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I seriously believe you do agree with me but don't necessarily want to admit it.
I can tell you are someone who respects the established doctrine of "Politically Correct" group think. But deep down you say that race has nothing to do with this, however you attempt to defend those who do believe it is a racial case in nature because you don't want to be seen as betraying the politically correct line of thinking.
This is why when pushed for a reason why this case could possibly be racial, all you can come up with is the classic standby that people use in every... single... situation. "History".
The problem I have with that is that History is History. It happened in the past, it will never change........ and can't, in my opinion, automatically be applied to just about anything to create a racial debate about a case/incident where absolutely nothing was racial about it until particular racist individuals decided it was.
Don't get me wrong... I don't think you are a bad person or anything.... I just think you are trying too hard to defend idiots on the progressive side of the table on this one.
Just because you are "progressive" and they are "progressive" doesn't mean you always have to agree. Its okay to disagree with people who share the same political lean as you.
And...... its okay to disagree with the "politically correct" group think.
I agree.
However, turning a non-racial incident into a racial incident does NOTHING to help minimize racism. Instead it drives a deeper wedge right into the middle of race relations in this country. That is what I have been saying about this case.. if you haven't understood my message on the race issue.
I must say i get the impression you may have made assumptions about my thinking based, I assume, on my political leanings. I can't see anything I have posted that would honestly lead you to believe I am lying to myself or that I secretly agree with you. I promise you, I think things through very thoroughly and make choices based on what makes sense to me. I shy very much away from thinking like the herd. I am no intellectual lemming. But, as much effort as I put into forming my opinions I, just like everyone, I am imperfect. A good, healthy, smart challenge either strengthens my opinion or helps it to evolve. I'm not afraid of being wrong.
I think it is hard for some people to not feel,when I reference our history, like a finger is being pointed at them. I am not pointing fingers at any other group. Instead I am pointing out that our history as individuals as well as various groups (family, friends etc) shapes us. I am merely noting that it is impossible to avoid being shaped by our past or the past of our fathers and mothers. For instance, my father was an abusive alcoholic he would beat and sexually abuse my mother regularly and abuse his seven daughters on a regular basis. As I grew into an adult I recognized that when men got aggravated, they frightened me. I also had a profoundly difficult time trusting them. Luckily I met good men who taught me something different. But given my circumstances my fear and lack of trust made perfect sense and if I hadn't been blessed with good men later in my life, if instead those negative lessons about men were reinforced by more abusive men. Then I would be stuck in that thinking and it is my guess that if you met me and wondered why I was so untrusting of men, if I told you my history,....you would understand and give me room. Maybe even may an effort to set a different example. This is my point. I am still responsible for making an effort to be fair and not judge someone else for the actions of my father but to recover from that kind of trap someone had to give me a hand.
As for "politically correct", I think the notion of political correctness is ridiculous and have no fear of challenging a behavior that keeps us from connecting with reality. Both parties have flaws.
Again, we will have to agree to disagree (which is fine) with each other on whether or not this case had racial overtones. I will always believe it was a factor. I was merely trying to point out that people often see things differently, I just happen to believe that the best way for us to live in peace with one another and for everyone to have the best chance of achieving the best life possible for themselves and the people they care about, we need to be compassionate towards one another and make an effort to hear one another.
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