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Limit Sexual Thrill Seeking to 4 Weeks per Year

SDET

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As some of you can tell, I enjoy some quite unusual things. However, after awhile it becomes more of a vice and the thrill dissipates with the law of diminishing returns kicking in. Whether your thrill is porn, whores, sex tourism, BDSM or something else, it has been my experience that reliving past adventures or planning new ones gives way more satisfaction than the vices themselves. When your desire for sexual thrills exceeds your desire to feel rested with plenty of sleep, you're off in the weeds.

Bringing my wife along on my last two trips has been a bonanza. It's especially helpful when she reminds me that "you're just doing this to be doing it and you're not experiencing a thrill". We then plan something else. The balance makes things 100 times more enjoyable. If not for my wife, I wouldn't have taken time and money to experience things like San Andres, Monserrate, Zipaquira, etc.

If you're spending more than 4 weeks per year on sexual thrill seeking, it's probably too much.
 
Nothing thrills me more than a husband who desires me after all these years.
 
As Clint Eastwood said - man's got to know his limitations.

 

my sexual thrill is finding someone who loves me for who i am on the inside.
 
Winston said:
my sexual thrill is finding someone who loves me for who i am on the inside.
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Yeah, I'll bet you like showing your misses how you love her on the inside every night, right? :2dancing:

 
It's amazing that there are people that need to be told there is more in life than sex.
 
Why put limits or time-frames on sex?
 
Chomsky said:
Why put limits or time-frames on sex?
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Addiction control.

It also has to do with recognizing what one's spouse can psychologically take. I risked my marriage and got essentially what I wanted. There's a time to stop pushing one's luck.
 
Chomsky said:
Why put limits or time-frames on sex?
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You know when you've had enough sex? When you or your spouse pass out on top of the other.

THAT'S sex and the secret to a good relationship.
 
SDET said:
Addiction control.

It also has to do with recognizing what one's spouse can psychologically take. I risked my marriage and got essentially what I wanted. There's a time to stop pushing one's luck.
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Alright, the 2nd paragraph is a very reasonable explanation.

It appeared to me you were handing-out a blanket suggestion for all of us, but maybe I misunderstood you.
 
UtahBill said:
So, at 73 we should still be....what is it again?
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At 73 I'd drop all artificial limits, and go for whatever comes my way when as it comes! Why waste precious time? Life is too short ...

 
Chomsky said:
At 73 I'd drop all artificial limits, and go for whatever comes my way when as it comes! Why waste precious time? Life is too short ...

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Whatever comes your way ought to be your significant others happiness.
 
Sexual thrill seeking? Isn't sex itself a thrill? I guess if you are into some major kinks, swinging, cuckolding, etc. Then perhaps, but if you're that type of person you're likely hyper sexual.

Human beings were meant to have sex all the time, and I think we have a problem in this country of not having ENOUGH sex.

I think COMMUNICATION is key between you and your partner, on what you are comfortable with doing kinks wise, and also how often you need to be having sex. We are all via biology in some way addicted to sex, this should be embraced in a healthy way as a natural and important part of life that is vital to a marriage.
 
TrueScotsman said:
Human beings were meant to have sex all the time, and I think we have a problem in this country of not having ENOUGH sex.
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Apparently, the younger generation is having less and less sex. They are too glued to their phones/screens.
 
Scrabaholic said:
Apparently, the younger generation is having less and less sex. They are too glued to their phones/screens.
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My guess is you have no clue what it's like for younger generations, just dumb generalizations like the one you made.
 
Chomsky said:
Alright, the 2nd paragraph is a very reasonable explanation.

It appeared to me you were handing-out a blanket suggestion for all of us, but maybe I misunderstood you.
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If someone can avoid screwing up their lives from knowing my experiences, it's a win. I live by the idea of "quit while you're ahead".
 
SDET said:
Addiction control.

It also has to do with recognizing what one's spouse can psychologically take. I risked my marriage and got essentially what I wanted. There's a time to stop pushing one's luck.
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I wonder if people sometimes use the term sex addiction to justify whoring around.
 
Scrabaholic said:
I'm going by what I've read.

Please do not get snarky with me.
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Where did you read that younger generations are having less sex because of phone addiction? It sounds like you just regurgitated some prejudicial nonsense about people whose lives you likely know little about.

And I will take whatever disposition towards you that I see fit.
 
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