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Dads allowed to rough up boys they catch doing inapprpriate things with daughters?

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LaMidRighter said:
Dude, the kid ****ed up and got beat. No matter how you word this he wouldn't have been punched if he wasn't doing what he was doing, the dad reacted the way he did, and the kid learned a lesson in respect. End of story.
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Not the end of the story in a civilized society with civilized laws.
End of the violence perhaps , but only the beginning of litigation against a thuggish, violent, criminal hot head who beats children out of emotional rage.
 
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Wiseone said:
Why do people mention things like "He pays the water and electric bills in this house?" As if paying the phone bill gives you the right to beat someone.
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We don't even know whether he pays the bills in the first place.
 
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ecofarm said:
The kid learned people hit when desperate for respect. That's all. Well, and he learned that his girlfriend's father is a psycho, and will be looking elsewhere. Good thing father "protected" her so valiantly. Any bets on him meeting the next boyfriend? That'll be a slimy guy in an alley, no shower. He better give her money for a hotel room, if only to save family name.
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If he gets convicted he's not going to be around to meet the next boyfriend. One of the charges against him is 1st degree child cruelty. That alone earns him a minimum of 5 years in the state penitentiary.
 
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If I was on the jury, I'd put his ass in jail. You don't have the right to beat someone up because they did something you didn't like. It's irrelevant that it happened in his house. The daughter invited the boy in, so it was not trespassing. That notion is ridiculous.
 
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Muhammed said:
If he gets convicted he's not going to be around to meet the next boyfriend. One of the charges against him is 1st degree child cruelty. That alone earns him a minimum of 5 years in the state penitentiary.
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As well it should be ...don't you agree?
 
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Wiseone said:
No just because its "his castle" doesn't mean he can do whatever he wants, the law gives me more leeway in his "castle" than other places but that doesn't mean there's no laws at all.

Welcome to reality.
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Laws - shmaws. The law won't protect you if they don't find you.
 
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Del Zeppnile said:
Laws - shmaws. The law won't protect you if they don't find you.[/QUOTE
Find you - Shmind you.
The boys mom has already pressed charges ...
...I think they know where he lives...
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LaMidRighter said:
One thing I came up with that a son of mine won't like(too bad) is that the conditions of him taking a girl out are going to be old school and one more:
1) He will knock on the door and not honk from the driveway, if the father wants to meet him, my son will do so happily.
2) He will open doors for the lady
3) He will pay, no dutch, non-negotiable, and if he is short on money he knows my number.
4) He will be a gentleman at all times, no means no, but there is some gray area. I will trust him to use his brain.
5) Under no circumstances will disrespect of the girl's home be tolerated
6) Provide her parent(s)' number, I will personally call and reassure the parent that if my son steps out of line I will punish him.
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Wisdom is so refreshing these days, great points!

Show me a parent who isn't watching out for their daughter this way, and I'll show you girl headed straight for a lot of heartache.


Good job!
 
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I love how by default all these "fathers" assume that they will be able to beat their daughters boyfriend's ass. Not every young man is a pipsqueek - all of sudden all these chest beating fathers will find the alternative, "Liberal garbage", approach more suitable when faced with not only a more younger and vital man, but also a bigger one.
 
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Zinthaniel said:
I love how by default all these "fathers" assume that they will be able to beat their daughters boyfriend's ass. Not every young man is a pipsqueek - all of sudden all these chest beating fathers will find the alternative, "Liberal garbage", approach more suitable when faced with not only a more younger and vital man, but also a bigger one.
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Well, sure there are some tough kids out there, there are also some bad ass fathers. I may be a stepdad to a little girl if things go right with her mother, that little girl is like my own already so the kid who wants to disrespect her BETTER be badder than me. Now, am I the baddest dude alive? No, there is always someone better but there are things I bring to the table, I am tough, I lift more than the average human being weighs, I hit hard, and I know how to hurt people but my choice is non-violence.

** Notice I said choice, when I feel that non-violence is no longer on the table, it's time to test out the other half of the equation and at that point..............well, the kid will want to be the better man, let's leave it at that.
 
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Del Zeppnile said:
Wisdom is so refreshing these days, great points!

Show me a parent who isn't watching out for their daughter this way, and I'll show you girl headed straight for a lot of heartache.


Good job!
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It cuts both ways, if a boy comes honking for my little girl, not going to happen, she is a human being and a lady and due respect, that honk is the first act of disrespect and in any household of mine.......the last. Some of my ideas are negotiable, respect for my loved ones is not.
 
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LaMidRighter said:
It cuts both ways, if a boy comes honking for my little girl, not going to happen, she is a human being and a lady and due respect, that honk is the first act of disrespect and in any household of mine.......the last. Some of my ideas are negotiable, respect for my loved ones is not.
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What about the 12 year old in the same scenario? ...You gonna punch him out and bloody his face as well?
Is smacking the step-daughter in the eye "understandable" with you?
You have been avoiding my questions.
 
