Do you honestly not understand that there's a difference between
trans people themselves saying and begging and pleading that they want to be recognized as the gender they've felt since childhood, and
other people imposing their own views onto unwilling subjects (be it change or stasis)? Or do you simply not care? On this issue conservatives, as usual, are on the wrong side of history, the wrong side of human progress: They are the
other people trying to impose their views onto trans people by denying them medical care, by taking a perverse pleasure in calling them the wrong names, by feeding a perverted obsession over which genitals may once have been between someone's legs, by targeting and demonizing one of the most marginalized groups in society.
The religious zealots trying to impose change against homosexual people in the name of 'normality' and their supposed 'common sense' are the same religious zealots trying to impose stasis against transgender people in the name of 'normality' and their supposed 'common sense.' If you don't see that - if your level of 'thinking' extends no further than "change is bad for gay people, so change is bad for trans people too" - then it's really no surprise that you've been so easily duped. If you just don't care to see it... well, that's simply the nature of prejudice, I suppose