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I can admit to being controlling and jealous at times. That's part of my personality, it doesn't encompass all of who I am either in or out of a relationship. That said, those are flaws I can live with. I would rather be controlling and jealous than be some chump.
I learned from experience that when it comes to women, a man has to take what he wants. Don't beat around the bush, and never apologize for who and what you are.
Women can be ruthless if you, as a man, don't take control and lay down the law. However, if you're strong and firm, the most ruthless woman can turn in to a dove and treat you how you deserve to be treated.
There is an inherent tension between men and women anyway. That's what gives rise to passion and desire. Without that, relationships would be boring. My feeling is that I as a man have the opportunity to grab life by the reigns, take what I want, and to hell with the rest. If one of us is going to take charge of the tension, maybe even introduce it, it's going to be me. And I enjoy being in control. So sue me.
Some woman ripped out your heart and stomped on it before walking away, did she? :lol: