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Normally, I wouldn't do this on here, nor would I really need to get this kind of advice on this topic, but this particular case is different and it'll be revealed as to why a little later. So here we go:
For context, back around late Summer-early Fall 2020, I was dating a woman for awhile. Long story made short, it didn't work out (ask later). While we were seeing each other, there was this other woman who came into my place of employment. No, the woman I dated and I didn't call it off because of this, just to be clear. I'm not that kind of guy. Anyway, this other woman was pretty and nice. I didn't think too much of it because, one, a woman this good looking and this kind of a personality is typically married, and two, I was committed to the other woman I was dating at the time.
Now, AFTER the woman I dated and I called it off, you could say I was pressed, a little, by my co-workers to consider talking to the same woman that came in where I work back in August, since she was coming back in. I was feeling a little down because it was the first serious relationship I've been in and they (my co-workers) were trying to cheer me up. I got a chance to talk to her and learned quite a bit about her: NOT married, NO kids, my age, and we share many of the same beliefs and values, far more than the woman I dated before.
After the time she came in, I haven't seen her for the next 2-3 months. At that time, I didn't think much about her and I figured I would try online dating. Nothing came of it (surprise, surprise), and I basically said "screw it, I just want to meet people my age and I'll go out finding a few groups to join." I came across a local church and saw that they have Sunday evening services. I figured I would give it a try. At least I could meet new people and, hopefully, make new friends. I got there and that woman was there. What I found out was she worked at the school connected to it and her dad (a good man) was the head of both the school and church. So that makes this woman pastor's daughter.
Now, I'm in a bit of conundrum. We'll see each other on Sunday evenings and talk whenever we can. However, we usually don't have a lot of time because she is active with the services. But we have talked, so that's a plus. Typically, I wouldn't have much of a problem talking to women and getting them to go out with me (assuming I'm interested in them), but with this being a pastor's daughter (and an all around good person), I'm, somehow, a bit shy. Plus with her being pretty and me being, well, not what I call supermodel stature (just average, I guess, so definitely not the worst looking), it makes it harder. I'm probably going to see her again this coming Sunday or two, so any advice from you guys would be helpful. For more details about me or the woman to help to give the advice, ask. Thanks!
For context, back around late Summer-early Fall 2020, I was dating a woman for awhile. Long story made short, it didn't work out (ask later). While we were seeing each other, there was this other woman who came into my place of employment. No, the woman I dated and I didn't call it off because of this, just to be clear. I'm not that kind of guy. Anyway, this other woman was pretty and nice. I didn't think too much of it because, one, a woman this good looking and this kind of a personality is typically married, and two, I was committed to the other woman I was dating at the time.
Now, AFTER the woman I dated and I called it off, you could say I was pressed, a little, by my co-workers to consider talking to the same woman that came in where I work back in August, since she was coming back in. I was feeling a little down because it was the first serious relationship I've been in and they (my co-workers) were trying to cheer me up. I got a chance to talk to her and learned quite a bit about her: NOT married, NO kids, my age, and we share many of the same beliefs and values, far more than the woman I dated before.
After the time she came in, I haven't seen her for the next 2-3 months. At that time, I didn't think much about her and I figured I would try online dating. Nothing came of it (surprise, surprise), and I basically said "screw it, I just want to meet people my age and I'll go out finding a few groups to join." I came across a local church and saw that they have Sunday evening services. I figured I would give it a try. At least I could meet new people and, hopefully, make new friends. I got there and that woman was there. What I found out was she worked at the school connected to it and her dad (a good man) was the head of both the school and church. So that makes this woman pastor's daughter.
Now, I'm in a bit of conundrum. We'll see each other on Sunday evenings and talk whenever we can. However, we usually don't have a lot of time because she is active with the services. But we have talked, so that's a plus. Typically, I wouldn't have much of a problem talking to women and getting them to go out with me (assuming I'm interested in them), but with this being a pastor's daughter (and an all around good person), I'm, somehow, a bit shy. Plus with her being pretty and me being, well, not what I call supermodel stature (just average, I guess, so definitely not the worst looking), it makes it harder. I'm probably going to see her again this coming Sunday or two, so any advice from you guys would be helpful. For more details about me or the woman to help to give the advice, ask. Thanks!