Can i get married?

[Simon W. Moon]

as i mentioned in another thread. Talk to the mormon church about that.

I was just being a grammar-nazi for fun and...something.

 

[Jerry]

My girlfriend and i wish to get married.

1. We are currently living together (yes, we live in sin)
2. I enjoy giving anal sex to her from time to time (yes, im living in sin)
3. She enjoys receiving anal sex from me (yes, she too is living in sin)
4. If we do get married, we are not going to have children because we simply do not want them. (ohh blasphemy!)

Am i permitted by law to get "married"?

You sure can, doesn't mean you should, though.

Are you doing anything to account for your belonging to a high-risk-of-divorce demographic?

 

[Jerry]

ahhh, just as I thought, but let me spell it out for you.


A good majority of religious people want to prevent homosexuals from getting married. Something to do with the "Sanctity of Marriage" thing. If these people wish to protect marriage, i would certainly think that I, too would be placed in the same category of homosexuals. You see, everything i mention above goes against religion.
Can you image what the religious zealots would do IF i got my GF pregnant and didnt get married? ohhh the humanity!

So yes this is a bait-thread for the religious, which is why I'm here; I saw a fellow troll and wanted to play to. So toss me the ball already :mrgreen:

 

[Jerry]

as I said....yet another thread whining about gay marriage....next

madman likes to rant against the religious, and to be fair they make themselves juicy targets, but the scripture itself says that gays 'receive within them the due penalty'. That 'due penalty' is infection, among other things.

 

[madman]

You sure can, doesn't mean you should, though.

Are you doing anything to account for your belonging to a high-risk-of-divorce demographic?

care to explain why i shouldn't.
and LOL at the silly high risk statement. According to statistics, everyone is high risk.

Can you tell me why " good christians" get divorced>?

 

[madman]

madman likes to rant against the religious, and to be fair they make themselves juicy targets, but the scripture itself says that gays 'receive within them the due penalty'. That 'due penalty' is infection, among other things.

I love to rant against hypocrites.
LOL at your silly scripture.

 

[Jerry]

care to explain why i shouldn't.

I didn't say you shouldn't, we haven't had that conversation for me to know the facts of your situation to make the judgement call.

I said being able to doesn't mean you should.

Pre-marital cohabitation increases your chances of divorce. I was asking if you were doing anything to account for that. Are you?

and LOL at the silly high risk statement. According to statistics, everyone is high risk.

Well your poll doesn't ask about everyone, it asks about you, so we're talking about your situation. Just because half the people who marry will divorce doesn't mean you have to be one of them.

Can you tell me why " good christians" get divorced>?

Some live together before they get married.....

 

[StillBallin75]

My girlfriend and i wish to get married.

1. We are currently living together (yes, we live in sin)
2. I enjoy giving anal sex to her from time to time (yes, im living in sin)
3. She enjoys receiving anal sex from me (yes, she too is living in sin)
4. If we do get married, we are not going to have children because we simply do not want them. (ohh blasphemy!)

Am i permitted by law to get "married"?

So, is anal sex going to be your preferred method of contraception?

 

[madman]

I didn't say you shouldn't, we haven't had that conversation for me to know the facts of your situation to make the judgement call.

I think that's what you were alluding to

Pre-marital cohabitation increases your chances of divorce.

can you back up your assertion there?

Well your poll doesn't ask about everyone, it asks about you, so we're talking about your situation. Just because half the people who marry will divorce doesn't mean you have to be one of them.

It was simply a scenario. I've been married for 14 years, lived with her for 2 years before that, and had pre-marital sex. What did i do to help prevent divorce, absolutely NOTHING.

 

[madman]

So, is anal sex going to be your preferred method of contraception?

go back and read #4

 

[Jerry]

can you back up your assertion there?

While the leading cause for divorce is fighting over money, we haven't gotten to your financial situation yet. You had mentioned cohabitation, so I thought that would be a good starting point.

Living Together First Doesn

Cohabitation: Issues That Affect Intimacy | Psych Central

....The probability of a first marriage ending in divorce within 5 years is 20 percent, while the probability of a couple living together breaking up after 5 years is 49 percent. Those are sobering numbers, indeed.

Cohabiting couples aren’t necessarily doomed to failure. Like most things, it’s not the obstacles or the numbers that matter but the reasons behind them and whether they are relevant to your situation. By becoming aware of the issues and carefully working them through together before you call the moving vans or rent the truck, you are less likely to be surprised by an outcome you neither predicted nor wanted.......

It was simply a scenario. I've been married for 14 years, lived with her for 2 years before that, and had pre-marital sex. What did i do to help prevent divorce, absolutely NOTHING.

If you're already married, then the answer to your poll question is 'no, you can't get married, because you're already married and polygamy is not legal'.

Also, in your OP you said you have a girlfriend. Does you wife know you're cheating on her?

 

[madman]

While the leading cause for divorce is fighting over money, we haven't gotten to your financial situation yet. You had mentioned cohabitation, so I thought that would be a good starting point.

Living Together First Doesn

Cohabitation: Issues That Affect Intimacy | Psych Central




If you're already married, then the answer to your poll question is 'no, you can't get married, because you're already married and polygamy is not legal'.

Also, in your OP you said you have a girlfriend. Does you wife know you're cheating on her?

