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Re: Parents have to face the music
Why would I deny that it's the truth. Sometimes it's for good reasons and sometimes it's not but it's no more anyone place to judge that than it is to judge why a woman chooses to be or not be a parent. Its personal..
Do you deny women have abortions or put up babies for adoption for the same reason?
Why do you think it's fair to hold men responsible for women's biology? Better question why do we allow women to not tell men they are fathers is it there fault that their biological differences preclude them from knowing unless informed.
That's all fine and wonderful but it does not change the fact that the law protects women from those things more than it does men. Why do you resist men being given more legal protections to at least narrow the disparity that currently exists is what I cant fathom.
You strike me as a decent person who believes in fairness but I get the impression that you have a very low opinion of men. You have this advaserial stance where you think men are trying to get something over on women. The only thing we want is to be treated with the same dignity and respect that women ask that they are treated with. Why is that asking too much?
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Oh come on. What is the difference? Please explain? What do they want that 'window of opportuntity for?' You wrote it: to avoid being a parent which clearly is "a consequence" of having sex.
Please, dont lower yourself and deny this. If the man opts out pre-birth...he escapes consequences.
Why would I deny that it's the truth. Sometimes it's for good reasons and sometimes it's not but it's no more anyone place to judge that than it is to judge why a woman chooses to be or not be a parent. Its personal..
Do you deny women have abortions or put up babies for adoption for the same reason?
And it is equal, because women cannot escape the consequences of a pregnancy either. Never have been able to, still cannot.
Why do you think it's fair to hold men responsible for women's biology? Better question why do we allow women to not tell men they are fathers is it there fault that their biological differences preclude them from knowing unless informed.
They believe it because its true and newsflash for you women's egos are the same size as mens. Your using misandry again to rationalize your position.This is what alot of men believe. I wrote earlier why it's ridiculous when just 'controlling a man' requires the pain and sacrifices of pregnancy and the disruption it does to a woman's life in general. Men that believe that must have some huge egos.
Some women do it to hang onto a specific relationship. And as I wrote earlier, so do men (holes in condoms for instance). That's not random casual sex, that's people in relationships. And if both parties arent careful, they can get hurt, no doubt. That's how ****ty some people are. But that's a relationship hazard....for everyone.
Many women do not believe in abortion. I know nothing is set in stone but if you dont find this out before sleeping with a woman, you have no right to complain. If you roll the dice, you pay the price...women have to. Why shouldnt men? That is equal.
That's all fine and wonderful but it does not change the fact that the law protects women from those things more than it does men. Why do you resist men being given more legal protections to at least narrow the disparity that currently exists is what I cant fathom.
You strike me as a decent person who believes in fairness but I get the impression that you have a very low opinion of men. You have this advaserial stance where you think men are trying to get something over on women. The only thing we want is to be treated with the same dignity and respect that women ask that they are treated with. Why is that asking too much?
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