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leejosepho said:Simply curious because I have never before heard that from anyone, I ask that you might share at least a glimpse of how you learned at a Christian School to be an Atheist?
That is to say that the reality of God's existence rest solely on the ability of your finite mind to infinately understand it.nkgupta80 said:only problem is that in proving htere is a god, one must define what God is. That in itself is such a large undertaking (and also requires much proof) that proving His existance is near an impossibility.
Snoozin said:Very poignant story too, Galenrox. We are more similar than you know. My life is good now, too, only problem is I keep waiting for the bottom to drop out.
I know you didnt say 'people in the world', because you had only mentioned stats of America...which i don't see the point in why you did.alex said:Reread my post. I said nothing about "people in the world." Those numbers are from people in this country. But since you brought it up, these numbers reflect a trend that is happening in all major countries in the world.
Snoozin said:Let me just say now that I really want to believe in God. I do believe, off and on. Usually losing faith in extraordinarily hard times, which is when an individual is supposed to believe in God. So my question is, if you believe in God, how did you get to that point? How do you prove He exists?
Snoozin said:Thank you Viper, you are very kind. I actually have 3 Bibles (different versions), the Episcopal Book of Common Prayer, the Talmud, and the Qur'an. :smile: But I will definitely re-read the Gospel of John.
alex said:You pointed out that you wanted a quiet discussion. Have I been yelling?
alex said:[When a "believer" even casually mentions "God", ... others immediately demand proof of His existence ...]
Because this is a debate club. There is a time and a place for debate of religious issues. This is it.
My aunt is an absolute believer ... and never have I asked her for proof ...
I do not expect proof of a god's existence where it is not appropriate as it is here.
alex said:How do you prove he doesn't exist, or does that not have any bearing on whether you believe or not? I cannot prove or disprove His existence. I've tried both.
alex said:With that out of the way, I will answer your question in general terms.
People ask for proof because without it, statements are just empty statements. If I came to you and told you that I found an alien, what would be your first impulse? You would want proof of it probably by seeing it yourself. Would you believe it without that proof? Expecting evidence is only natural. I cannot believe anything without experiencing it with my own senses and that is rightly so.
alex said:... I have read the Bible. I went to a Christian School. That is where I learned to be an Atheist.
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I learned the teachings of the Bible in school ...
Then I got a little older and learned the concepts of science ...
My mind understood the teachings of biology, physics, etc. and could not comprehend religion any longer. I learned all this as I went to Christian school. Religion and science were taught side by side ...
When I gave up religion, a huge burden was lifted off my shoulders. I felt like I could be myself.
Of course my parents were very upset to learn I was an Atheist. They spent a ton of money towards my Christian education. But that is a risk that is taken when people impose their beliefs on others, even their own children.
alex said:I learned the teachings of the Bible in school ...
Religion and science were taught side by side ...
alex said:... my parents were very upset to learn I was an Atheist. They spent a ton of money towards my Christian education. But that is a risk that is taken when people impose their beliefs on others, even their own children.
Snoozin said:... I have a question for you, [Alex,] since I'm assuming you don't believe in God. How do you prove he doesn't exist, or does that not have any bearing on whether you believe or not? I cannot prove or disprove His existence. I've tried both.
leejosepho said:Thank you for your several responses, Alex, and no, certainly not! And for the record, I only made mention of "quiet discussion" to try to let you know I would try to help keep this one from becoming like some of my discussions with others.
Here combining my question and your response:
Understood as to setting, but I was meaning more to ask why people even "demand proof" at all. For you or for anyone else, I am inclined to believe that demand at least sometimes stems from something like this:
In other words, maybe some people want proof *before* they believe? If so, I would share that I eventually *began* to believe after first being but willing *to* believe, and to act on my “desire for proof” by doing a little "taste and see" investigation or “experimentation":
"Oh, taste and see that YHWH is good; Blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him!" (Psalm 34:8)
But of course, I definitely understand there are many reasons people either cannot or will not always do that.
Again understood, and yes, I would say essentially the same: Either show your alien or offer some way to “proof” your claim of having found one. But when it comes to the matter of “God”, would you not agree that many people are insisting He does *not* exist even before someone else might even get to ask, “Wanna see?”
