Showing Your Junk to Women You Aren't Involved With Turns Them On?

[OlNate]

Said other...some women yes, probably most women no. Given the ratio, probably a good idea to keep it in your pants unless at some kind of kinky singles meet up with showing your weiner to strangers as the specific theme...hehe

 

[Risky Thicket]

Why can women do it all the time and thats just great but let a man do it and he needs to get beaten because he is making victims?

Somethin dont sound quite right.

What about equality?

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Nature, man. That’s the ways in generally works.

 

[Lursa]

That sounds quite prudish. Do you have kids?

I think that more men should realize that the penis generally looks pretty unappealing, even silly, unless a woman is actively interested in sex.

I'm a prude because I find many other aspects of men's bodies more visually attractive than their penises? Do tell!

 

[Lursa]

I hate when people do this, but I'm gonna do it... it depends. For the vast majority of women I would presume 'hell no'. But, it must work for some women often enough. If it never ever worked I have a hard time imagining it'd still be done.

Well when it comes to sending the pics, they arent there for the laughter.

However in person, they definitely get the laughter, at least from some of us.

Again, if a lady isnt in the mood for that...there is very little appeal and they look kinda silly.

 

[Lursa]

Why can women do it all the time and thats just great but let a man do it and he needs to get beaten because he is making victims?

Somethin dont sound quite right.

What about equality?

?

a) Where do women do it all the time?

b) And when has anyone heard men complaining?

Equality: what about it? If men wish to speak up and express the inappropriateness of this less-common phenomenon, they are welcome to...but...they havent. :roll:

 

[Hawkeye10]

a) Where do women do it all the time?

b) And when has anyone heard men complaining?

Equality: what about it? If men wish to speak up and express the inappropriateness of this less-common phenomenon, they are welcome to...but...they havent. :roll:

It's not the complaining that matters, it is the justifiable complaining.

I think the solution here is to tell women to man up and be as resilient and self reliant as men, if men can do it then so can they, they are victims by choice.

RIGHT?

 

[TheGoverness]

a) where do women do it all the time?

B) and when has anyone heard men complaining?

Equality: What about it? If men wish to speak up and express the inappropriateness of this less-common phenomenon, they are welcome to...but...they havent. :roll:

Don't you get it?

WE USED TO BE BETTER

 

[Lursa]

It's not the complaining that matters, it is the justifiable complaining.

I think the solution here is to tell women to man up and be as resilient and self reliant as men, if men can do it then so can they, they are victims by choice.

RIGHT?

What does women flashing genitalia have to do with being resliliant and self-reliant?

Are you saying that since men like being flashed by women (or at least arent complaining), women should just shut up and 'like' being flashed by men? That's what you mean by 'manning up?'

That's the whole problem right now...women have 'manned up' and taken all this sexual harassment and abuse for centuries and now men are having fits that they are coming forward **now.**

Which is it, you cant have it both ways: either shut up and take it or come forward and hold the abusers accountable?

 

[Hawkeye10]

What does women flashing genitalia have to do with being resliliant and self-reliant?

Are you saying that since men like being flashed by women (or at least arent complaining), women should just shut up and 'like' being flashed by men? That's what you mean by 'manning up?'

That's the whole problem right now...women have 'manned up' and taken all this sexual harassment and abuse for centuries and now men are having fits that they are coming forward **now.**

Which is it, you cant have it both ways: either shut up and take it or come forward and hold the abusers accountable?

I am saying that what we call abuse and matters that the collective/society must sink money and energy into to resolve very often are not, that we are getting saddled with extra victims because women refuse to step up and be responsible, and refuse to act like they are made of anything other than cotton candy.

 

[apdst]

I found you a boyfriend.

He better stay away from any open flames.

 

[Lursa]

I am saying that what we call abuse and matters that the collect to resolve very often are not, that we are getting saddled with extra victims because women refuse to step up and be responsible, and refuse to act like they are made of anything other than cotton candy.

Uh...just from what you wrote...and what others have written (that they dont consider the same things, included being flashed) from women as abuse or harassment, by now it should be pretty clear that men and women do not *feel* the same about these things (since you keep pointing out that we're ignoring men's feelings.)

Is that your idea of equality? Forcing women to "feel" the same way about harassment and abuse? Is that what you meant by 'man up?'

 

[apdst]

I hate when people do this, but I'm gonna do it... it depends. For the vast majority of women I would presume 'hell no'. But, it must work for some women often enough. If it never ever worked I have a hard time imagining it'd still be done.

There it is.

 

[Hawkeye10]

Uh...just from what you wrote...and what others have written (that they dont consider the same things, included being flashed) from women as abuse or harassment, by now it should be pretty clear that men and women do not *feel* the same about these things (since you keep pointing out that we're ignoring men's feelings.)

Is that your idea of equality? Forcing women to "feel" the same way about harassment and abuse? Is that what you meant by 'man up?'

I told you earlier that no one is responsible for feelings, that they come and go as they will.

But they should be communicated and acknowledged, and a mans counts as much as a womans.

Now that we have gone through this remedial work do you perhaps have a question that is worthy of my time?

 

[radcen]

Why can women do it all the time and thats just great but let a man do it and he needs to get beaten because he is making victims?

