Fantasea,
I personally feel that contraception is the real answer. However, I also feel that the only person who should decide if abortion is acceptable is the woman concerned.
Sometimes, when I'm trying to decide something, it helps if I can find some comparison which will help me understand the magnitude involved. To better understand the magnitude of abortion I chose American battlefield deaths. A little web surfing led me to a figure of less than two million, total, for all of the conflicts from the Revolution right up to Operation Iraqi Freedom, including both sides in the Civil War.
Since Roe v. Wade, just 32 years, there have been nearly fifty million legal abortions in the US.
So what does this tell me? Simply this. From 1776 to 2005, a period of 229 years: less than two million battlefield deaths. From 1973 to 2005, a period of 32 years: nearly fifty million infants deliberately killed. That's twenty five times as many.
I don't know at what point we should regard a fetus as being a life, and neither does anyone else. However, at conception we have a single cell, and for some time afterwards we have a tiny ball of undifferentiated cells. I do not believe this is a life.
I admire those who have the courage to answer any question, "I don't know." However, with the amount of information available to one who does a little web surfing, there is ample opportunity to find the answers to questions, if one is so inclined.
During the runup to Roe v. Wade, people of good conscience honestly didn't know the answer to the question, "Does life really begin at conception?" In fact, language reflecting this very point is contained in Section 9-B of the Roe v. Wade opinion written by Supreme Court Associate Justice Harry Blackmun who wrote that the question should be decided at some future date when man's knowledge had advanced sufficiently.
Today, we have real-time motion pictures of babies cavorting in the womb. Have you ever been present at an ultra-sound scanning session? Amazing. Few can hold back the tears.
Inter -utero surgery to correct defects observed through scans is performed on infants who will not be born for several months.
'Preemies' whose birth weight was less than a can of Coke are now attending school.
Geneticists, working in the field of DNA research, state, unequivocally, that at the moment the 23 male chromosomes in the sperm unite with the 23 female chromosomes in the egg, a new and totally unique human life is concieved. This is the first in a number of stages through which every human passes seamlessly in the continuum to old age.
These are all advances in human knowledge since 1973.
To date, I have been unable to find any scientific, obstetric, or genetic proof to the contrary. I have repeatedly and unsuccessfully asked that anyone who can offer such fact to kindly do so.
And finally, the conditions I described apply to rich people, often fundamentalist Christians, who think they can speak out on abortion, but stay very silent when it comes to the gross inequalities in this world that affect people so terribly!
The question of abortion should never be argued on the basis of religion because opposing sides can never agree on a question of religious differences.
However, abortion is best discussed on purely factual grounds, as I have described above.
Statistics published by Planned Parenthood and others show that very few abortions performed involve rape, incest, or the life of the mother.
The prime reasons for abortion are to avoid the embarrassment of a pregnancy or because the baby will be an inconvenience.
You said, "I don't know ...". I have furnished an explanation that should help clear up the matter. The next question is whether one human should hold the power of life or death over another. What do you think?
As a PS - - Christians, as a group, contribute more in financial and human resources to aid those in need than any other religious group on the face of the earth.