I don't get it. Most of my family is female. Lots of aunts, cousins and sisters. All highly intelligent. As is my wife. That is the norm in my life. So I can't help wondering - just who are all these stupid women you guys seem to think don't know about adoption?
It's not that people don't KNOW about adoption. It's like Dr. Chuckles says: people don't know the ins and outs. Consider you find out you're pregnant this morning. (Yeah, I know, medical miracle.) You have a relatively small window of time to make your decision. "I could choose to go to the clinic this morning and be done with it, or I could choose to give this baby up for adoption." Where do you start if you have some interest in adoption? Most women wouldn't have one clue where to begin.
Most women don't
know it's almost impossible to adopt a baby in the United States . . . the waiting period is
years and years. A class that points that out -- walks a person through that process -- offers guidance in that direction -- gives a woman an opportunity to seriously consider that option and the tools with which she can make that happen could be a wonderful gift. A gift to herself, to a baby and to a childless couple. There are worse things in life.
I have a huge frickin' problem with govt. mandating 'classes' on adoption. Like I said, everyone knows of the option, if a woman wants to do that, she can seek out the information. Women not interested in that option should not be forced to sit through 3 hours of bullcrap anti choice propaganda.
BTW, I don't give a flying fig what you or your ilk think of my attitude. My attitude is just fine, according to me, and that is all that matters.
Now, you can stop the insults as I have not thrown any at you.
Comparing a woman who chooses adoption to being a brood mare for the barren is offensive.
I don't know what you mean by "you and your ilk" since I'm prochoice. I find other prochoice people who don't understand that having an abortion is a serious decision that should be made with all the facts one can muster to be callous, defensive and heartless.
My belief comes from personal experience. My stepdaughter got pregnant at 18, abortion wasn't available to her in the US at that time. She lived at home...never told her mom she was pregnant until she went into labor. Social services at the hospital helped her place her baby with one of those barren families you denigrate. Flash forward twenty years and more. Mom and baby were re-united. She's an absolutely beautiful woman who looks just like her mother. Eerily so, actually. Lovely family; two beautiful children of her own. She and her birth mother have a wonderful relationship.
So, let's see -- biological waste in a bucket? Or this gal? Ask the biological mom and her daughter which one they'd prefer.
Prolife supporters need to stop being so defensive, in my opinion. Three hours. For a possible life and a lifetime. Somehow that's horrendous? I don't get it.