Somethin dont sound quite right.

What about equality?

Women look better. Duh.

 

[Mach]

This thread is pure gold, it should be archived.

I told you earlier that no one is responsible for feelings, that they come and go as they will.
But they should be communicated and acknowledged, and a mans counts as much as a womans.
Now that we have gone through this remedial work do you perhaps have a question that is worthy of my time?

Lol, you tell her Hawkeye. She better acknowledge your Champion as you wave it around, when the mood strikes you.

 

[Mach]

There it is.

ROFL. No! That's like broken clock fallacy. Hang your dick out and eventually someone takes you up on it...*therefore it's working*. Yep, sure is work'n!
Oh this thread.

 

[Hawkeye10]

This thread is pure gold, it should be archived.



Lol, you tell her Hawkeye. She better acknowledge your Champion as you wave it around, when the mood strikes you.

If its not ok then say so, dont let people do it to you, but you dont need either the state or the mob to save you here.

We have got to stop encouraging people to be invalids, which has been long promoted by Infirmary Feminism....enough is enough...we have gotten to


"ENOUGH!"

 

[Perotista]

Apparently some men believe that to turn on random women, women with which they don't have a sexual relationship, all they have to do is drop there pants and show women their johnson and suddenly women become enchanted and uncontrollable.

What's up with that?

My personal experience and a lifetime of locker room talk doesn't even suggest that the above it true. No doubt it has happened and it might be possible but I have to say I've don't recall a woman ever saying, "All I know is one minute we were talking about work and the next minute I was staring at his wang. At that point all I could think about was ****ing him on the couch in his office."

Ahhh, no.

To paraphrase Greg Allman, "I ain't no saint and I sure as hell ain't no savior." I've been around the block a few times. If dropping trou and waving your pride and joy at the object of your immediate affection is all it takes us men would be steady doing it.

So today we discover that over the years Matt Lauer waved his meat and two vegetables at his female staff hoping to get his ashes hauled.

That's actually pretty damned pathetic. Here's a network star with all talent and charm combined and making a reported 25 million a year and the this guy thinks that to get laid all he has to do is drop his pants and show women his dick? Matty, most of us men can tell you that you are dummer than hell. Even Jim Bakker knows that **** won't get it.

So the question to women and men is: When a man exposes himself to a woman he is not in a involved with does it turn her on?

All I can think of is that dirty old man in a trench coat with nothing underneath flashing women. To a woman one is not involved with, no way. I think that is the height of idiocy and that is being kind to the man showing off his thing. who in his right man would even think such a thing?

 

[Lursa]

I told you earlier that no one is responsible for feelings, that they come and go as they will.

But they should be communicated and acknowledged, and a mans counts as much as a womans.

Now that we have gone through this remedial work do you perhaps have a question that is worthy of my time?

Really? What kind of "feelings" do you think that women were "communicating" to Matt Lauer (and other NBC executives apparently) that drove the men to install remote-controlled locks on their office doors? And did their "feelings" for a need to escape matter more or less than Lauer's "feelings" to flash them and get sexually excited? Er, what exactly was *equal* there?

Wow, just classic 'blame the victim' from you...and it seems the whole 'equality' thing just went out the window.

 

[DiAnna]

Alright, I guess I owe the ladies one picture they'll like.

Not bad, but... love handles. Now this is what I'm talking about!

 

[Lursa]

All I can think of is that dirty old man in a trench coat with nothing underneath flashing women. To a woman one is not involved with, no way. I think that is the height of idiocy and that is being kind to the man showing off his thing. who in his right man would even think such a thing?

But we have to "consider his feelings too!"

LOL No one ever said that everyone posting in this forum is in their right mind. Those justifying this kind of behavior by claiming women should 'just say no' come to mind.

 

[The Mark]

What I'm learning in this thread:

1. Apparently it depends entirely on who is doing the viewing, as apparently some men and some women are completely fine with unexpected genitalia.
But generally speaking, it's not currently a good idea to randomly show yours to people.

2. There's too much hair here.

 

[Parrish]

You may have a point there. All I might add is that being educated in Georgia I've only ever been exposed to Shakespearean porn, and a couple of goat ****ings.

That was b-a-a-ad. But then the b-a-a-a-rd could cast boys as women and sported a goatee.

 

[Parrish]

What I'm learning in this thread:

1. Apparently it depends entirely on who is doing the viewing, as apparently some men and some women are completely fine with unexpected genitalia.
But generally speaking, it's not currently a good idea to randomly show yours to people.

2. There's too much hair here.

Not if they're well groomed.

 

[Hawkeye10]

Really? What kind of "feelings" do you think that women were "communicating" to Matt Lauer (and other NBC executives apparently) that drove the men to install remote-controlled locks on their office doors? And did their "feelings" for a need to escape matter more or less than Lauer's "feelings" to flash them and get sexually excited? Er, what exactly was *equal* there?

Wow, just classic 'blame the victim' from you...and it seems the whole 'equality' thing just went out the window.

I am arguing FOR equality, the Victim Culture Ethos that victims are never to blame has nothing to do with equality, or the attempt at equality, it is all about handing those who claim to be victims power without question, it is an act of injustice.