in New York (I'm a 90's kid). That said, I was heartened when Congress passed a law last year that codified the right to marry for gay people, and I'm hoping that DeSantis, in his anti-woke crusade, eventually passes a law that steps on federal toes and it becomes a lawsuit. In fact, I believe that at least part of the "don't say gay" law interferes with freedom of expression if not speech.
State governments, such as Florida's, have lost track of what the people want. Yes, the state went Republican. But people will eventually get sick of the culture wars, just like they got sick of it before. It seems to me that most people (regular people, not government officials) in Florida don't care too much about the culture wars. Yes, you have the hardcore, extreme conservatives, and the hardcore, extreme liberals, but most people just don't care one way other other and will eventually tire of state governments making issues out things that were a) previously not issues, and b) are not the issues they care about.
In re: victims and marginalization: you are absolutely right. But I'm not arguing about legislation in my examples of safe havens.