This argument is used by abusers and crimicals everywhere.\
Oh? Well that's just libertarian logic then.
The baptist church called and their want clocks turned back 300 years.
No one's listening to you and it's you who isn't up-to-speed with the 21st century.
Roe vs. Wade was overturned, and Obergfell is likely going to overturned as well in the near future. I bet you said the same thing before Roe ended up going away, didn't you?
China, which has over 4X the population of the US, the world's most-spoken language, and a thriving economy which will likely surpass that of the US has classified homosexuality as a mental disorder.
It's you who appears to live in the past. You think this is still the 1960s "Summer of Love". But, news flash, it isn't - it's the 2020s.
1.) Being gay isn't a choice and it cannot be changed.
Wrong. They can choose to marry someone of the opposite sex. And if they claim they constantly "feel an urge" to enter into sexual relationships with the same sex, they could opt for chemical castration if it bothered them that much:
We used a survey posted on the Internet to explore the motivation of men who are interested in being castrated. Out of 134 respondents, 23 (17%) reported already having been castrated. The 104 (78%) individuals who said they had not been castrated were asked why they wanted to be castrated and...
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
No one forces them to act out their urges or fantasies, that's an elective choice.
Being gay is no more narcissistic than being heterosexual.
No, the problem with social libertarians like you is that you just refuse to accept these facts due to your own selfishness and narcissism on the matter.
Heterosexual relationships provide well-documented, survivalistic benefits in humans and animals which have been observable for all of human history.
Homosexual relationships do not - and the social libertarian lobby which supports pro-LGBT politics doesn't care about "the good of society" - they only care about themselves and their own selfish desire to have society cater to the abnormal sexual preferences of less than 3% of the population.
2.) There is an evolutionary benefit to homosexuality.
Male homosexuality doesn’t make complete sense from an evolutionary point of view. It appears that the trait is heritable, but because homosexual men are much less likely to produce offspring than heterosexual men, shouldn’t the …
www.psychologicalscience.org
"Studies" are dime-a-dozen, and are often of skeptical reliability - being merely intended to sell to less-informed people who just want someone to tell them what they want to hear.
The fact remains that the survivalistic benefit of heterosexual unions has been observable for all of human and animal history (not just in the context of a single, random "study") - homosexual unions don't have that benefit, and views held by the pro-LGBT lobby are purely about the selfish interests of individuals who identify as such and want society to pander to them just because they exist.