Bustabush
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- Aug 4, 2005
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- Slightly Conservative
What people consider "bad deeds" will vary. You consider having sex out of marriage to be "bad." Personally, I do not. I'm not saying that my position is better than yours. You may think that the fact that I had sex outside of marriage goes towards me being a bad person or having committed bad deeds. That's okay. I don't mind being judged when I feel perfectly comfortable with the decision I have made. Sure there are men with whom I regret having sex, but that made me a better person as opposed to made me worse.
Aps,
I think you misunderstand my postion. The act in itself is not immoral if one is responsablie. The outcome of the act is just too much of a risk for me to consdier it moral. There are women I'm glad I never had sex with. I think this makes me a better person as opposed to a worse. If you think this somehow makes me inhuman than fine. If "being human" means I circumvent my own moral code I'd rather not be considered as such.