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If gays get equal rights tomorrow what rights and freedoms do you lose?

1.)There is no damage done by allowing homosexuals to marry,
2.) but the use of the word marriage is taking a term that is considered sacred and changing its meaning.
3.) All we need to do is start calling all "marriages" by another name, say for example, civil unions.
4.) The legal term for any marriage, then is "civil union."
5.) The partners can privately call their union whatever they like.
6.) They can go to a church that will perform a "marriage" ceremony if they choose.
7.) Everyone would have the same rights, the same everything, but the word marriage wouldn't appear in the formal documents.
8.) Gays have equal rights
9.) religions are accorded their sacred institution, and everyone is semi happy.

1.) correct thats why equal rights is winning
2.) this lie was already proven false, repeating it doesnt help it just further exposes your failed argument.
What about religions that already do gay marriage? do you want to stop them too?
3.) no need. sounds like "all we need to do is dont call blacks person persons, many people hold what a person is sacred and blacks aren't deserving to be called persons, so white people will still be called persons but EVERYBODY will also be known as somethign else" sounds awesome!!! lol
4.) false civil unions are not federally recognize and many arent recognized by other states . . . fail
5.) this is already the case
6.) this is already the case
7.) not possible with the failed solution you suggested, you would be taking rights away.
8.) not yet but they will
9.) this is already true since legal marriage has nothing to do with religious marriage.

see problem is already solved, good job! LMAO
 
So it's exactly as I said. There is absolutely zero damage of any kind being done to the religious, but they're throwing a hissy fit because they want to monopolize the word marriage. That's not a good reason for the government to block something. You're on the wrong side of this. SSM is going to happen, so you can be pissed about it all you want, but at the end of the day it has no effect on your life whatsoever. Deal with it.

Why are "christians" being such spiteful and vindictive people over this?
Because SSM wants to redefine a word that they consider sacred. Why fight over a word?
 
1.) wrong again the many original marriage contracts didn't even specify husband and wife, nor make reference to any definition you are trying to invent and failing, they only said "party"
2.) correct, thats why your argument is failing and as been destroyed from naming angles.
3.) nobody is LOL it will still be a marriage contract. WHo is deny participation in said contract is being correct based on equal rights. NOTHING is being redefined :D thanks for playing

SO now Ill ask you AGAIN since you keep dodging (Which is VERY telling) to answer these questions and do the following:

You have yet to provide ONE valid and logical reason based on rights and laws. Please do so in your next post.
Tell us why your solution is the easier one or even needed?

also dont forget my question, should we make all other religions but mine (Christianity) also use a different word?

It's the easier one because it bestows equal rights on gays without redefining a term many consider sacred.
 
1.)Because SSM wants to redefine a word that they consider sacred.
2.)Why fight over a word?

1.) How will religious marriage be redefined you havent explained this yet?
what about the many religions that already have gay marriage?

2.) I don't know youd have to ask the minority of religious people that are trying, and failing, to do that
 
1.)It's the easier one because it bestows equal rights on gays
2.) without redefining a term
3.) many consider sacred.

1.) false it does not bestow equal right, fail
2.) no term is being redefined
3.) what they consider is meaningless to legal marriage


AGAIN since you keep dodging (Which is VERY telling) to answer these questions and do the following:

A.)You have yet to provide ONE valid and logical reason based on rights and laws to let religion define legal marriage. Please do so in your next post.
B.)Tell us why your solution is the easier one or even needed?
C.) also dont forget my question, should we make all other religions but mine (Christianity) also use a different word?
 