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Buck Ewer said:
Is smacking the step-daughter in the eye "understandable" with you?
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It's a step daughter? That makes more sense.
 
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Buck Ewer said:
What about the 12 year old in the same scenario? ...You gonna punch him out and bloody his face as well?
Is smacking the step-daughter in the eye "understandable" with you?
You have been avoiding my questions.
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Your question has no merit. No, I will not strike a step daughter and I will not strike a 12 year old, but if an older teen is man enough to test the boundaries of my home AND he mouths off we will see what happens, I wouldn't put money on the teen. Again, as others have said bull, horns.
 
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LaMidRighter said:
Your question has no merit. No, I will not strike a step daughter and I will not strike a 12 year old, but if an older teen is man enough to test the boundaries of my home AND he mouths off we will see what happens, I wouldn't put money on the teen. Again, as others have said bull, horns.
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When he goes to the cops, how will you claim self defense? You'll be honest, plead guilty and go to jail? Will you be the "man" willing to accept consequences?
 
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ecofarm said:
When he goes to the cops, how will you claim self defense? You'll be honest, plead guilty and go to jail? Will you be the "man" willing to accept consequences?
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First off, the only command issued will be to leave, one smartass comment isn't leaving and around here that's enough for property defense. Anything else is on him.
 
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LaMidRighter said:
First off, the only command issued will be to leave, one smartass comment isn't leaving and around here that's enough for property defense. Anything else is on him.
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Good luck proving a smart ass comment is failing to leave, especially if the person is getting dressed.
 
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ecofarm said:
When he goes to the cops, how will you claim self defense? You'll be honest, plead guilty and go to jail? Will you be the "man" willing to accept consequences?
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You see it kind of works like this: Someone can say what they like, and I can smack them in the mouth. They will then claim that I have no right to smack them in the mouth and they can call the police and have me arrested, but the fact remains, they still have a smack in the mouth.

Sometimes it comes down to whether being right is worth more than a smack in the mouth. A real man accepts a well deserved smack in the mouth every bit as much he he is willing to give a well deserved smack in the mouth.

FWIW, I learned from a cop that it's better to smack a smartmouth with a open hand really hard in the back of the head. It doesn't break the skin or leave a mark that is easy to see, and it gets maximum attention from said smartmouth. It's a really good tool to have LOL!
 
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hahaha
 
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Your Star said:
If I was on the jury, I'd put his ass in jail. You don't have the right to beat someone up because they did something you didn't like. It's irrelevant that it happened in his house. The daughter invited the boy in, so it was not trespassing. That notion is ridiculous.
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Its the father's house, not the daughter's. Therefore it is trespassing.
 
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CRUE CAB said:
Glad I had no daughters, ever boy they brought home would be met by me with a gun on my hip.
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I'm glad you have no daughters too.

I have daughters and I felt no need to do that. Why the hell would you want to scare away their boyfriends? Just to make their life miserable? Or what?

What is your reasoning?
 
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LaMidRighter said:
Your question has no merit. No, I will not strike a step daughter and I will not strike a 12 year old, but if an older teen is man enough to test the boundaries of my home AND he mouths off we will see what happens, I wouldn't put money on the teen. Again, as others have said bull, horns.
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Older teen? The next question is where do you draw the line? Or is it arbitrary? Would you ask his age before you start swinging? Your child abusing hero has struck his step daughter in the eye... What if nude shower boy was a tall 14 and "disrespected" you? Would you bloody up his face?
There is no merit whatsoever in your thuggish threats and random age distinctions. Do you even consider the legal ramifications of your emotion driven desire for violence towards minor children if the situation is right, or is it purely neanderthal brute instinct that arbitrarily draws that line for you?
BTW 12 or 17 ... a conviction of violent assault on a minor will draw the same prison sentence.
...And what about the gay step-daughter? Do you give her 17 year old girlfriend coming out of the shower the same fisticuffs treatment if she gives you some lip or is your violent thuggery against minors gender sensitive?
You like to think of yourself as a big bad tough guy ...your avatar displays that plainly. When called out on it you draw back with reasonableness and conditional boundaries.
I find any man of any size willing to beat up a minor under any conditions, other than self defense, despicable.
 
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Del Zeppnile said:
You see it kind of works like this: Someone can say what they like, and I can smack them in the mouth. They will then claim that I have no right to smack them in the mouth and they can call the police and have me arrested, but the fact remains, they still have a smack in the mouth.

Sometimes it comes down to whether being right is worth more than a smack in the mouth. A real man accepts a well deserved smack in the mouth every bit as much he he is willing to give a well deserved smack in the mouth.

FWIW, I learned from a cop that it's better to smack a smartmouth with a open hand really hard in the back of the head. It doesn't break the skin or leave a mark that is easy to see, and it gets maximum attention from said smartmouth. It's a really good tool to have LOL!
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See you in jail.
LOL
 
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