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How do you know if people can't see it? How can you tell what other people know about you if you don't possess the insight to look inside their mind?No you cant see it when the transition is complete and effective. That is calling being stealth and passing.
If I see a person that's trying to look female but clearly isn't because I'm polite I'll refer to them as female even if they're not trans they appreciate it.
Is that person stealthy how do you know this isn't 100% of stelthing?
When describing a woman or something female sure but when describing someone or some animal or an object as male she would use he. Or when it's something that doesn't have a gender or no sexual characteristics are applied to it she would use it.A trans woman would typically use she or her pronouns because she likely has a female gender identity.
No woman alive would refer to herself as she or her she refers to herself it's me or I.
I use he him, she heard they them it you I me all the time in language.
I think what you mean to say is she wants you to use those words when you're describing her and she's not in charge of that.
I or me is non binary. Such a person wouldn't use they or them to describe themselves.Some trans females do use non-binary pronouns.
It has nothing to do with personal when you're saying I use these pronouns what you're saying is you must use these pronouns to discuss things related to me. I don't walk into places telling them what pronouns are used because I don't need to. Further they will use whatever pronouns they see are appropriate for someone like me.Its a very personal decision that relates to their gender identity as where they are on the gender spectrum.
This pronoun thing is totally astroturfed and fake I don't know why people keep insisting on it you don't use she or her to describe yourself unless you're a profound douchebag and talk about yourself in the third person you use I or me.