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1.) ahhh look at the hypocrisy showing through . . . but MANY were "offended" and felt that was wrong and that thier religion was disrespected by interracial marriage? So that made up and meaningless disrespect was ok then but now this made up and meanignless disrespect matters???? lol gotcha
2.) who defintion? what definition, gay marriage fits it too :shrug" seems you are picking and choosing based on meanignless feelings
3.) we are not, the contract is being fixed
4.) no need
5.) they already control religious marriage, legal marriage has nothing to do with them
6.) also false, it is a right. You dont know much about this actual topic do you?
7.) yes we can and we are already, gays will have equal rights this summer more than likely
8.) in reality it isnt an issue to anybody that supports equal rights.

why would we give in to anti-rights people? did we give in to them over womans rights? minority rights? interracial marriage? etc etc? nope because theres no logical and sound reasons to do so based on laws and rights.

equal rights > than subjective silly feelings

1. Interracial marriage offended bigots who wanted to keep the races separate. It had nothing to do with religion. The lifetime union between two people of opposite genders and different races still fits the original definition of marriage that I posted above.
2. the actual definition that I linked to above, the etymology of the word everyone seems to want to fight over.
5. So, now there are different kinds of marriage?
6. So you say.
7. So, there's no need to compromise because you side will win anyway? I suppose that's one way to look at it.
8. If you ignore the right of the religious to keep the original definition of a word they consider sacred. Are we going to re define the Atonement next? How about Pastor?
 
1a.) Interracial marriage offended bigots who wanted to keep the races separate. It had nothing to do with religion.
1b.)The lifetime union between two people of opposite genders and different races still fits the original definition of marriage that I posted above.
2. the actual definition that I linked to above, the etymology of the word everyone seems to want to fight over.
3. So, now there are different kinds of marriage?
4. So you say.
5. So, there's no need to compromise because you side will win anyway? I suppose that's one way to look at it.
6. If you ignore the right of the religious to keep the original definition of a word they consider sacred.
7.) Are we going to re define the Atonement next? How about Pastor?

1.) 100% false, some people claimed it did just like they claim gay marriage does now.
1b.) according to YOUR biased opinion but not facts and reality. You hypocrisy is again showing. You ignore thier sacred objections but claim others are important
2.) translation, you have no answer, you are making up a definition and then claiming its being fought over
3.) what do you mean now? LMAO there always has been. But this explains why your views are hugey wrong and where your confusion on this topic is.
4.) wrong, so says SCOTUS and many court rullings, what do you have that says it snot and they are wrong?
5.) theres no need for a compromise because religion and religious marriage has nothing to do with legal marriage. What is "my side", please tell me what side im factually on lol this will be good
6.) that right is being violated, it doesn't actually exists but religious marriage isnt being redefined so that lie complete fails and gets destroyed like the other ones.
7.) who is we? and those words already have many definitions some which have nothing to do with religion and are not controlled by religion.

With each post your claims are failing more and more.
Facts win again
 
Because SSM wants to redefine a word that they consider sacred. Why fight over a word?

Bull****. If you people actually considered marriage sacred you'd also be throwing hissy fits over our greater than 50 percent divorce rate and how we've made gameshows out of it. This comes only from a place of hate. Historically marriage has had MANY definitions. You do not get to force your narrow definition on the rest of us.

Mind your own business and stop trying to be spiteful over something that has zero effect on your life.

1. Interracial marriage offended bigots who wanted to keep the races separate. It had nothing to do with religion. The lifetime union between two people of opposite genders and different races still fits the original definition of marriage that I posted above.

And what if it's someone's religion that black people shouldn't be married? Religion is an opinion. You seem to think you deserve special reverence and rights for your religion, and you don't. You're free to believe whatever you want, you're not free to force it on anyone else.

So, now there are different kinds of marriage?

Yes.
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Stop pretending like your definition of marriage comes from your holy book. It comes from you and you're using your religion as a shield.

7. So, there's no need to compromise because you side will win anyway? I suppose that's one way to look at it.
Yes, there's no reason to compromise with bigots that are only doing this to be hateful pricks. The younger generations overwhelmingly support SSM, so in the absolute worst case all we have to do is wait for the older, more hate-filled generation to die off.

If you ignore the right of the religious to keep the original definition of a word they consider sacred. Are we going to re define the Atonement next? How about Pastor?

I'm sorry but what the ****? Please, for the love of god, point out anywhere in the constitution or US law that christians have a right to force their narrow definition of a word on everyone else. I don't think you know what a right is.
 
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Bull****. If you people actually considered marriage sacred you'd also be throwing hissy fits over our greater than 50 percent divorce rate and how we've made gameshows out of it.

That's interesting. So it is your theory that conservative Christians have not, over the past few decades, devoted time effort and space to talking about the breaking up of the American family, and how destructive that is?


