And what incentive is provided to them by treating them like children? Yes, some are born into more fortunate situations than others, and this makes it easier for them to be successful. That's undeniable. However, the ultimate responsibility lies with the individual.
I'm not sure how your question is relevant. You are trying to convince someone who works in the welfare system that its clients are treated like children. I can assure you they are not. I appreciate you acknowledging my point about some having a much easier time than others because of environmental factors. It is undeniable. Even after admitting that, you seem to want to go right back to not caring. I'd like to see how you would do under those circumstances.
Firstly, I never called for getting rid of all government assistance to the poor. Go see my link on the negative income tax (although I think the $10,000 per person is a bit much from a cost point of view at this time). What I said is that the welfare system essentially pays people to remain on the system, and discourages them from trying to break the cycle.
I know what you think about it, but you have failed to explain why you think the system "pays people to remain on the system, and discourages them from trying to break the cycle" or show that you have any understanding of how the system works. I might have something to consider if you offered something more than a blanket statement that sounds an awful lot like a regurgitated and biased opinion.
Having read the research on the Income Maintenance Experiments conducted, I can see some positive things that could come out of it in regards to education incentive. It would provide some base of support for young people who would otherwise have no income to sustain them while attending college. I really like that part of it. I don't think it does enough to address the medical needs of people though. Maybe combined with Medicaid it could be enough. There are still many other factors to consider though.
Here are some of the well published results of a "negative income tax" system.
http://www.bos.frb.org/economic/conf/conf30/conf30a.pdf
"In short, the four income maintenance experiments showed that
guaranteed incomes reduced work effort. The reductions were probably
larger than advocates had hoped, but considerably smaller and more
precisely measured than predictions based on prior nonexperimental
research. Even though the overall work reduction is small, the resulting
earnings loss among recipient breadwinners would represent a large
fraction of the payments to low-income families. This is a significant
political impediment to trying to reduce poverty through a system of
pure cash transfers."
This approach doesn't seem to encourage increases in work effort.
"David Ellwood basically agreed with Cain that very little has been
learned from the negative income tax experiments about separation and
divorce. The evidence indicates that the programs probably were not
stabilizing and may have been somewhat destabilizing. This, however,
was to be expected given the generosity of negative income tax
payments relative to those provided under AFDC. The small sizes in the
Seattle-Denver experiment for groupings by race or site or treatment
preclude any definitive findings with nationwide application."
There is no reason to think it has any stabalizing effect on marriage or families staying together.
"Hence, to the extent that improved health is of
particular interest, programs aimed directly at health care have a better
chance of success than do cash transfers. In terms of psychological wellbeing
and participation in community life, again the researchers found
no effect. Overall, the results suggest that the lives of recipients were
not altered dramatically by the payments offered in the experiments."
This approach doesn't seem to encourage people to change for the better.
I can see some posibility there though if it could be combined with other programs.