Sorry pal, I have to call you out on this delusional statement. In fact, the opposite, not seeing Trump not only as a narcissist, but someone that actually suffers from acute narcissistic personality disorder is not seeing reality. This is exceptionally well documented and has been for years.
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2016/06/the-mind-of-donald-trump/480771/
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2016/07/trump-and-sociopathy/491966
Donald Trump is the ultimate narcissist, says Melanie Tonia Evans, a leading global expert on narcissitic abuse - here are the signs and Trump has them all
www.healthista.com
As his presidential campaign trundles forward, millions of sane Americans are wondering: What exactly is wrong with this strange individual? Now, we have an answer.
www.vanityfair.com
Johns Hopkins Medicine doctor discusses her book, “Aftermath: Healing from the Trump Presidency.”
psychcentral.com
Dr John Zinner says US president is ‘incapable of attending to any issue beyond his own personal need for adulation’
www.independent.co.uk
Narcissism is a personality dimension as well as a clinical diagnosis.
www.psychologytoday.com
Retired Harvard professor warns that Trump is untreatable — and could create a police state if he returns to power
www.salon.com
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news...p-psychology-personality-republicans-election
Sander Thomaes, developmental psychologist, is happy with Donald Trump. "I often use him during my classes. My research is primarily focused on narcissism."
www.uu.nl
Trump lives in a reality TV show world where everything is about him. He made the election about him and the American people listened, responded, and fired him.
theglobepost.com
Dr. John Gartner, a psychologist at John Hopkins for 20 years, who now practices privately in New York City, warned during an appearance on MSNBC on Tuesday
www.inquisitr.com
Even his narcissism is not like others'.
time.com
..and, just about every person that has met the man has affirmed this.....
Ty Cobb served during ex-president’s administration and claimed narcissism was one of two toxic traits dictating his actions
www.theguardian.com
Being betrayed over immigration is the one thing that got Coulter to denounce Trump.
crooksandliars.com
Wade through the vast tomes of books written about the president over the last four years and a horrifying picture emerges
www.theguardian.com
Trump’s closest aides have reached the same conclusion in private that scores of mental-health professionals have made in public.
nymag.com
"He lies because he's a sociopath, a con man—to deceive others," Conway said. "He also lies because he's a pathological narcissist—to deceive himself."
www.newsweek.com
Mary Trump paints a disturbing picture of her uncle, President Trump, in a forthcoming book that accuses him of “cruelty and incompetence” and a penchant for lying and cheating that dates back to w…
thehill.com
His ultimate act of narcissism: complete inability to accept the results of the 2020 election, which led to a violent insurrection. He values nothing but himself, not even his country.
Salon spoke to psychologists about how a malignant narcissistic personality would react to a devastating blow to their ego like an election loss
www.salon.com
Author Mary Trump said she thought Trump didn't intervene on January 6 because he was "enjoying it too much" and "probably wanted it to get worse."
www.businessinsider.com
As to "taking it upon himself to b the champion of over a hundred million Americans who can't benefit it in any way except with votes..... Idiotic if you think this altruism. This is abject narcissism. Those people feed his insatiable ego.
You said "nearly everyone has met him says he is attentive and understanding. I read multiple books written about him from people he let close to him. No only does "nearly everybody" hold water, I have NEVER read anyone that states as you do. Care to name names? Let's see some cites. I won't hold my breath, you are not talking from knowing, you are uttering words of wishful thinking; fantasy.
Carry on with your odd, sometimes charming political positions, but at least start with a foundation of reality, eh?