Do you ever read the people you are discussing?
 
Bull****. If you people actually considered marriage sacred you'd also be throwing hissy fits over our greater than 50 percent divorce rate and how we've made gameshows out of it. This comes only from a place of hate. Historically marriage has had MANY definitions. You do not get to force your narrow definition on the rest of us.

Mind your own business and stop trying to be spiteful over something that has zero effect on your life.

Religious people do comment negatively towards divorce.
 
That's interesting. So it is your theory that conservative Christians have not, over the past few decades, devoted time effort and space to talking about the breaking up of the American family, and how destructive that is?


Do you ever read the people you are discussing?

Actually, you guys do not. It is even apparent on this forum. Where are all the threads on divorce? How about the ones on adultery? You are plenty happy to bitch about gay marriage but very little energy and time is dedicated to talking about heterosexual divorce and infidelity.
 
Bull****. If you people actually considered marriage sacred you'd also be throwing hissy fits over our greater than 50 percent divorce rate and how we've made gameshows out of it. This comes only from a place of hate. Historically marriage has had MANY definitions. You do not get to force your narrow definition on the rest of us.

Mind your own business and stop trying to be spiteful over something that has zero effect on your life.

Oh, and in case you forgot, people like yourself demanded they change their views on divorce. It's a little stupid to order they do something and then use their compliance against them.
 
Religious people do comment negatively towards divorce.

Very rarely. It's hard to get to it when all you think about is gay sex.

That's interesting. So it is your theory that conservative Christians have not, over the past few decades, devoted time effort and space to talking about the breaking up of the American family, and how destructive that is?


Do you ever read the people you are discussing?

Bull****. As CriticalThought already pointed out, 99% of the christian whine threads are about SSM, and nobody is talking about the abomination that is the Bachelor. It's the same reason you people focus on discrimination against homosexuals instead of discrimination against all sinners. You pick the sins you hate the most then focus on it.

Oh and in case you forgot people like yourself demanded they change their views on divorce. It's a little stupid to order they do something and then use their compliance against them.

Incorrect. I do not insert myself into other peoples lives and force them to change things. Christians can be as bigoted and as hateful as they want. The only thing I care about is that they do not have the power to force their religous will on anyone else. That is all.
 
Incorrect. I do not insert myself into other peoples lives and force them to change things. Christians can be as bigoted and as hateful as they want. The only thing I care about is that they do not have the power to force their religous will on anyone else. That is all.

Well that's nice, but atheists like yourself have been telling religious people to keep their mouth shut about divorce for decades now.
 
Well that's nice, but atheists like yourself have been telling religious people to keep their mouth shut about divorce for decades now.

Could you post an example of such?
 
Well that's nice, but atheists like yourself have been telling religious people to keep their mouth shut about divorce for decades now.

Please post a link for that. The divorce rate among christians is just about the same as the general population. So why don't you guys lead from the front? I don't respond to people simply whining, I respond to action. If they showed even the slightest inclination that they were fixing the problem, I might take them seriously. Until then it's just whining.

In fact, actually looking at the data, atheists/agnostics consistently seem to have a lower divorce rate than the religious.

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So pardon me if I don't take marriage advice from a group of bigots with a tremendously high divorce rate.
 
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1. Interracial marriage offended bigots who wanted to keep the races separate. It had nothing to do with religion

Wrong... many justified their bigotry based on religion. That argument still is used today.

Old Testament Reveals God's Creation and Separation of Races, Racial Purity; Forbidding, Punishing Intermarriage; God's Chosen Race.

God Created Species, Commanded Purity of Breed

Genesis 1:11, 20-21, 24-25. God Created all living things and commanded every creature to bring forth after its kind. (Animals group with kind through God-given instinct).

Mixing Caused the Flood

Genesis 6:1-7 “…and they took them wives of all which they chose.” The promiscuous co-habitation of “sons of God” (Seth's Godly line) with “daughters of men” (Cain's worldly line), resulted in breakdown of morality, provoking the Lord to destroy the earth by flood.