In my own case, at least some people enjoy hearing about my recovery from alcoholism – I can tell quite a sad-or-funny story, take your pick, with my evidence presented throughout – right up to the time I answer somebody’s “How?” question by mentioning “God” ... and then they immediately insist *everything* I am saying is nothing but a bunch of hooey. In other words, “expecting evidence” is not the issue for people already refusing to believe an “alien” of any kind exists anywhere, and who “demand proof” they have no intention of considering.
Posting this for now, I return to reading your responses ...
leejosepho said:Thank you for that insight into your life experience so far. Either the folks at that school are to be commended for not using some form of mind control to mold you into their particular version of a “cute, little Christian” when you first got there, or you were somehow protected from that kind of thing if they were trying to "church"-school you.
Question: Were there then any or many “outside influences” – friends, peers, neighbors, a librarian – either affecting or effecting your interpretations and understandings of things toward either side of the religion-science debate?
Do you distinguish at all between “the teachings of the Bible” and “religion”?
Since at least my father was a tyrannical Christian, it is believable to me that Christianity actually could have been being literally “imposed on you” by your parents, but is it at least possible their ultimately being “very upset” had more to do with mere assumption or expectation on their part? Today, neither of my parents are at all pleased with me – they are *quite* disappointed and even nasty at times – because I have rejected Christianity and will not pretend we have some kind of “life on the side” to share, but I know their silence toward me – how about yours? – comes primarily from their being afraid to even listen.
alex said:Did you become a "reborn" after alcoholism?
alex said:No outside influences. I knew only people that believed in a god. I got to Atheism on my own.
Snoozin said:... I really want to believe in God ...
... if you believe in God, how did you get to that point?
How do you prove [for yourself that] He exists?
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I am very happy (maybe a little envious) that you have found something to bring peace to your life ...
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I guess I just get bogged down in how horrible certain aspects of life are ...
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I cannot prove or disprove His existence. I've tried both.
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I tend to be too logical for my own good in matters of faith ...
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I want to know the truth of what really *is.* I don't want to find a satisfactory rationale for what I want to *believe.* Does that make any sense?
... in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart. ~ Anne Frank
Snoozin said:... in extraordinarily hard times ... is when an individual is supposed to believe in God.
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My life is good now ... only problem is I keep waiting for the bottom to drop out.
Snoozin said:Have I ever completely given myself over to God? Probably not, although I have tried ...
Snoozin said:I feel closer spiritually to Judaism and Islam even though I was raised Christian.
I must pray directly to God; in my heart I feel as if Jesus Christ, although I respect him very much, is an intercessor.
Timequake said:I too have felt this way before. I look at others with their unfaltering faith and wonder how they do it? With nothing to hold on to but their beliefs how can they be so committed to something that could so easily turn out to be a lie. But more than anything I am jealous, I want to be that kind of person, I want to put everything I know aside and just have one moment of that clarity I just can't seem to grasp. It's a struggle, I believe in God but I have little faith in God... if that makes any sense at all.
Snoozin said:In a psychology class in high school, we learned about a mental/emotional state called an epiphany, where you feel outrageously happy, but it's bigger than that, it has to do with feeling like one with the universe.
Snoozin said:I *do* feel that way, but it's when I'm thinking of the concepts of good and justice and truth. If I can feel so wonderful thinking about these concepts, why don't I *feel* that way when thinking / praying / talking / wondering about God?
Snoozin said:Sometimes I see Him so clearly, but those times are few and far between ...
Timequake said:... not all people can "look inside themselves" and feel the presence of God. This includes you and me. It makes me wonder, did God just forget to put this idea into our minds? Are those who lack this idea, predestined to take his word for it rather than feel it? This natural thought just doesn't seem so natural. If these a priori are human instincts, why is the instinct of the perfect being not found in all humans?
Snoozin said:I read somewhere that people who have strong faith have a more active region in the ventral prefrontal cortex of the brain (or something like that).
Snoozin said:The mere fact that there might be some physiological reason for faith, something embedded in humans in general, would explain a lot. Like why every society/culture in every time period recorded by humans has some sort of concept of God and/or afterlife. I suppose in a way, even though I don't feel the faith that strongly, this idea is as close as I've come to proving God's existence ...
Snoozin said:... when I was going to church as a child, God was emphasized way more than Jesus Christ was ...
MrFungus420 said:The problem is that faith is belief without logical proof or material evidence.
I would ask why you want to believe?
leejosepho said:Greetings, Susan.
Yes, it makes complete sense: You are looking for something or for “someone” that will absolutely not let you down (once again?) in the end, correct?
