This is like the whining of a child. This country was founded with the idea in mind that government of man by man is likely to be inherently evil, so if we have to vote for the lesser of two evils, that's what grown-ups have to do. But the notion that dictatorship would be a welcome relief based on the points you mention is wrong.
The first reason it's wrong is that it would willfully violate the US Constitution, and as citizens, we're really supposed to uphold it - the problem comes in cases where we disagree as to its meaning, but that's not a good reason to prefer dictatorship.
The second reason it's wrong is that the points you make are nonsense.
KBJ was not supposed to clarify her position on trans women while being vetted for an SC position which virtually guarantees that she'll be participating in a ruling about the issue.
Obama deported illegals at a higher rate in his term than Trump did in his first term, so you have no warrant to say Democrats are fine with open borders.
Blue states have managed to reduce their rates of violent crime under Democrats, and red states haven't.
Finally, Clinton and Obama lowered the national debt, while Reagan, Bush, Jr., and Trump all increased it. Yes, it went up under Biden, too, but you treat him as if he's the only Democrat, and then you say who cares if we turn into a dictatorship. Listen to yourself.
You are presenting a very unfair and unbalanced vision of Democrats.