Origin and Separation of Races

Genesis 9:18-10:32. After the flood Noah's sons Shem, Ham (meaning “dark”), and Japheth fathered three racial groups which migrated to different continents. “…and by these were the nations divided after the flood.”

Segregation and God's Word - interracial marriage forbidden
 
Very rarely. It's hard to get to it when all you think about is gay sex.

On the contrary. It is simply that SSM is what is controversial, and so that is what gets attention. What you are depending on here is the availability heuristic.

Bull****. As CriticalThought already pointed out, 99% of the christian whine threads are about SSM, and nobody is talking about the abomination that is the Bachelor.

1. Threads in here are hardly representative.
2. If you want a discussion in the effects of the breakdown of the modern family, feel free to actually peruse social conservative literature, or simply conservative literature that discusses social trends. We've been hammering on this since at the late 1960s. Have you seriously never heard of Patrick Moynihan? Charles Murray? Charles Dobson? The SSM debate is simply a part of the larger discussion about marriage and families in our country - it's a subsection of the debate you are claiming isn't happening.

It's the same reason you people focus on discrimination against homosexuals instead of discrimination against all sinners.

:shrug: only one is currently likely to try to use the coercive power of the state to try to force us to violate our deeply held beliefs. Last I checked, no one was going to threaten the family of pizza shop owners because they didn't want to host a Divorce Party or an Orgy.

You pick the sins you hate the most then focus on it.

:shrug: It's not hate - and yes, we would know better than you the content of our own thoughts - it's an unwillingness to give up our beliefs to celebrate that which we disagree with. I agree, it is easier for the church to oppose things like SSM than it is for them to oppose things like no-fault divorce, and that is probably part of why you see a discrepancy there. It is sort of like how you are a "Libertarian" who is apparently nonetheless willing to punish people for thought crime, and bring the violence of the state to bear against fellow citizens for remaining faithful to the tenets of their religion in ways that don't harm others.
 
over 333 posts and not one person has been able to answer the OP, thats VERY telling :D

can ANYBODY do it using facts? . . ANYBODY?
 
On the contrary. It is simply that SSM is what is controversial, and so that is what gets attention. What you are depending on here is the availability heuristic.

1. Threads in here are hardly representative.
2. If you want a discussion in the effects of the breakdown of the modern family, feel free to actually peruse social conservative literature, or simply conservative literature that discusses social trends. We've been hammering on this since at the late 1960s. Have you seriously never heard of Patrick Moynihan? Charles Murray? Charles Dobson? The SSM debate is simply a part of the larger discussion about marriage and families in our country - it's a subsection of the debate you are claiming isn't happening.

:shrug: only one is currently likely to try to use the coercive power of the state to try to force us to violate our deeply held beliefs. Last I checked, no one was going to threaten the family of pizza shop owners because they didn't want to host a Divorce Party or an Orgy.

:shrug: It's not hate - and yes, we would know better than you the content of our own thoughts - it's an unwillingness to give up our beliefs to celebrate that which we disagree with. I agree, it is easier for the church to oppose things like SSM than it is for them to oppose things like no-fault divorce, and that is probably part of why you see a discrepancy there. It is sort of like how you are a "Libertarian" who is apparently nonetheless willing to punish people for thought crime, and bring the violence of the state to bear against fellow citizens for remaining faithful to the tenets of their religion in ways that don't harm others.

To give into the religious argument is to give into nixing all public accommodation laws. Labeling a belief or ideology as "religion" does not automatically elevate it to a higher standing. If Bob's "religion" is that providing food to black people is evil, that doesn't mean he gets a free pass, anymore than you do. Providing food to homosexuals who will then use it at their wedding does not violate the christian religion. That is completely fabricated and has no biblical basis.

You're still completely free to run a business as bigoted as you choose if you wish to make it a private one. However, if you want to open your business to the public, you have to open your business to the public. Business owners that wish to do that greatly benefit from the structure that society provides for that business to do commerce, and requiring a few tiny conditions for that is not unreasonable.

And as far as divorce, maybe we could all take you guys a little more seriously if christians weren't leading the country in divorce rates. Why don't you guys get your own house in order first?
 