I had initially written to you, “He proves Himself at the personal level when, one by one, we who become desperate and/or at least willing reach out to Him and leave the results to Him”, and I now see I might have done a little better than that.
First, there is something you will have to get out the way ...
teenonfire4him77 said:Well lets see...For the first 10 years of my life i was molested by my brother, then by a church friend (We had gone to a AME church [African Methodist Epesicpal...basicly methodist tho] when i was little, but it was just someplace to go and play and hang out for me, nothing to do with God at all, wasn't even really interested with the 'big guy upstairs'). I was suicidel at 6, tried to kill myself at 9 and again at 13. Throughout that i had becoem a big girl, cause i didn't know how to cope so i turned to food, in that i went through brutal ridicule and even beaten just because i was big. I went into a severe depression at 12, turned to cutting and suicide attempt for a second time, tehn onto an eating disorder (bullemia). I went to therapy, had medicines and what not...i was improving a bit, but all the medicines did was cure my 'chemical imbalence' not my heart.
In 7th-8th grade, there was a lot of bullying going on, i was basiclly all alone (very small school, only 19 people in my class) All of the friends ive grown up with since kindergarden have turned on me.
But this year, a new girl, Jordann, came to our class...we talked every once in a while, but i was too busy in my own problems to try and get to know her. But somethign just told me to make friends with her...then one day i had gone over her house after school, and we realized how much in common we had, we had basicly a heart to heart. She was a pastors kid, and so i was liek ok thats cool...and she had told me of that point in ehr life where she choose to follow God on her own. I wasn't really interested at the time about anything to deal with God, cause at that time i was convinced that there was none, and if so, then ill just go to hell then cause i really didn't care.
Throughout the summer, we kept in touch, even as she went on her missions trip to Jamacia. Then when the next shcool year came, we went to different highschools...I had become a partyer, and i started drinking, but i never had sex, but the way teens dance now a days (esp. partys i went to) if was darned near sex, but with clothes on...but i started going to her youth group, and thats when my life started to change.
I saw the way she lived, with her struggles and triaumphs in the Lord, and it inspired me. She didn't try and talk to me about him, only if i wanted to, and the youth pastor then, Janele...was amazing. She showed me what true christ-like love was, I never felt that...not from anyone, not my parents...she actually cared about me! She could see right through the mask that ive learned to put on that made my life seem like it was great on the outside...and it opened my eyes and my heart to see that there is a God out there who loves me more then anything, and hates what ive been doing to myself, and wants to take my pains from me so I can live freely in his name.
At this point, I wanted to know the Lord. I wanted to feel the joy through the pain that everyone around me felt, I wanted to live an honerable life and have the relationship with Jesus that is so precious.
So my first major turning point experirence was at Aquire the Fire, it's a convention that is done all over the US. to teach kids about Christ. (A branch of Teen Mania- www.battlecry.com )
It was there where I experienced Christ breaking through the walls in my heart, and i just gave my all to him. Right then and there, I decided the live for him...that is where i got saved, and many other people in my youth group did too.
Then the opprotunity to go on a missions trip with Teen Mania to South Africa came up, and i jumped on it. This past summer, I learned so much on taht trip, i grew so much more in my relationship...bonded with people who have been true christians (meaning not just by name, but by life) longer then I have...and they keep me accountable as I do them.
Just because i have embarked on thi new path in Jesus, doesn't mean i wont ever slip back into my old behaviors(Lord knows i have)...but having friends who keep my accountable and are always there for a shoulder to cry on when the devil trips me up and i give into the temptation that he gives me, and i feel the incredible guilt about it.
Since I've gotten back to school, ive found it a bit hard to fit in, and heck, i might even loose some of my friends soon...but you know what? That probably the best thing, cause as much as I want to reach out to them, i don't want to force them and i don't need them bringing me back down to the place where I used to be. And I always have my church friends...who are as on fire for the Lord as I am.
No matter what anyone tells me, or what kind of 'proof' they give me to disprove the exsistence of God...it wont sway me. I know what he has done for me in my life, because I saught him will all my heart...and he has blessed me 10 fold because of it.
And there ya go:lol:
Snoozin said:Hello. :smile: Wow, you've give me a *lot* to think about here. Can I ask what you mean by the Sinai Experience? And how does this predate Judaism? Just curious....my knowledge of biblical history is not as good as it should be.
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