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With all the politicizing of being homosexual, with the constant need to defend themselves in their tiny minority and abnormal defective sexuality from much larger more conservative and religious powers, do you think for a moment that you are likely to get a truthful answer here on a political discussion site???
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Why even you in your question substitute the politicized "gay" for the scientific homosexual.
It is not within the realm of serious consideration that homosexuals on this site will admit to the intrinsic existential suffering caused by homosexuality in and of itself.
Of course we won't, because our suffering is caused by attitudes like yours, its called oppression.
I had battled out in my youth, hatred myself for it and even at times was suicidal. Looking back on it, it was because my parents skated your opinion and I didn't think they would love me if I were gay. They spilled rhetoric much like yours, saying things like, "faggots are perverted mentally ill and need to be locked up". I was 12 when my mom sat me down and told me she would rather me be a murderer than a fag. I couldn't stop my feelings so I repressed the, felt guilty for having them, and denied them. It was only shortly AFTER meeting the love of my life that I was able to fully battle my demons. He was the victim of what I feared, which was alienation from my family. I realized he survived although broken hearted but he was still and I went to my folks and told them. "oh, okay." Was their response. What the hell was all of the hatred for in my youth? I asked them. "well we have grown since then".
That is all you have to do ontologuy, grow. Grow out of the necessity to get into others business, learn to accept things you cannot change. Homosexuality isn't a defect, prejudice is.