Actually, you guys do not. It is even apparent on this forum. Where are all the threads on divorce? How about the ones on adultery? You are plenty happy to bitch about gay marriage but very little energy and time is dedicated to talking about heterosexual divorce and infidelity.

1. Adultery and Divorce are not common topics, and aren't generally very debatable.

2. If you want to read about what we actually say and think about this, feel free to peruse either myself or gathomas, who has been pretty outspoken on the issue. You will find a lot of that discussion in the threads on poverty reduction and household incomes, where conservatives repeatedly make the point that divorce has negative impacts on our economy. You will also find a lot of that discussion in the threads on child-rearing.

3. This forum is generally responsive - we tend to talk about what is in the news. No one gives a flying **** right now in the media that the Churches preach that divorce is wrong except in narrow cases because it's not a major political battle. They do talk about the Church's stance on SSM because that is a major political scandal.


If I may use an analogy - you probably care significantly more about your job than you do (for example) corporate tax policy. But I'll bet if I search through your posts, I will find you discussing tax policy a lot more than your job - because that is what is in the news, it is what periodically becomes a public political fight, and so it is more heavily represented on the threads here. By contrast, you will find me posting a good bit about my job - because my job is part of the public political debate. Heck, my job field has an entire sub-forum dedicated to it - because it is part of the public political debate. Divorce? Not so much. But you know what I care about more than I do my job field? My family. But you won't find many threads from me here about my family - because they aren't part of the public political debate. Pro SSM Advocates have been talking a lot more about SSM since the RFRA kerfuffle in Indiana - do you think that they cared less about SSM prior to that media flap up, and then suddenly had a change in their position? Or are they, like most of us, generally responding to what is in the news?

:shrug: if ever offered the ability to fix the high divorce rate and return America to a foundation of stable families, but with the inclusion of SSM couples in that, I would take that deal in a friggin heartbeat, and celebrate all night long afterwards. I've pointed out to you before on several occasions that the argument that it is better for society that gays be able to form stable families is the strongest argument in favor of SSM, and one that I find compelling. SSM is a subsection of the broader disagreement in our society over marriage - it just happens to currently be the most active one.
 
To give into the religious argument is to give into nixing all public accommodation laws.

That is incorrect. What the RFRA does is apply a standard of strict scrutiny to claims that the state must override religious objections. It doesn't "nix all public accommodation laws", it declares that if you are going to enforce one over religious objections, you have to be able to demonstrate a compelling government interest that cannot be achieved by less invasive means.

Take, for example, the original public accommodation laws associated with the Civil Rights movement. Blacks were not unable to get dinner at particular restaurants or stay in particular hotels - they were banned by a state enforced system from accessing entire industries. The burden placed on blacks by Jim Crow was systemic and universal in the South. That burden justified overriding religious objections. There is no such systemic / universal denial of access to homosexuals today, although if there were, I would agree they have a case. If an African American wanted to stay in a hotel in the south in the 1950s, too bad. If a gay person wants a wedding photographer today, there is an entire google search page full of entries, and if one doesn't want to do it, dial the next one on the list. That burden (having to call another provider on your cell phone) does not, in my opinion, generally justify overriding individual freedom of conscience, but there are potential examples that people on these boards have brought up where I have agreed it could be so - it would be up to the Court.

Labeling a belief or ideology as "religion" does not automatically elevate it to a higher standing.

Actually legally it does, however, broadly, we are attempting to defend everyone's right to conscience. If my business doesn't do gay weddings and that offends you, you should be just as free to refuse to do business with me. That's what you call a libertarian position.

Providing food to homosexuals who will then use it at their wedding does not violate the christian religion.

That's interesting. I had no idea that you were a mind reader, and capable of accessing the inner thoughts and beliefs of selected individuals half a globe away from you. Can you do this au natural, or do you need a giant metal sphere, like Professor X?

You're still completely free to run a business as bigoted as you choose if you wish to make it a private one. However, if you want to open your business to the public, you have to open your business to the public. Business owners that wish to do that greatly benefit from the structure that society provides for that business to do commerce, and requiring a few tiny conditions for that is not unreasonable.

"Violate your religion or we will destroy you" is not a tiny condition, and is only in very narrowly defined circumstances reasonable.