Go back and re-read the last part of this post: http://www.debatepolitics.com/sex-and-sexuality/101793-can-get-married-6.html#post1059577376

The KEYWORD: scenario

 

[Jerry]

Go back and re-read the last part of this post: http://www.debatepolitics.com/sex-and-sexuality/101793-can-get-married-6.html#post1059577376

The KEYWORD: scenario

All you did was link to the top of this page :lol:

Where is the word "scenario" in your OP:

My girlfriend and i wish to get married.

1. We are currently living together (yes, we live in sin)
2. I enjoy giving anal sex to her from time to time (yes, im living in sin)
3. She enjoys receiving anal sex from me (yes, she too is living in sin)
4. If we do get married, we are not going to have children because we simply do not want them. (ohh blasphemy!)

Am i permitted by law to get "married"?

You said have a girlfriend. You also said you have a wife. Does your wife know you have a girlfriend? Does your wife know you're having anal sex with your girlfriend? Does your wife know you might want to marry your girlfriend?

 

[BamaBrat]

care to explain why i shouldn't.
and LOL at the silly high risk statement. According to statistics, everyone is high risk.

Can you tell me why " good christians" get divorced>?

Is there a point to this thread??? Lots of folks get married, whether they live together and have anal sex or not. Lots of folks get divorced, whether they live together and have anal sex or not. Divorce happens and the numbers are quite staggering, whether you are Christian or not... point in all this????

 

[BDBoop]

Is there a point to this thread??? Lots of folks get married, whether they live together and have anal sex or not. Lots of folks get divorced, whether they live together and have anal sex or not. Divorce happens and the numbers are quite staggering, whether you are Christian or not... point in all this????

The point in my estimation is that people don't want SSM due to the "sanctity of marriage."

 

[OscarB63]

The point in my estimation is that people don't want SSM due to the "sanctity of marriage."

actually, the "point" was that the OP started an obvious F/B/T thread trashing religious people and then got his knickers all in a wad when he was called on it.

if he really wanted to seriously discuss the issue of SSM, he should have come out and said it, instead of opening with his smarmy OP

 

[madman]

All you did was link to the top of this page :lol:

Where is the word "scenario" in your OP:



You said have a girlfriend. You also said you have a wife. Does your wife know you have a girlfriend? Does your wife know you're having anal sex with your girlfriend? Does your wife know you might want to marry your girlfriend?

I swore i had the right link. If this one doesnt work go to post #59 (the last part of 59)
http://www.debatepolitics.com/sex-and-sexuality/101793-can-get-married-6.html#post1059577376

 

[madman]

The point in my estimation is that people don't want SSM due to the "sanctity of marriage."

exactly! if premarital sex, anal/oral sex/ living together before marriage is such taboo in the christian religion, why is there so much outrage just over SSM?

Hypocrisy from the christian religion!
This just shows how much religious people use their religion to mask their hatred towards other HUMANS.

 

[madman]

actually, the "point" was that the OP started an obvious F/B/T thread trashing religious people and then got his knickers all in a wad when he was called on it.

if he really wanted to seriously discuss the issue of SSM, he should have come out and said it, instead of opening with his smarmy OP

The point was to point out the hypocrisy. Why do christians ignore some of their rules but enforce others?

I see many people can not defend this hypocrisy.

 

[BDBoop]

exactly! if premarital sex, anal/oral sex/ living together before marriage is such taboo in the christian religion, why is there so much outrage just over SSM?

Hypocrisy from the christian religion!
This just shows how much religious people use their religion to mask their hatred towards other HUMANS.

Did you see this story? Short and sweet.

Republican New York Senator Comes Out For Gay Marriage With Awesome Quote: Pics, Videos, Links, News

 

[BDBoop]

The point was to point out the hypocrisy. Do do christians ignore some of their rules but enforce others?

I see many people can not defend this hypocrisy.

Only every day.

Plus, if you do a search on Captain Courtesy (sorry, don't know if there's a space or _ or what in there), you'll find that he's already shown how come the people who believe homosexuality IS wrong, ARE wrong.

 

[madman]

Did you see this story? Short and sweet.

Republican New York Senator Comes Out For Gay Marriage With Awesome Quote: Pics, Videos, Links, News

Thanks! yes, that's great! it's about time that these republicans wake up to reality.

 

[BamaBrat]

The point in my estimation is that people don't want SSM due to the "sanctity of marriage."

But didnt he say he was married to a girl??? What exactly does that have to do with SSM?

 

[MaggieD]

My girlfriend and i wish to get married.

1. We are currently living together (yes, we live in sin)
2. I enjoy giving anal sex to her from time to time (yes, im living in sin)
3. She enjoys receiving anal sex from me (yes, she too is living in sin)
4. If we do get married, we are not going to have children because we simply do not want them. (ohh blasphemy!)

Am i permitted by law to get "married"?

If you don't know the answer to that question all by yourself, I hope you can't get a license.

 

[BamaBrat]

I love it when folks paint with such broad brushes. As if every single Christian, republican or democrat is exactly the same and states the same thing with one voice.

Sin is sin and its between you and whatever God you do or dont serve. The fact that two guys or two girls want to get married and live happily ever after is no skin off my nose, its just not for me personally.