I think the abortion debate comes down to whether one thinks a fetus is a person or not. It's not about people wanting to kill babies for the devil's joy. It's not about people wanting to dominate women and exclude them from decisions. It's not about the Bible, misogynists, the adoption system, population or morals and ethics.
It's about one thing: either you think a fetus is a person and therefore the right to life trumps the right to choose an abortion, or you think a fetus is not a person and therefore the right to choice trumps, well, the absence of anything else.
I don't think people are evil, murderous of babies, woman-hating or freedom-demolishing. I just think we have a disagreement about whether or not a fetus is a human (person, if we want to play semantics). Personally, I think a fetus is a human/person and that is why I am pro-life. Many states in the US apparently agree with me, as killing a pregnant woman generally results in 2 charges of murder.
Of course, it is pretty easy for me to consider a fetus to be a person (or, more specifically, deserving of a person's rights). I'm not sure how much that would matter anyway, being ecocentric; however, that's a whole nother can o worms and it is probably best to just approach this from an anthropocentric viewpoint.