And as far as divorce, maybe we could all take you guys a little more seriously if christians weren't leading the country in divorce rates. Why don't you guys get your own house in order first?

:shrug: you'll get no argument from me that the church has fallen down on the divorce issue (the stats you are addressing, however have several problematic issues).

However,

A: in this country we consider the individual to be autonomous, rather than being issued identity, rights and privileges only inasmuch as they fall into an particular group. Among the ideologies who most strongly hold this position are a group of folks who go by the name of "libertarians". A "Libertarian" would tell you that to claim that a wedding photographer cannot be sincerely religious in New York because a couple got divorced in Ohio is a nonsensical argument, and that the New York individuals religious liberties and freedom of conscience are in no way reduced by the divorce of the Ohio couple. This is thus what you call a case of the whataboutism (long a favorite wriggle of those attempting to defend actions that are difficult to defend, such as using the coercive power of the State to force people to violate their religious beliefs), or the tu quoque fallacy.


B: Something else Libertarians would tell you is that it is wrong to bring the violence of the state to bear on people over thought crime - that an individual's right to live within the tenets of their faith and enjoy their freedom of conscience are limited only to the degree that their doing so harms others, and that when that does not harm others, then the State has no right to override it.


...But, then, that's just what Libertarians, the kind of people who believe in people being left to live their lives as they see fit so long as they don't harm others, would say. And you don't have any truck with them, now, do you?
 
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1. Interracial marriage offended bigots who wanted to keep the races separate. It had nothing to do with religion. The lifetime union between two people of opposite genders and different races still fits the original definition of marriage that I posted above.
2. the actual definition that I linked to above, the etymology of the word everyone seems to want to fight over.
5. So, now there are different kinds of marriage?
6. So you say.
7. So, there's no need to compromise because you side will win anyway? I suppose that's one way to look at it.
8. If you ignore the right of the religious to keep the original definition of a word they consider sacred. Are we going to re define the Atonement next? How about Pastor?

To many, it did have to do with their religion. Just because you don't think religion is involved with being against interracial relationships doesn't make it true in all cases.

We shouldn't "compromise" because it is not a real compromise. If someone demanded everyone stop using the word "black hole" because they claimed it is offensive, we wouldn't consider doing so, even if just in official documents, a compromise but rather insane appeasement.
 
To many, it did have to do with their religion. Just because you don't think religion is involved with being against interracial relationships doesn't make it true in all cases.

We shouldn't "compromise" because it is not a real compromise. If someone demanded everyone stop using the word "black hole" because they claimed it is offensive, we wouldn't consider doing so, even if just in official documents, a compromise but rather insane appeasement.


But they were interpreting the bible solely to endorse their racism which Jesus strictly forbid his followers to do. Wasn't the Christian religion. 'Twas bigots who "said" they were Christian but filled with racist hate. Jesus would have told them off.
 
Bull****. If you people actually considered marriage sacred you'd also be throwing hissy fits over our greater than 50 percent divorce rate and how we've made gameshows out of it. This comes only from a place of hate. Historically marriage has had MANY definitions. You do not get to force your narrow definition on the rest of us.

Mind your own business and stop trying to be spiteful over something that has zero effect on your life.



And what if it's someone's religion that black people shouldn't be married? Religion is an opinion. You seem to think you deserve special reverence and rights for your religion, and you don't. You're free to believe whatever you want, you're not free to force it on anyone else.



Yes.
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Stop pretending like your definition of marriage comes from your holy book. It comes from you and you're using your religion as a shield.


Yes, there's no reason to compromise with bigots that are only doing this to be hateful pricks. The younger generations overwhelmingly support SSM, so in the absolute worst case all we have to do is wait for the older, more hate-filled generation to die off.



I'm sorry but what the ****? Please, for the love of god, point out anywhere in the constitution or US law that christians have a right to force their narrow definition of a word on everyone else. I don't think you know what a right is.

The young are more ignorant of faith, which is why there into more sex, porn, drugs, living for themselves alone. Makes a real good society don't it?
And secularist also don't have the right to force there wills on religious people. First amendment. Works both ways.
 
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