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This is something I'll never understanding around current laws, in the US at least. If a mother doesn't want to become a parent she doesn't have to. She can kill a child and walk away with a clean slate.
Flip it around and it's a completely different story. If a man doesn't want to become a parent, tough luck. The woman can decide to keep the baby and the man is legally forced to pay alimony. That's a direct contradiction to pro-"choice". You're only letting the woman have a choice while completely ignoring the choice of a man.
It's also a violation of the "my body, my choice" argument. Forcing a man to pay alimony is dictating what he can and can't do with this body. That alimony would come from the effort of his labour. His hands flipping burgers. He'd likely have to take up more hours at work in order to be able to afford the alimony payments and maintain the same standard of living for himself. That's a violation of his bodily autonomy, is it not?
It's hard to deny that women get the better end of the deal when it comes to sex and parent planning. It really makes it impossible to swallow the whole "male privilege" myth.
What are your thoughts?
My opinion on the topic is that it is unreasonable for a woman to carry a man's child against her will but it is also equally unreasonable to demand the father to take responsibility in for a child that he had no say in if it was born or killed.You've completed ignored my OP and even resorted to a terrible false equivalency.
A woman cannot claim control of a man's prostate because that man would've had the prostate with our without her. She's completely devoid of its existence.
A fetus is the product of both a man and a woman. A man had to give his body up for that fetus to be created. Stripping him of any bit of say in the matter doesn't make much sense.
Also, being coerced to pay child support for 18 years is forced parenthood. Sorry. A man has to sit by while a woman gets to kills his child yet he has no right to "my money, my choice"? Point me to the equality in that situation.
If a man wants to be a father so badly, he should look for a monogamous relationship with a partner who is ready for parenthood and welcomes it. This can be done by working on yourself and becoming a better person.
Same can be told to women.You are transparent and it's obviously part of your victimization mind set.
Come on man, take some personal responsibility, it's not so bad. You'll be better off.
My opinion on the topic is that it is unreasonable for a woman to carry a man's child against her will but it is also equally unreasonable to demand the father to take responsibility in for a child that he had no say in if it was born or killed.
In my view the solution is to create a Male version of abortion for fathers by allowing them to legally opt out of all responsibilities before birth occurs. If the woman insists on having the child the Male does not want she should have to raise it without any assistance from the father.
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This is a topic where you are gonna find women dont believe in equality. They believe they are superior and are entitled to preferential treatment by the law.[]
Now this is something I 100% agree with. I was hoping for more identical responses in this thread to be honest since it really seems like a no brainer. If a woman gets to opt out of parenting so should a man. It's a simple equation.
Best way to respond to an ad hoc troll...BTW that is referencing the post, not the poster, unlike the post itself did.Straight up trolling I see. I should have known.
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Now this is something I 100% agree with. I was hoping for more identical responses in this thread to be honest since it really seems like a no brainer. If a woman gets to opt out of parenting so should a man. It's a simple equation.
There is a whole thread about this somewhere, but I can't recall off the top of my head if it's here or my other debate site. But yes, if she wants it removed and under the assumptions I gave, he now has choice to keep and raise the offspring. The scenario I made eliminates the need for termination for her to end the pregnancy. In fact my premise for that thread was that a woman doesn't have a right to an abortion per se, but that currently an abortion is the only way to exercise her actual right of ending the pregnancy of her body.Just put of curiosity, in your scenerio of an (AW), if the woman decided she did not want the baby, but the father did, would the woman be held financial responsible for the child's care after it was born?
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Best way to respond to an ad hoc troll...BTW that is referencing the post, not the poster, unlike the post itself did.
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If a woman doesn't want to be a mother so badly, she should have less sex. This can be done by working on yourself and becoming a better person.
If a woman wants a man's money so badly, she should look for committed relationships with decent, honest men instead of cheap sexual exchanges. This can be done by working on yourself and becoming a better person.
This is a topic where you are gonna find women dont believe in equality. They believe they are superior and are entitled to preferential treatment by the law.
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If a man doesn't want to be a father, he should have less sex. This can be done by working on yourself and becoming a better person.
Following this logic then we can end gay marriage because gay men have just as much right to marry a woman as a straight man and vice versa for gay women. And a man is forced into parenthood by the woman even if he doesnt want to be a father. He will be forced to support the child. Thats a fact.
I think that this statement lack the context that the OP provides, albeit not explicitly. I take from your statement that a man does have to become a parent against his choice by making the choice not to have sex to start with. Or by removing the testicles altogether. Those are the only two 100% methods of not having offspring. Ok one more, having sex with a woman who has had a hysterectomy of some degree (I think ovary removal is considered partial hysterectomy. Willing to be corrected). But no man has the choice, currently, to not become a parent, biologically speaking, once conception has occurred.
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God forbid a man take responsibility for his actions.
Trumpets, you can't live with them, you can't get rid of them.
What a dilemma.
And no man is forced to be a father. It has never happened in the history of humankind.
Its not false. A gay man has the same exact right to marry a woman as I do. Does he not?
guess you only support false premises you agree with.
A man should have just as much right to abort their child as the female...
and according to you sex is not supposed to enter our law, except when you need it to fit your argument.
Which of your premises is false they both cant be true.
When?
That would be true if it were not for the fact that govt cannot discriminate on the basis of sex or gender.
And no man is forced to be a father. It has never happened in the history of humankind.
You've completed ignored my OP and even resorted to a terrible false equivalency.
A woman cannot claim control of a man's prostate because that man would've had the prostate with our without her. She's completely devoid of its existence.
A fetus is the product of both a man and a woman. A man had to give his body up for that fetus to be created. Stripping him of any bit of say in the matter doesn't make much sense.
Also, being coerced to pay child support for 18 years is forced parenthood. Sorry. A man has to sit by while a woman gets to kills his child yet he has no right to "my money, my choice"? Point me to the equality in that situation.
And where exactly have I done that?
He does, under the same exact same conditions. When the offspring is inside his body. When it is in his body, then she has no right to tell him whether or not it will remain there until birth. Of course you do realize that she does not have a right to abort the child after birth, right? That would be the point where neither of their bodily autonomy is in play.
Pray tell, when have I advocated for a law to be sex or gender specific?
And exactly what two premises do you believe I am putting forth?
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She's not being forced into anything if she decides to keep the baby.
And I explained in my OP that forcing child support out of a man is a violation of his bodily autonomy. That money comes from his labour. That's the product of his body.
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